While she was visiting (wife is out of the country) we went dancing and things got a bit heated. There was alot of touching a little kissing. When we got home there was more touching. We always stop but I really would like to go on, just once.
2007-04-18 13:54:32 · 24 answers · asked by Daivd M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Come on think about it....is it worth 30 mins in bed to destroy what you have built with your wife?
You have already crossed the line with your sister-in-law....drop it now and pray your wife doesn't find out, if you truly love her.
2007-04-18 14:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Angel W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't sleep with your friend just because things get a little tense. That could be the worst thing to do in your case. It would probably hurt both of you, and create more tension, plus botch up your chances for having a great dating relationship later. Sleeping with someone hardly ever solves the problem. How about you talk to him about your relationship. It sounds to me like you two could make an excellent couple, so why not do it right and date before you sleep together? Don't worry about damaging your friendship, because the best relationships are those that happen when you've been friends first. And if it doesn't work out, believe it or not, you can still be friends, I've accomplished that before, it can be done. Don't ruin what you have by jumping to sex before you've even hit the best part, a budding relationship with a guy you've loved as a friend compares to nothing else.
2016-05-18 03:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this would be one bad idea..if you did go on just once..everything in your life changes..i assume that this is the first time you have ever crossed the line as much as you already have..you not only would ruin your relationship with your sister in law..you would ruin the one with your wife..you dont say how she is your sister in law...again i assume here its her sister..you would also ruin that relationship between the two of them..not that it would be all your fault you both would be the one to make that decision..but your wife would not get to choose what happens..you married her for better or worse..not when her sister starts too look good..i hope you figure out what is going on and realize this is not a good thing..for anyone concerned..
2007-04-18 14:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't that qualify as an affair? There may be a lot of feeling and tension between you two, but that doesn't make it right. And than you have your wife to think of. Do you have any idea of what she will go through? The heartbreak and the betrayal? You may think that it's what should happen but you also have to think about what will happen if you do.
2007-04-18 14:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you act, think if it is worth your marraige. This will only lead to bad feelings and possible divorce. If you are happily married then you should be faithful to your wife. Even just once will lead to problems. One time is not worth everything you have with your wife. Would you want her to do the same to you? I have been in that situation before with my husband being unfaithful and I cannot never forget it. The hurt is horrible and I dont think anyone should experience this.
2007-04-18 14:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ms K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a really selfish thing to even consider.Your wife should mean alot more to you than a one-time sexual experience,that could and would cause a whole world of hurt and mistrust forever.Ask yourself,"Would this be truly worth it?"If so then you should consider not being married.
2007-04-18 15:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by dubbz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself two questions:
1. What is the worst thing that could come from your decision to act on your physical tension?
2. What is the best thing that could come for your decision to act on your physical tension?
Maybe things will be a little more clear.
Is a moment of passion worth a lifetime of regret?
2007-04-18 14:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt persue this, even if you guys have a lot of sexual tension, in the end...think of who you are hurting. It may seem like a good idea right now, but years from now will you still think the same way?
2007-04-18 14:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you so desperate that you have to oink your relative! A descent brother would bow out, it would make you a pervert in the family not being able to control your dick, never trust with the kids, labled a pervert, your mother would hide in shame. And then theres revenge of your brother and quite possibly family rift, the bible warns against a man that takes his bros wife. So ditch the witch, who you'd never trust your back to, blood thicker brother. Other women--thats the answer.
2007-04-18 14:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know exactly wut u r goin through, me and my soon to be brother-in-law have a lot of sexual tension between us too. its hard for me to resist my brother in law. my i dont want to hurt my sister and i know u dont want to hurt ur wife so i think the best thing to do is try to stay away from ur sister-in-law. i just asked a question just like this earlier today and everyone told me to move on he is with my sister and we arent ever gonna be together. just stay strong dont give in to her. i hope everything works out the way it should.
2007-04-18 14:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by crissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋