Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

For some reason i cant stand my dad! When he is in the same room i have to go. We have no relationship whats so ever and i dont know why. I dont even remember the last time we spoke. I am not really close to any of my family but we do speak. But my dad doesnt seem to like me and seems to do things to really annoy me. When i was little i was scared of him but now i am not. Do you think thats why i dont like him? I really have no idea, its weird. I just have this hated feeling towards him. I have been wondering if there is something but my mind wont let me know what it is..is that possible? I am not really sure what i mean lol but i hope someone can help me understand..

2007-04-18 13:19:40 · 16 answers · asked by Amz 2 in Family

Soooo a girl i know from school went out with a guy and cheated on him 3 times by having sex with other guys.....she is way into drugs and they had a brutal breakup...her and i became best friends and then not so much anymore...Jordan (her ex) and i started going out and things have been great....except for her. she gets in the way of everything and talks way too much s*** about us. she is even threatening to beat my *** cuz she wants him back....we are in a huge fight but it doesnt matter to me...too much drama. I just want her to leave me alone!!!! how can i do that??

2007-04-18 13:19:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have looked into getting a Visa but they are generally for people that have lived together for over a year...and we haven't. Can anyone give me some good advice? Please dont' tell me to buy a plane ticket!!!

2007-04-18 13:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by bloodywankers29 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter (26 yrs. old) says I'm pretty and I should wear them everywhere. I've just lost 26lbs, doing a make over.
It seems I'm being sabbataged on wearing my hair down and taking my glasses off. Also I'm told, "You are getting thin!"
I'm in my range of healthy weight. What should I do with a husband who feels threathen by all of this?

2007-04-18 13:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with my b/f and ever since, he has been calling me and leaving rude messages and leaving explicit pics...what should i do!!!

2007-04-18 13:16:58 · 52 answers · asked by JJ's Advice Column 4 in Singles & Dating

what we want them to be?

2007-04-18 13:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for fun things to do w/ small kids or just for a fun (cheap) date w/ my wife.

2007-04-18 13:14:28 · 2 answers · asked by Accountant 1 in Family

Personally I think sex is one of the best things ever. I know people are gonna say there is more to life and a relationship besides sex. I totally agree with that. Your emotional connections should always come first in a relationship and they are most important. But I hear some people(primarily women) saying that sex is over rated and that they don't need sex as much as a guy. I've always said that was a lie. Is sex really over rated or is it just the individuals viewing of sex, if so why are they like that?

2007-04-18 13:13:57 · 4 answers · asked by Wise Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents just took in a godchild.For the most part she is an okay girl but there is one problem she is VERY PROMISCUOUS!I introduced her to some neighborhood kids and that same day she tried to have sex with one of them. She waited 3 weeks later and had sex with a guy that she had just met. After a pregnancy scare and punishment,she vowed to be more selective.Then she met another neighborhood boy.I didnt want to give the guy's business but he had confided in me that he had gotten a STD but was never specific. Knowing her past history,I told her not to have sex with him and why not. So she had oral sex with him anyway only to end up with a cluster of blisters on her lips.She calmed down a bit.She met another guy and after knowing him for only a few days he was calling her derogatory names.Instead of her dropping him for calling her a "h^% a#$ B..", she had sex with him behind her job!And She has a nice Christian boyfriend!These boys dont even call her after What should we do with her?

2007-04-18 13:13:44 · 1 answers · asked by Mr$.Rob 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl in a slutty top, or a girl that covers up? HONESTLY

2007-04-18 13:11:12 · 29 answers · asked by NOT USING Y!A ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!! 5 in Singles & Dating

It was about 50 bucks and Im not sure what to do with it! HELP!

2007-04-18 13:09:56 · 48 answers · asked by Ella. 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends and mine relationship is not going as strong as it was, she pays more attention to her friends then my and seems to not talk to me. I try saying i love her but get no response help?

2007-04-18 13:07:31 · 22 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've worked so hard to get my credit score up to the 700's, he wants to get married but i keep telling him i cant until he gets his credit up, he gets mad, then lets it go. he's horrible with money. he gets those payday loans every month cause he's short on the rent. He pays all the rent and i pay all the utilities cause he cant remember to pay more then 1 item. creditors call everyday cause he doesnt pay his stuff. i havnt gotten a creditors call in yrs. I've told him he needs to do somthing about it, ive even made out a budget where he can pay his stuff on time every month and still have about 200 left over to do whatever he wants. the next month he wants to buy something thats more then 200 he gets mad at me and says if i would have never made out the budget he wouldnt have to worry about spending more then $200, i was floored. i was like "what?" he buys these $1000 on credit then dosnt pay it off. I'm sick of having 2 put everything in my name!

2007-04-18 13:06:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am really confused right now. There is this guy at my school and he has been sitting at my lunch table for like a couple of days now directly accross from me and he always defends me for some reason. A lot of my friends say that he likes me and that we would make a cute couple and that we should go out which I TOTALLY DO NOT WANT TO DO! Then one of my friends today just walked up to him and said that I wanted to be his girlfriend and I am soooooo mad about that. Ok just because I have never had a bf before (well in kindergarden i did, different story!) doesnt mean that I want to put up with all that drama in high school. The guy is nice to me, im not trying to be shallow but hes kinda ugly and Ive known him forver but I DO NOT WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM! Please i am in desperate need of help here. I would ask my best friend who goes to another school but shes grounded! So please help :-(

2007-04-18 13:06:21 · 19 answers · asked by pinkjunebug7 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 13:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by shorty54 1 in Friends

I'm already doing something, but I think I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.

2007-04-18 13:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by Shae C 4 in Friends

I will be away from him for two months. He will be free to hang out with her for as much as he wants I know he doesn't love her but he is inviting her on trips with us, parties,etc., plus, I know if I intervene she will do everything but beat me up, what do I do ?

2007-04-18 13:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

OK. this may sound weird but I'm in the 7th grade and when i started this new school in Allen,Tx i new things would be bad. THE UNDERSTAMENT OF THE YEAR. This kid who i guess hates me because of me being friends to his ex is well bullying me.He calls me gay, he says stuff just so other people can laugh, and plus every time he says it my so called friends laugh with him because there his friends too. So im stuck her not knowing what to do but ignore him but the problem is that the more i do the more it gets louder and louder. I don't to tell my parents because my mom works two jobs and my dad has just experienced the death of one of his best friends. I don't want to worry them. Reading this you must be exhausting but please HELP

2007-04-18 12:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband drinks a lot and i dont like the person he is when he drinks so i asked him not to drink in our house or around me. he can go to his freinds house to drink. he can stay there and chill with them and get all his problem off his chest.
we were both in the military he just got out i rejoined now he rubs it in my face every day that im still in the military while hes out getting drunk in the middle of the day. the reason i rejoined is so he could finish off his school. but that hasnt happend yet.
he says all i do is nag him and i do because i want him to start doing something
my question is am i wrong?

2007-04-18 12:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by kas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 12:59:00 · 7 answers · asked by moondog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm pregnant for 2 time. I stay home taking care of our son, and my pregnacy. My bf go to work for 12 hours went he get home he don't want be near me and he push me away, but when is time to give him food or do something for him he's ok. I told him that i want expend time with him because i don't see him all day, but he only wants me when he want sex. I knoe he loves me but since he found out I was pregnant again he change. He did the same way when I was pregnant by our son. I need some answers soon please.

2007-04-18 12:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 12:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by kiki0204 2 in Singles & Dating

Well i've had this boyfriend for about 8 months. I've given him head and all that stuff [i'm still a virgin] he's never gone down on me. He has alot of friends that are girls. He always ignores me for my friends. He made me cry today. What should I do?

2007-04-18 12:51:28 · 1 answers · asked by shelley a 2 in Singles & Dating

Is marriage REALLY jus like havin cable tv with only 1 channel sayin 2 urself, man I need another movie channel or somthin.?

2007-04-18 12:49:35 · 32 answers · asked by HJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I SHARED A SMALL JOKE WITH MY BOYFRIEND'S BROTHER, AND HIS BROTHER SAID THAT I SAID THAT THE REASON WHY HE NOT SPEAKING TO MY FRIEND IS BECAUSE SHE HAVE A BOYRIEND. WHILE WE WERE SPEAKING MY BOYFRIEND BROTHER SAID THAT STATEMENT.AT THE MOMENT I DID NOT FEEL LIKE CORRECTING WHAT HE SAID OR TELLING HIM WHY MY BOYFRIEND WAS NOT SPEAKING TO MY FRIEND. I LAUGH AGREED AND SPECIFICALLY REFERRED TO MY BOYFRIENDS FRIEND AS BEING THE ONE WHO STOP SPOKE TO MY FRIEND BECAUSE SHE GOT A BOYFRIEND....MY BOYFRIEND WAS STINKING MAD WITH ME WHEN HIS BROTHER THROUGH THE STATEMENT THAT I SUPPOSEDLY SAID IN HIS FACE,,,,,,,,........ADVICE

2007-04-18 12:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by emchick 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys would you ask out a girl if you knew she was a virgin and why?

I'm almost 21 so I don't want to here the answers I myself would normally give some one who is under aged.

If your not going to be 100% honest I perfer you not answer.

2007-04-18 12:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I like...I've seen him staring at me every day (In many random places...[cafeteria, class, hall ways, outside during our lunch period], so I know he's looking at ME, not someone else) for the past ten months. Every time my friends mention me, he smiles.
A few days ago, my friend asked him if he liked me. He said no (and he smiled!).

Ever since I've seen him staring twice as much as usual.


How can I be sure he likes me?
I don't want to talk to him If it's obvious he's not interested.

If he does like me, how do I talk to him?

2007-04-18 12:44:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ways to get rid of him
1. convince parents to bring him to orfhanage.
2. Dispose of him. hahaha
3.push him in front of a car.

Just Kidding I wouldnt do this to my brother.

2007-04-18 12:42:13 · 20 answers · asked by Mariah G 2 in Friends

2007-04-18 12:42:12 · 21 answers · asked by shorty54 1 in Singles & Dating

or you know nothing will happen. i really like my mate and he is the most sweetest person,a really good guy eventhough he is the most shallow person i have ever come across. he's kinda arrogant as well. i take the piss out of him all the time he does the same to me. i didnt really like him at first when i think i did like like me but i developed feelings for him and cant stop thinking bout him.dunno if he likes me back. he flirts with me ALOT but he always tells me all the other girls he likes so i dnt think he likes me. we are close to each other but i know that nothing will happen coz we are just friends.we did have our drunken nights where we end up telling each other r love for another and just be really touchy with each other but nothing ever happens

2007-04-18 12:40:41 · 1 answers · asked by oooops! 2 in Singles & Dating