you are going out with someone and people say he is cheating on you and your boyfirend says he is not who do y

Answer 1

What do you think?

No man is going to say, "Yes, I am cheating on you."

Answer 2

I have never met a man that will tell the truth if he is cheating. I would ask the people that are telling you where they see him when he is cheating. If it is some place that you can show up without being noticed. I would do a surprise visit. Once you see or do not see it with your own eyes there is no doubt. Sometimes other girls will tell you a man is cheating if they want him, so once you break up with him they make a move on him. Check it out for yourself.

Answer 3

Been there done that… it may work for you it may not. What I did is played the “somebody called me” game to see how he would react. I told my ex that someone was calling my phone and asked for him and I don’t know who it might be, then I had my best friend to call and keep hanging up on me while he was in front of me. He immediately started confessing and I found out what I wanted. If the relationship is worth a fight and you have a lot invested the right answers will come to you, but if he continues to lie about the situation and your intuition is telling you what is right the he is not worth the pain that you will have to go through when you see something that you don’t want to see or hear something that you don’t want to hear. You have to sometime find out things for yourself you can trust only you and your intuition. Nobody else lives your life or is in your relationship. Good luck.

Answer 4

Hi,
Don't jump to any conclusions! you don't know if he is right or wrong. You need to continue and ask people about it. Ask them where he is and who he might have the hots for. Who do think he is going with. Look in to it a bit more. Then try to track him down. Act casuall about. Observe him. See if he breaks any promises or anything out of the ordinary. If it seems like that, simply draw away atad bit at a time. Act normal but draw away and seem like you don't care and have him question you. If he question you then you will know that he's not cheating. He concern about you and observing you.

Answer 5

This is actually a tough one. Usually, if more than one person or group of people are telling you this, it turns out to be true. If you want to know for sure, I would not confront the bf with it yet. I wouldn't go all crazy stalker either, but I would ask my friends or the people who it was, and look for signs when you see the two of them talking. If your friends know when and where they have been hanging out, you could also show up there by chance to see for yourself. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

Most cheaters dont admit it. He wasnt exactly going to say "Why YES I have been cheating on you!". What reason does the other person have to lie to you. Is there more than one person saying it? Has that person ever been caught lying to you before? You have to go with the person you trust most and if you dont want to know if he is or not you better take extra care to protect yourself because you dont know what kind of disease he could spread to you. (Even just by kissing)

Answer 7

depends, some of them might be hating and some might be telling the truth.
a rumor starts from some form of truth, so maybe he was doing something, that others consider wrong.
and so many people are not gonna make up something like that.
it happened to me 3 -4 years ago. he said no and everyone said yes.
i asked him and he said if you love me then you would believe me, but thats bull it has nothing to do with that.
i knew when he said that that he was. so i said peace out and turned out he had cheated on me and the hyna was pregnant.

Answer 8

I would probably believe the other people. However, I would ask one of them that I trust to help me find out for myself. If they see him out to give you a call. Usually, the gf is the last to know so count yourself lucky if someone cares enough to tell you. keep you eyes and ears open. Sometimes it is better not to say anything for awhile so you can catch them. For your sake I hope he isn't. I hope everything turns out alright for you.

Answer 9

Be more aware of things your b/f says. Keep your eyes and ears open, eventually he'll mess himself up, if he's innocent no harm done! Does any of the people you spoke with have a grudge with you or him?? They may be telling the truth, keep your eyes open.

Answer 10

Keep on going with him if you really like him but dont get serious or anything until you find the truth. It would be horrible for him to have you dump him because of someone elses rumors, but sometimes rumors are true. just play it safe.