What to do with promiscuous teenager?

Question

My parents just took in a godchild.For the most part she is an okay girl but there is one problem she is VERY PROMISCUOUS!I introduced her to some neighborhood kids and that same day she tried to have sex with one of them. She waited 3 weeks later and had sex with a guy that she had just met. After a pregnancy scare and punishment,she vowed to be more selective.Then she met another neighborhood boy.I didnt want to give the guy's business but he had confided in me that he had gotten a STD but was never specific. Knowing her past history,I told her not to have sex with him and why not. So she had oral sex with him anyway only to end up with a cluster of blisters on her lips.She calmed down a bit.She met another guy and after knowing him for only a few days he was calling her derogatory names.Instead of her dropping him for calling her a "h^% a#$ B..", she had sex with him behind her job!And She has a nice Christian boyfriend!These boys dont even call her after What should we do with her?

Answer 1

WOW, she is a mess.... its time to be her new family. Time to set limits and boundries, something is isn't use to. One thing is that this girl has no business at this point in her life having relationships with men. She has issues with them, bad, bad issues, this behavior is very typical of melestation cases. But she isn't able to relate with males in any way other then sexually. WHICH IS BAD. She needs good friendships and she needs to learn to be a good friend to herself.... therapy might need to be considered. One thing is for certain she shouldn't be allow'd to run her own life, just look at what she is doing! You can't take away her right to do it, but man you don't need to let her be with you in the house if she isn't willing to be mature about her interpersonal relationships. Really this girl doesn't need to be around boys for a long, long time, maybe send her off to a nunery? Jusk Kinding, this is a classic bad situation thou and the only thing thats going to help it is if you guys treat her like friends and family. Give her a stern talking to when she does stupid things, and congralate her when she has done something towards the good. She is a victim, and has learn to be a victim, and well continue to until you teach her how to use that power between her ears, instead of her legs....