I will be away from him for two months. He will be free to hang out with her for as much as he wants I know he doesn't love her but he is inviting her on trips with us, parties,etc., plus, I know if I intervene she will do everything but beat me up, what do I do ?
2007-04-18 13:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see..you fear confronting him OR her, but you're unhappy. You say he doesn't "love" her, but it's obvious he likes her quite a bit, AND, you are leaving for 2 months. There is nothing at all you can do except say goodbye and forget about them!! CONFRONTING situations that make you uncomfortable is an ESSENTIAL communicating tool - without it, you will be stepped on, taken advantage of, ripped off and unhappy for a very long time. If you do not like being a door mat, stand up for yourself and tell it like you see it girl!!
2007-04-18 13:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go up to her and say u want my man u gonna get a fight so lets do it up country style right here right now, and see what she does if she wants a fight dodge what u can through some punches and beat her butt then talk to ur bf about it and tell him that u don't want him hanging out with her a whole lot because he might be giving her the wrong idea
2007-04-18 20:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he inviting her on trips and stuff, you should be honest with him and tell him how you feel and ask him to stay away!
2007-04-18 20:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by speakt124 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she "takes" him he wanted to be taken --- there is nothing you can do if he choses to be with her --- im sorry best wishes
2007-04-18 20:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋