my girlfriends and mine relationship is not going as strong as it was, she pays more attention to her friends then my and seems to not talk to me. I try saying i love her but get no response help?
2007-04-18 13:07:31 · 22 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's just not that into you. Move on.
2007-04-18 13:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time for the 'where are we at' chat! Every relationship needs it at some stage.
Tell her how you feel, and ask her for her honesty - no matter how good or how hurtful the truth may be. Besides cheaters, the main reason why relationships don't work is because the couple do not communicate!
My three rule of a relationship is honesty, trust, and communication. If both parties follow therse rules, although it may not always work out, the least hurt can be caused, because you are both 'in the circle' so to speak, and your always on the same page!
Good Luck darling. xo
2007-04-18 20:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Pebbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her you feel like she's pushing you away. She may be losing interest or she may feel she needs to have some space... or that you need some time for your friends. If she says nothing to the "I love you" maybe she's afraid of saying it back.. maybe she's been hurt before and has a fear of using the word unless she absolutely positively knows that she loves you too. There could be several reasons why she acts the way she does.. talking with her will be the only for certain way to know.
2007-04-18 20:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by boomboombaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up on her. she may be feeling a little strangled right now, like your smothering her and your relationship is moving a little fast. try just letting the slack loose a little, wait for her to call you or something like that, by no means though should you ignore her. girls like to be the ones pirsued but sometimes we forget that we should return the favor, cause everyone wants to feel wanted. Maybe something is going wrong with her friends right now and they need her to be there alot. It may seem like she's avoiding you but she could just be trying to balance her boyfriend, her friends and possibly school or family. You need to talk to her about it, don't get mad at her or anything just calmly explain that you need her to be there for you a little more than she is, and also ask what's going on in her life, if somehting is wrong then you could possibly help her out with it or at least you would understand why she may be acting distant. don't give up on her or yourself. girls are confusing creatures and we are only really understood by our own kind hehehe...
good luck!!! :D
2007-04-18 20:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most gurls need space from there man and yet you and her need it even though yous are still together yous don't have to be around each other 24/7 so yeah, but unless you 2 start talking real soon if yous don't then it might be sign that she might like some one Else instead of being with you and yet everyone needs some one to talk to but as i say to every other, you live your life instead of making it ****. OK
2007-04-18 22:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may want some time alone, and she probably not ready to say that she loves u. Talk to her and ask her if she want to be with u or not, if she say yes told her that u want the same attention that she give to hers friend or more because u are his bf.
2007-04-18 20:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious sit down with her. Have you tried telling her that you two need to talk about your relationship? Just telling her that you love her isn't going to help. She can't read your mind. Speak up and tell her how you're feeling and if she cares, she will work it out with you.
2007-04-18 20:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by kurdgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go plan a weekend away, create it so that she is left compelled to go, and excited by the prospect of an adventure.
I would also stipulate no mobile phones on that weekend away.
Go have a hot weekend, with your favourite girl, doing the things you both love
2007-04-18 20:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by MonStar Match 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a simple test:
when you are not getting a response you want, try something new.
You tell her you love her and pursue her, but she ignores you or pulls away.
Back off and see what happens. If she really wants you, then she will come back to you. If she doesn't pursue you as a result, then she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
2007-04-18 20:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dear Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry it sounds like she is losing interest. Try talking to her and tell her what you are feeling. Get her to tell you if something is wrong and if so what is it? Take it from there. If she does love you then ask her how you can make things better.
2007-04-18 20:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is falling out of love, babe.
Ask her why she has been this way lately.
Make sure to explain how YOU feel. Dont pin it on her.
Be honest. Honesty is the best policy and you might learn alot more about her than you think.
2007-04-18 20:11:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋