This guy I like...I've seen him staring at me every day (In many random places...[cafeteria, class, hall ways, outside during our lunch period], so I know he's looking at ME, not someone else) for the past ten months. Every time my friends mention me, he smiles.
A few days ago, my friend asked him if he liked me. He said no (and he smiled!).
Ever since I've seen him staring twice as much as usual.
How can I be sure he likes me?
I don't want to talk to him If it's obvious he's not interested.
If he does like me, how do I talk to him?
2007-04-18 12:44:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What happen to the good old days, when a fellow likes a girl .... approach her and ask her out. You say 10 months staring at you and having made a move hmmm perhaps he is attracted to you but is too shy to approach you. Nobody likes rejections. Why don't you talk to him - you have nothing to loose.
2007-04-25 17:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number of times I've wondered about this is unreal.
Sometimes I think when you like someone you read too much into it and believe their body language is saying yes.
The only way to be sure is to start flirting. Start it off slow, so when you catch him looking at you smile back, if he's interested he'll respond and probably come and talk to you.
If you can get the courage to talk to him then you'll be able to tell - try some casual touching on the arm, see how he responds
2007-04-18 12:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In you initial question, you say his body language says yes. Are you basing that on the fact that you see him more often or the fact he is smiling more.
If i was you i would use the common grounds of your friend going up to him as a conversation starter, but im guessing from the past ten months of non-conversation you are shy.
You dont need to make such a strong move like randomly sitting next to him and hugging him. You can however get to know him under the guise of friends. The reason he probally said no is because he doesnt know you yet (this is a good thing means he isnt shallow) but he wants to get to know you.
Just relax and think of getting to know him as a friend so you dont shy up.
2007-04-18 12:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his friend's asked you if you liked him, would you say yes?
Men find it uncomfortable to talk about their feelings. It doesn't matter what he told someone else - he'll only tell the truth to you and you alone, and that's only if you get him one-on-one. Don't expect him to answer in front of a crowd.
Ask if he want's to hang out after school - If he does and you'll spend a little time together. You'll know.
And BTW - men can't read or express body language (some of them do try, but they simply can't), so don't read to much into that. They need simple instructions and usually say what they mean - unless they're trying to impress someone.
2007-04-18 12:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Georgina Elin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no idea if he does or doesn't like you, so the first thing to do is break the ice. Just talk to him the same way you would if he was one of your other friends, and let whatever happens happen! Try not to judge your relationships before knowing the person - maybe he would be a great friend if you decide he's not boyfriend material!
2007-04-18 12:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you, maybe he's just still a little unsure how much you might like him, also at end of the night, when you expected him to say something like--"look forward to seeing you again"-- all I can think is maybe he didn't wanna seem to pushy about meeting up again (just because he is maybe unsure of your feelings toward him)-- It's hard to read signals sometimes..I understand,... but sounds like night went well and he seems into you, he did make fool of himself (by shoving whole cupcake in mouth) stuff like that says he feels comfortable goofing off and comfortable around you ...it's a guy thing...if you like him , make your move, he may be unsure if you like him. Good Luck!!! :)
2016-03-18 03:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him at the first place ? He might stare at you with some desire but dont want to take a set forward & commit anything or move forward in that direction . Or be may be he is too shy ? But staring but months & never daring to speak this guy looks eww to me personally . If you like him Approach him & talk it out . Or be straight & u hav essen him starting at you .
2007-04-18 12:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I remember being all awkward and weird about social situations when I was a teenager...
but I got over most of that.
Just talk to him. Ask him why he's staring. After ten months...really, now, one of you should be direct about this.
Why not you?
2007-04-18 12:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know he likes you, your just being insecure. Swallow your fear and just go up to him and talk. It doesn't matter what you say. Ask about a teacher he has, or a paper you have to write. Talk about the frog you have to dissect in biology. ANYTHING. All you need to do is break the ice, the rest will take care of itself.
2007-04-18 12:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break the ice and ask him if he likes you. If he does not and he is just overly staring at you then that is creepy. It would just be a minute of discomfort if he says he does not like you instead of all this wondering and if he says he likes you then you can go from there... just ask.... it only takes a second...
2007-04-26 12:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by flame57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋