I'm being bullyed plese help?

Question

OK. this may sound weird but I'm in the 7th grade and when i started this new school in Allen,Tx i new things would be bad. THE UNDERSTAMENT OF THE YEAR. This kid who i guess hates me because of me being friends to his ex is well bullying me.He calls me gay, he says stuff just so other people can laugh, and plus every time he says it my so called friends laugh with him because there his friends too. So im stuck her not knowing what to do but ignore him but the problem is that the more i do the more it gets louder and louder. I don't to tell my parents because my mom works two jobs and my dad has just experienced the death of one of his best friends. I don't want to worry them. Reading this you must be exhausting but please HELP

Answer 1

Yes, if you feel like he is picking on you constantly, to the point where you feel like he's singling you out, its is bullying. He has no right to call you gay, or any other names, because that's also sexual harassment. If you feel like you need to, then tell a teacher you like, or the school social worker. Don't feel like you're going to burden your mother or father, they would probably like to know whats going on. The only reason this kid acts like he dislikes you is honestly because he dislikes himself, and he's probably jealous of you or something you have that he doesn't. Please, tell someone if this continues. It isn't cool, and its not fair to you to be treated like that. Please, just tell someone.

Answer 2

School isn't for friends it to go there to learn how to be better than others. Just go to class and do what you have to do. I know that you don't want to be a dork but hey if people want to be your friend you have to be your self and just Cruz. In high school I went through the same thing no one wanted to be my friend and when the did all they did was laugh but her I went to class and did all my work during my breaks I would just go to the libary and read or even just walk and listen to music then i found my best friend and we had a blast just us two we didnt care what anyone though of us and the secret is never date anyone that goes to school with you and life will be a whole lot more intresting.

Answer 3

Mate sometimes teens can be asses, I am not sure what to recommend to you other then to try reasoning with this guy when no one is around, chances also are that guys like this have not much going in their life. If he isn't bigger then you stand up for yourself and fight back. Ignoring won't make it go away unfortunately.

I guess you could also speak to maybe a school counsilor or a teacher regarding things but often that just makes things worse. If your not an easy target for him he will atleast think twice and maybe move on.

Answer 4

I was bullied for ten years, I feel your pain. Just if anything violent happens, you might consider switching schools. I had too. But, anyhow, Ignoring doesn't usually works. There was a girl who would call me names slightly worse then that when I sat down at any lunch table in sixth grade a few years ago. But, one day she came by to call me more terrible names. I was so angry with her at this point that I just stood up and the teacher's weren't listening. I just said to her "If you think that you're accomplishing anything, you're f****** crazy. Calling me names doesn't do anything. Why don't you go back to h*** , where you came from?" And she was speechless because I never had stood up for myself before then. She didn't bug me anymore. I just had to deal with the other bullies, but it was one less. This may work for you, it did for me. But teachers and parents don't do much, ignoring doesn't do much, but if you stand up for yourself, it will do something. But then again, it all depends on what kind of bully you're facing.

Answer 5

This is the part you are not going to like. You are going to need to stand up to that kid. You are going to need to stand up to him, look him straight in the eye and either phisically or mentally (by getting off a good embarresing insult) humiliate him infront of a large croud of people.

What is this ex girlfiend of his doing while this is happening? Also I think thats BS that you cant approach your dad for help at a time you need it. So his best friends died, sure its tramatic but he shouldnt let it take over his life. You cant get out of looking after your kids from just that

Answer 6

Hey this is NOT exhausting for me to read but it does make me so mad I want to come to your school and tell those bullies to lay off. You HAVE to tell your parents no matter what else they have going on, you are a priority. Tell them how awful it is and have them tell the teacher to watch out for bullying. It is increasing and they might want to tell anonymously so you dont get punished by the bullier for telling. Seriously, there are crazy people out there as you know from the news. You Have to tell people. PLEASE and if no one does anything and it continues write back here . This is not a good thing for you

Answer 7

I think you should ask your friends why they laugh. It's probably peer pressure but they need to tell you why. It's much better to have friends who will stick up for you, and you need to point that out to your "friends". Unfortunately, you can't control what this guy does or says... but for now, I would focus more on your friends, because they're the ones who will either make you feel supported, or feel like trash. And if your friends stick up for you, the guy might stop because he's being ganged up on.

Answer 8

well here is the best way to deal with a bulley....

Bulley who is a person who is insecure about himself and pathetic. He craves on destroying other people's happy lives by turning into miserable and using this to make him feel better.

when he starts making fun of you, look at him, smirk. Try to make him feel that he is a jackass....and walk away or start talking to friends who are your real friends....

if that still doesn't stop....ask him to continue on what he is saying...if he still continues to make fun of you....tell him that this is lame...you can do better... This will only make feel stupid and run out of steam....

After few attempts he sees that it is not working...he'll quit or find some other way

Answer 9

I don't consider this bullying, Are you in fear for your life? Laugh with them, Try to think of something to say about him so that your friends can laugh at him. If he has threatened bodily harm the I would go to a teacher or counselor.

Answer 10

It doesn't matter what your parents are going through, just tell them, bullying is a serious issue.