I'm in 7th grade and I sit with this popular boy and girl in science class. They always talk about how many times they've kissed people and how manyy people they kissed. Then they ask other people when and who they've kissed. EVERYONE has kissed someone before but when they asked me I didn't know what to say because I'm a kissing virgen. What should I say when they ask me tommorow. If your young you would know that you can't tell them you haven't kissed anyone before or they'll think your some kind of geek.
2007-04-18 13:46:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know that they are all telling the truth? TRUST ME, some (if not all) of them are definitely lying about how many people they have kissed or if they have ever kissed anyone at all. They are probably just as scared as you are to tell the truth for fear of what everyone will think of them. Always remember that whenever you are in a situation where it feels like you are the only one who hasn't or has done something, 100% of the time the people around you are lying for fear of looking retarded or being made fun of if they tell the truth.
Just tell the truth, that you haven't found anyone who is worth your energy yet and your waiting for the worthy person to come along. Not only will you be setting the trend for others to some clean about their real kissing history, but you will definitely be peaking the interest of some individuals who will try to see if they are the ones who can get to be your first kiss. Just don't turn into a kissing $lut later on, lol.
2007-04-18 13:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by ihaveahugecrush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. i'm in highschool, and we barely have those problems anymore. now it's: how many people have you gone out with?
bleanywho. you can't lie and say that you did kiss someone. first of all, it would be unconvincing and who the **** cares if you've never kissed someone before? give me a break. you guys are what? 12 or 13? you guys just came from elementary school. it's pretty disgusting if a bunch of 10 year olds were making out.
also, are they your friends? judging from your question, they don't seem to be. and they'll forget you as soon as you guys change classes next year. so it doesn't matter if you say that you've never kissed anyone before. just say "no i haven't. you got a prom with that?" if you brush it off like you don't care, they'll get super annoyed. or you can say "don't you guys have anything better to talk about?" and if they keep on insisting, just say whatever.
sorry. my answer isn't really straightforward. i've gone off on a tangent. but i hope it helped!
2007-04-18 13:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean......
hmmm this is hard
well i am in 8th and i know for a fact that not everyone has kissed someone when they say that they have...
if it comes up again tomorrow then you have three options why dont you say that it is science class and they shouldnt be talking about it, or you could say that flat out that you have not kissed anyone and if they make fun of you then ignore them because if they do that then they are / should not be your friends, or (the worst of all) you could lie
hope this helps and good luck
2007-04-18 13:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by magswimmergirl99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but that's a lil bit retarded to talk about kissing in 7th grade, I mean SEVENTH GRADE! Your mom probably wouldn't approve of this, the "popular" kids' mom probably wouldn't like it either... One extra tip, try as hard as possible not to let "popular" kids intimidate you. They're just a bunch of clones who are all bark and no bite. I know, I've been there. But if you really must find a clever way to respond to the kissing query, just act cute and say with a wink, "I NEVER kiss and tell." and that's it. it's all over.
I'll have you know, I was in 9th grade when I first kissed someone, and my husband was 20 when he received his first kiss (me)!
Don't fret, stay a kissing virgin (and all other sorts of virgins) for as long as you can.
2007-04-18 13:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by beyond0085 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what everybody else does - LIE. Some are telling the truth but a lot more LIE.
Now, if you're female, you MIGHT get away with practicing on your girlfriend. If you're a guy, and you like someone, go for it that way. Watch a few movies - it's not that difficult. When it happens, if you're a girl, keep your eyes closed and hold still, the guy should be taking charge. If you're a guy, keep your eyes open, and make sure you line it up right.
WRITE ME PRIVATELY IF YOU NEED MORE.
2007-04-18 13:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah they probably will. then again you might get the attention of someone and they will want to kiss you and then you won't be a kissing virgin anymore. think about it ...
honestly is the best policy; for everyone that thinks you're a weirdo, you'll find the one person who's into it that you never would have found before. some of us like to be the first at something, it's a pride thing. you really should tell
2007-04-18 13:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9th grader. In that position before. I've had a couple kisses b4. Jordan was so hott... Ne ways. If you feel that you need to be "cool," then lie. Say you've had a couple kisses before. But be sure to have some guys names, or girls, whatever gender you happen to be, just in case they ask for them. If you don't really care what people think tell them no.
2007-04-18 13:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by princess_sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me in seventh grade. What I did was I just lied and said I had kissed this boy in preschool but he moved away to like, Wyoming a week later.
Now, that's not exactly the best advice: lying. But if you feel comfortable, you can tell a little white lie if you really don't want your classmates to know you're a "kissing virgin."
If you don't want to lie, just say you're waiting for the perfect guy for your perfect first kiss. After that, tell the "popular" kids at your table you hope they haven't got mono yet.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-18 13:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dusty DayDreams 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow I'm in 8Th grade and Ive never kissed anyone so ur not alone out there when my guy friends ask me who've i kissed i say no one they laugh bt like idc bt later they end up wanting to be the one to kiss u first so its actually better cuz in the long run u get all the guys lol well that swat happened to me and all my friends kissed someone even mor than that so dont fall 4 that purpressher in the it could actually help u out i forgot to add if u need help learning ask one of ur girlfriends its kool thats wat i think im gonna do cuz u know u cant be one 4ever bt if tats a little to weird for u just ask a guy that ur real close to im sure they would be happy to help turst me it dont matter if ur ugly or not there type the like to kiss plus it would be fun for u well i hope u slove ur problem and good look if need any mor help ask me ok peace and love ur SEXY SARAI!!!!
2007-04-18 13:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by STRKFREESHINE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I had the same problem and i didnt kiss anyone until 10th grade at first i lied like all these people are telling you to do, but i actually found that a lot of older guys liked me alot better when i told them the truth about my "experience" they all found it cute and wanted to teach me, so i say go with th inicent act just say " me i haven't kissed anyone yet yep i know i am loser aww poor me" sarcastic like
2007-04-18 13:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Gio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋