Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

i found out 2 weeks ago that my dad is going to be a dad for the 3rd time, after my sis and i, to our horrible step mum and i dont know if i can except the child as my bro or sis and i really dont want to end a good relationship with my dad but that thing he married is just not human it sounds harsh but if you knew her like i do you would most likely say the same things

2007-04-18 20:02:09 · 20 answers · asked by celeste j 3 in Family

See I like this boy that went to my old school but I found him on myspace but the only thing is that He's my brothers friend but I dont know what to do I need help!!! p.s. Im 12 and he's 14!!!!!

2007-04-18 20:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by Francesca Elena 2 in Singles & Dating

He dumped me because he wasn't in love with me, but I was in love with him, and still am. After about a month of not speaking, we decided to continue sleeping together because we both were still attracted to each other, and I was needy and wanted comfort. Now we can't anymore because he doesn't feel right about it and I know its the right thing to do and we shouldn't have started doing it in the first place, but I miss his friendship and we also work together which makes it even harder. I just need some advice on how to move on from this, theres pretty much no current chance of getting back together with him, but I'm still in love with him. How can I make my way to being happy again?

2007-04-18 19:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by slickxnxsilver 1 in Singles & Dating

All of boyfriends have told me, "I will never lie to you, I will always be there for you." ok this one guy who I really liked, asked me to have sex with him and I was like naw. and he said "ok, if your not ready, I'm not going to force you". then he said "now if you had of met me back then, I would have." but a week after that had happen, he never returned my phone call. what's going on?

2007-04-18 19:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would be a nice gift for a guy?please help me...i really need your answers asap..

2007-04-18 19:54:55 · 5 answers · asked by azanith ann p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a month now, were having a great time hanging out and such, but in the beginning i was really nervous. whenever he would try and hold my hand or move in to kiss me, i would always push it away by instinct. since then i have become more comfortable, but tonight before he left, he told me he thought i was still awkward, being with him i assume. i really care about him and dont want to push him away. im doing my best to be more comfortable, but im starting to second guess myself, wondering if i am even "good" enough for him. he is used to girls with alot higher self esteems then myself, i feel hopeless as to what to do. i know i care alot about him and i dont want him to leave me.. should i worry?

2007-04-18 19:50:59 · 10 answers · asked by lizzyb 4 in Singles & Dating

what should i do to set my routine, once my husband leaves for office i get hooked up with net i do surfing chatting watching movies etc. please be kind and help me i need an advice.

2007-04-18 19:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Family

2007-04-18 19:46:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is criticism a major factor of this?

2007-04-18 19:46:39 · 17 answers · asked by deezonyxde 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi
my x lives in another city nd i broke up wid him cz i love sm1 else
nd now he says he'll come to my house nd tell my dad all sorts of things...
wht should i do now?????????????
plzzzzzzzzzz suggest
im really scared of that psycho.........

2007-04-18 19:43:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im 14.
i lyked one of my good friends nd i told him that i did but then he jst didnt tlk 2 mE @ all! :-(
y do guys do that?!?!

2007-04-18 19:40:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because he lives at home still because his work is nearby. So on his days off he comes to my house. We have a 2 year old. I need good advice please. We had a fight. Why? I asked him if he had an extra hard disk laying around because he has so many computers at home and one was for his half brother. I said something to the point of "are you sure you're not giving your brother a better hard disk than me" and it ended up with him saying he loved his half brother more than me. It hurt me alot hearing that from him. He knows my family is in another country and that he is my only family. He said his brothers came first. They didn't even grow up together. I always listen and obey him and I am trying to do alot for him, but why can't he love me more. I sure love him more than my sisters. Anyway, I told him he could have our daughter since they are one blood, I'm never going to be family to him. And ever since then he won't talk to me. He's even hiding from me. What should I do

2007-04-18 19:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by marief2rnurse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If two people meet online and chat each day feeling better about the relationship, will the need for money be a deciding factor about the future? Money and distance? I wonder if a love friendship could prevail that began only in March 2007 on yahoo messenger

2007-04-18 19:16:05 · 18 answers · asked by Peter T 1 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been married now for almost 2 years to an incredible man who means the world to me. The first time we meet was at a restaurant and it was love at first sight. We dated for 2 years before he proposed. His family was convinced I was a gold digger after his money but never said a thing as he threatened to cut them out of his life completely if they didn’t show me respect. About 6 months into our marriage I started sleeping with my ex-boyfriend who my husband trusted me to spend time with as I insisted we were just friends. This continued for about a year ending about 3 months ago. I was so selfish and self-centred back then not caring how much it would hurt him if he were to find out as long as I got what I wanted never realizing just how lucky I was to be married to someone like that. My husband adores children and has told me time and time again how he couldn’t wait for us to have a baby of our own without ever putting any pressure on me. I found out 2 months ago I was pregnant and my husband was just ecstatic. I’d never seen him so happy before. Problem is the baby isn’t his. The dates don’t match at all so it’s definitely my ex’s baby and considering that my husband trusts me completely he never once doubted the paternity of the baby. Should I tell him and break him heart?

2007-04-18 19:13:48 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We were never close growing up. She is 5 years older and married and stuff. We didnt fight that much, just never acknowledged each other. Now, she is unbearable. She parades around saying how great she is and how she's more successful and thinner and prettier, ugh. I'm not jealous, I just find it really immature and aggravating. Every family get together ends up with me leaving in tears. My other sister undertsands a little but anytime I try to talk about it with my mother, she refuses to see my side, so it affects my relationship with my mother as well. How can I remedy this? By avoiding everyone in my immediate family except the sister I get along with? I am 25. This should not still be happening. Help. Please.

2007-04-18 18:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

his sister just got seperated from her husband and is living with us now with her three kids, my mother-in-low's attitude has changed towards me, there is no room in our house, i feel frustrated, my life has changed entirely, i dont want to hurt anyone.. but i want my peace of mind too, i want my own place.

2007-04-18 18:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why??? I want someone so much but none love me!

2007-04-18 18:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I got into an argument about one of her old boyfriends who has been contacting her. I finally told her I wanted to end last night, or theres going to be changes at the house!
I said she was pushing it with me and I will not tolerate it any longer! After the kids went to bed she said she spoke to him because it was like being in high school again with no worries or responsibility's!
So I asked her outright( I'm that tire) what she wanted in our marriage or if she wanted our marriage? She finally admitted that if I had not gone to her HIGH SCHOOL REUNION, She might have had the affair! She said it's not me but she needed to feel young again! We adopt 5 kids because she wants kids, were taking care of 3 teens, all at her instance, And she says that! I told her this morning that I need time away from her because If I stay were going to be divorced!
The funny thing is I got a bad feeling about the reunion so I made time to go to it and felt bad about not trusting her after it!

2007-04-18 18:28:42 · 14 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5 in Marriage & Divorce

well i wont get into great details about my marriage only that i have been married many , many years with plenty of ups and downs. i have never cheated and my wife is a stay @ home mom and doesnt have to work. that doesnt seem to be enough for her anymore and i suspect she may be cheating? she constantly complains and tells me she is leaving. i try to communicate, but she tells me to shut up so i try to restrain myself. i am thinking of just going away for a few days without telling anyone where i am going!! is that wrong or what??

2007-04-18 18:24:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you met a husband or wife using the INTERNET? Has your marriage lasted more than 7 years? Are you both happy? Were you both single when you met? Please give details? Did Yahoo Messenger play a role in bringing you both together?

2007-04-18 18:22:14 · 2 answers · asked by Peter T 1 in Friends

im 17 and so is my love interest. we used to date but he ended it in november last yr. he confessed to me he always love me and he hasnt stoped even though i went out with another guy after breaking up. the thing with the other guy and me ended and my ex (love interest) came back and told me wants another relationship with me cause he always has regreted breaking up. since then we have been close just like we were together except we wernt a couple. now the otherday he told me he liked another girl too. and he had to decide who he wanted, and the other night he told me he likes this other girl more as he is fallin 4 her, but he told me he also loves me aswell (hes loved me for almost a year now). he said its possible he may choice me he doesnt know what he wants atm. i need to know what i can do to prove to him asap its me he wants, not the other girl (obviously a crush only on her). he told me when i was with the other guy all he wanted to do was hear my voice. i need to show him. asap

2007-04-18 18:21:54 · 4 answers · asked by Liss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just curious on what ladies think.

2007-04-18 18:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by DJ FEEL 1 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on him about 5 years ago and we got married sence, then but i didnt think it would turn out like this!!! We both love each other so much and have been through things that a lot of pepole get divorced over,but to this day he cant trust me! I work hard every day,5 days aweek ,then come home to take care of the 2 boys.!!!! I cook,clean raise my kids and i am always there for him when he needs me!Gets mad because i have more guy friends then girls. Then when i do find a girlfriend he does not like her .Now he does not want me to hang out with her and we r close friends now!!It SUCKS!!!!!!!!He thinks i always go out when he leaves for work . If i do he still gets mad!! SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!

2007-04-18 18:19:51 · 11 answers · asked by hotmomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just to avoid letting her have the house and half of his assets??? There is quite a bit of money at stake and he hasn't finalized the divorce yet. He is the one who filed first.

2007-04-18 18:19:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok.. where do i start..well ive only ever had one boyfriend in my lifetime (im 14) im just kinda independent...i guess well any ways
i like this guy(whos 16) and he likes me back.
well the thing is since im new at the whole "dating thing" like i dont really know how to act.. do we hug, kiss,hold hands, what?! i mean, ive watched movies, but
i need real advice
how fast do i go?
anything & everything about dating please.

thanks!

2007-04-18 18:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by ♥erin♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-18 18:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

would you pay someone else to do you x mas shopping and if yes how much?

2007-04-18 18:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by katie r 2 in Family

I am in an abusive relationship! I mean, we have our good times too, but I can’t handle the bad. He takes care of me financially. And we have a 4 week old. I consider suicide, but I would never leave him alone to raise our daughter. I hate the fact that I even think about doing that to my self. I can’t see a therapist; I don’t have the time or money. I just need help with what to do with all of these emotions. And I have no one I can go to; I don’t have friends or family in this state.

2007-04-18 18:09:24 · 10 answers · asked by March Mommie 07 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We fight all the time. I think he is immature, selfish, and arrogant. But, I don't want to divorce bc he is a good guy and we have a baby. How can I get over this thought of leaving him?

2007-04-18 18:07:08 · 24 answers · asked by Kapalski,Kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

really he is a very nice guy but i am not sure that i cangive him my number so tell me what to do

2007-04-18 18:05:47 · 14 answers · asked by Inessa K 1 in Singles & Dating