ok.. where do i start..well ive only ever had one boyfriend in my lifetime (im 14) im just kinda independent...i guess well any ways
i like this guy(whos 16) and he likes me back.
well the thing is since im new at the whole "dating thing" like i dont really know how to act.. do we hug, kiss,hold hands, what?! i mean, ive watched movies, but
i need real advice
how fast do i go?
anything & everything about dating please.
thanks!
2007-04-18 18:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by ♥erin♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
erin----14 is a wee bit young to date......i'd certainly not go any farther than holding hands.
2007-04-21 18:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and easy.
Let him set the pace but slow him down if you are uncomfortable with it.
You are pretty young for dating, and I'd suggest you try to double date if that's possible or practical. Hand holding is fine. So is hugging and kissing as long as you are careful how you go about it.
No sex. You don't want him going to jail.
For dates, consider going out to movies, or picnics or things like that.
Chances are you will have other boyfriends between now and the time you are grown up and married, so leave some experiences for the future. At this point the operative word is "friend." Is dating okay with your parents? Don't be sneaky.
2007-04-18 18:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go at your own pace. Dont Worry, Everything Will come natural! You're right...you cant base ur relationship off of movies...that will only end in disaster!
-Good Luck! Just remember to have Fun!
2007-04-18 18:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by *~*Gettin' Hyphee*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in its time...don't allow yourself to be disrespected by disrespecting yourself. All of those those you listed are much more enjoyable and memorable if they are with someone who you care about and they care about you in that very same way.
2007-04-18 18:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14 you shouldn't be worrying about boys
2007-04-18 18:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax. How fast you go is up to him. He should go relatively slow and pick up speed every once in a while so that you'll scream
2007-04-18 18:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r going in a wrong way
2007-04-18 18:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by kanumuru v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋