im 17 and so is my love interest. we used to date but he ended it in november last yr. he confessed to me he always love me and he hasnt stoped even though i went out with another guy after breaking up. the thing with the other guy and me ended and my ex (love interest) came back and told me wants another relationship with me cause he always has regreted breaking up. since then we have been close just like we were together except we wernt a couple. now the otherday he told me he liked another girl too. and he had to decide who he wanted, and the other night he told me he likes this other girl more as he is fallin 4 her, but he told me he also loves me aswell (hes loved me for almost a year now). he said its possible he may choice me he doesnt know what he wants atm. i need to know what i can do to prove to him asap its me he wants, not the other girl (obviously a crush only on her). he told me when i was with the other guy all he wanted to do was hear my voice. i need to show him. asap
2007-04-18 18:21:54 · 4 answers · asked by Liss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't have to convince him to be with you. If he truly loves you, then he will choose you.
2007-04-18 18:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he chooses the other girl, he can forget about ever coming back to you. Tell him that it is time that he made up his mind one way or the other. Tell him that in life there will be lots of pretty girls and good looking guys that will catch your eyes, but both of you should realize that it is okay to look, but not okay to keep breaking each others heart every time you see something cute. When you truly love someone, you just don't keep hurting them. If either of you are not ready for that type of committment, then there is no love involved. It is just best that you stay single and have a good time. You are both still very young and have a lot of good times to look forward to before making the ultimate committment.
2007-04-18 18:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it's hard being 17, your so young. You can't force anyone to be with you. He will have to decide when the time is right for him who he wants to be with. People don't own people and it is so hard to want someone when they want someone else. Just remember that you both have much growing to do and this is part of growing up. If he is meant to be with you, it will happen in its own time. Just be yourself, things don't always work out the way we want, but they will work out for you, just be patient.
2007-04-18 18:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by suentwobehisx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just go up to him and talk to him
2007-04-18 18:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋