I don't wanna think this way!?

Question

I am in an abusive relationship! I mean, we have our good times too, but I can’t handle the bad. He takes care of me financially. And we have a 4 week old. I consider suicide, but I would never leave him alone to raise our daughter. I hate the fact that I even think about doing that to my self. I can’t see a therapist; I don’t have the time or money. I just need help with what to do with all of these emotions. And I have no one I can go to; I don’t have friends or family in this state.

Answer 1

Let's talk about this one-on-one. I think we can deal with a lot of things, if we talk. There are more issues you're going than you might think. We gotta sort out how you feel about yourself before anything else. Send me an e-mail with your username for whatever messenger you use so we can talk about this. Everything will be alright; you just need to talk to somebody, and I can be that person. I hope to hear from you soon. I'm here right now.

Heath

Answer 2

The two of you need to leave him. It's not surprising that you have no friends or family nearby--abusers typically isolate their victims. There is help available. Don't say anything to him until you get some advice and make plans, because you could endanger yourself.

Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE or TDD 800-787-3224, which is available 24 hours a day.

You didn't say where you live, so there is no way to give you any local information. Here is a list of state resources:
http://www.4women.gov/violence/state/

Answer 3

Well hun u need to leave him. Cause those bad times u talk about could lead to something worse. Try calling back home and see if u could stay with someone if you need any one to talk to im always here on line and nothing could be so bad that u need to think about suicide. Have someone in ur family help there are also alot of safe houses around u look up one

Answer 4

contact your local police or rape and domestic violence center, you really need to get you and your daughter out of that abusive relationship. Everything is free through RDVIC if you use them so funds arent an issue.

Answer 5

Check the phone book for local numbers of organizations that help women in domestic violence situations. They can help you with a place to live and expenses until you can get on your feet without him. Most of these organizations will require that you cut off ALL contact with him. Please be willing to do that for your sake and your child's sake.

Answer 6

Just read the comments from Health e...please talk to him..I'm begging you honey...You always have someone..see...you are not alone! I will be praying for you...God bless you and your precious child. Please change your profile settings so we can talk..allow emails OK..I really want you to talk to someone..it can't hurt to let someone email you..please! I am 45 years old..had a licensed daycare for 15 years..been through abuse and I have witnessed abuse on children.. I want to talk to you! I been through a lot Hun...just let someone talk to you ok? I stay home all day..so anytime I can be here for you to talk.

Answer 7

Please get out before he puts a gun to your child's head like mine did in a rage one night. Call your local police dept or sheriff's dept. and ask them for the phone number of the battered women's organization in your area. They will help you get away and back on your feet.

I am begging you, for the sake of your child, please do this right away.

Answer 8

yes you need help yes you have friends hear but call for real help before someone gets hurt we don't want that to happen call get help asap

Answer 9

what about mother instint stand up for your child and put the a.s.s.h.o.l.e. in his place call the police or your older brother

Answer 10

please seek help, if not thru doctors, then thru here, if you wanna email me my address is [e-mail]