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hi
my x lives in another city nd i broke up wid him cz i love sm1 else
nd now he says he'll come to my house nd tell my dad all sorts of things...
wht should i do now?????????????
plzzzzzzzzzz suggest
im really scared of that psycho.........

2007-04-18 19:43:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Tell him that your Dad is looking forward to meeting him very much.

Your Dad had found your diary/journal and knows everything there is to know and would very much enjoy a chat with him over a cup of tea to discuss is treatment of his very precious daughter!

Seriously - you are dealing with a blackmailer, a bully and a nasty piece of work.

If you are really worried - talk to someone and get some sort of protection.

But remember- he is a bully and more than anything -a bully does not act on his own, they are full of wind and very little action.

You are a very lucky girl to have gotten out now.
But take this lesson with you for the future - do not do anything that you may be ashamed of in a relationship before you know you can trust that person with your most precious moments.

Good luck - take care out there Princess!

2007-04-18 19:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by isobellistowel 3 · 1 0

Your in trouble baby :)
There is a good chance he is faking, but if he isnt you may either want to go out and tell your dad not to let him come inside and not to listen to him. There is a possibility that he will leak some bad info tho.

Guess you could always get the new boyfriend over?

2007-04-18 19:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1 0

Seriously, dont play the game. Every time you answer the phone or talk to him he has control of you. You want to get rid of him? Break all contact with him. Just stop. If you feed the fire you will stay the victim.
Perhaps your father should know that you are scared that this guy might harm you. Do the police need to be involved? Ya might want to ask yourself those questions.

2007-04-18 19:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Call the cops on him and file charges. Tell your mom and dad that he is a psycho and that you are scared of him and they will take you to the cops themselves.

For real you need to call the cops or go talk to them in person, he could be dangerous, stop him now before he does something really stupid and someone (you) gets hurt.

2007-04-18 19:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Garrison 3 · 2 0

it seems that he's a person who doesn't take no 4an answer. if you have a way to play mind games with him, try it out. it's his way of blackmailing you to take him back. you could tell your dad about the break-up. if i were your dad, i would rather listen to my daughters own words rather than others. whatever he'll say may be true, but i would rather hear it from my daughter. that, or just get a restraining order for him. your choice. good luck.

2007-04-18 19:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by suave e 2 · 1 0

what can this cower say to your dad that can hurt you tell your dad what he want to do don't let this guy scare you if you don't want him in your life tell him so if you have to get a court order to keep him away and if you tell your dad he could have a nice surprise for him hay i hope every thing work out for you

2007-04-18 19:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Play reverse pshycology, it always works, tell him to go tell your dad. He will take a step back and think..

And i am guiet sure your dad will believe you even if it does get out...

Chin up

There are some really phsyco people out there, and you do have to watch your self

2007-04-18 19:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by 1 kidlet & due in 9 weeks 4 · 1 0

tell your dad that there is a guy want you to be or come back his gf,,and you refused because you dont love him..cry to your dad that you are scared from what he will do or say lies about you,,,ask your dad,,i think he will beleive you and hit him when he said anything about you ;)

2007-04-18 19:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by LOLITTA A 2 · 1 0

Protective Orders! Or threaten to expose his desire to wear lacy panties around the house while vacuuming.

2007-04-18 19:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by mundo808 3 · 1 0

Po-Po. Restraining order. BAM

2007-04-18 19:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jason T. 3 · 2 0

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