Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

they started hanging out spring break because her best friend's sister is his friend and he flirts with her all the time and she never really sees it and if she does she doesn't really do anything about it. i know she'd never cheat on me or anything and i know she needs her friends. but i don't know what to do to make him stop. i barely know him so i can't really go up to him and just say it all [#1 she'll probly get mad and #2 i dont even know him]. what should i do? i've tried talking to her about it and it never works out cause it ends up in an argument. what should i do?

2007-04-18 16:52:33 · 4 answers · asked by emerica 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-18 16:52:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im always confused if I like-like my boyfriend or not. I was thinking in my head I only like him as a friend but then when I layed down on his chest it was so comfortable, like perfect. I kiss him and Im all happy whatever. He pops up into my head at random times you know throughout the day?? [[I think lot more than the usual]]. The thing is, I dont have that "like-like" feeling and I think thats why I get confused. How can I be stressing myself and killing myself over a guy I dont like-like?? I dont normally do that. I know I care about him but why feel so comfortable?? The thing is, sometimes my ex pops up into my head while me and my boyfriend share intimate moments and it bugs. Just because you dont have that "like-like" feeling means I dont like him as a boyfriend huh.... No feelings?? Any insight anybody??

2007-04-18 16:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by moop 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21 years old and i dont have a great dating life. I recently went out on a blind date with a guy, he was a preacher. We hit it off really well and he was nice. My friend gave him my number, so fro 2 weeks we would talk on the phone every night, thats until saturday night when that all change. Everything was fine, my friend showed him a portait picture of me, and he thought I was cute. When the guy showed up for us to go out on a date, he acted so werid, he was not as talkive as he was on the phone. He said he was a bit nervous so i ignored it, but during the movie and on the way to and from he didnt say MUCH at ALL. Now today is Wed and he didnt call me back whatsoever, he left me and email saying that he was sorry things didnt work out and we could be friends, What happened? this is not the 1st time this has happened to me with a guy, my dates are never good, am I that ugly, i admit im a plus size woman but im not sloppy fat, im losing weight now, Can anyone tell me what I do wrong

2007-04-18 16:51:59 · 9 answers · asked by Merie h 1 in Singles & Dating

people be honest here, can you really trust your spouse

in alot of marriages and relationships, they both say that they love each other and would never do anything to hurt the other,

most of these end in cheating and divorces, how can a human being trust another human being? you just can't because, "ALL PEOPLE ARE CAPABLE OF UNSPEAKABLE THINGS"

2007-04-18 16:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are looking to buy a second home (for vacation)
it was all good at first until i realized i dont like my room, this new house would shrink our monthly budget to about 1500 for monthly expenses. i found this really cute bed in a catalog, but it costs around 1600$ we havnt bought the house yet. this is our 7th attempt at putting an offer in on a house, but ultimately, my parents are procrastonators, so we lost the 6+ before this so, it isnt very likely that we will actually place an offer in this place. so, i want to re do my room and buy a house, i already tried for my craftsman grandpa to build me a bed like the one i want but my parents say it wont be the right quality, but they still wont let me have the one i want from the catalog!


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2007-04-18 16:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anon omus 5 in Family

Before I go to bed, help me! haha
I went out with a guy for about 6 months, first boyfriend, and I was his first girlfriend.
Six months into the relationship things weren't working out.
We didn't talk much for a about 2 months, and then one day he messages me saying he misses me and he still loves me.
We started going back out again for a while,
and then I introduced my best friend(he's bi) to him and he falls for him, and I found out he was gay :(
I don't even know how to feel.
But now he's single, and we have become best of friends.
We were getting really close again, and I told him that my feelings have never changed for him, and he was not interested, he said he "felt bad"
We talk every day and it is so awkward talking to someone you love knowing he has no feelings for you :(
I just need some advice on how to get over it, and just let go :(
Without completely cutting him out of my life
How long does it take to get over someone?
Any ideas that will help me keep my mind off him?

2007-04-18 16:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by brittanyteecee 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like some specifics about divorce laws in South Carolina. I want to divorce my husband, but I have heard I must be separated for 12 months. Is there any way to make it less time? Someone said adultery, but I know he isn't fooling around. If I said I was, what would be the consequences?

2007-04-18 16:49:39 · 5 answers · asked by Kimmie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want something fancy, he just wants a silver band something plain. but... i dont know where to get it or even look for it! if anyone knows where i should look, just let me know! thanks :)

2007-04-18 16:49:17 · 6 answers · asked by thasaboudit. 1 in Weddings

Me and my fiance are thinking of eloping but aren't sure how to go about doing this. We're both 18 years old. Please help us?

2007-04-18 16:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is planning my wedding shower and we are wonder if you it is ok to put were I am registered inside the invitation?

2007-04-18 16:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by bink11012001 2 in Weddings

If you were a quiet type and you have a boyfriend that says to you all the time to talk because you don't talk that much, then what do you say if you don't know what to talk about because you a quiet type girl? Please don't be smart

2007-04-18 16:43:17 · 18 answers · asked by Lil CC 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I got into a fight today about her allowance. I have been giving her $20 dollars per week as allowance but she seems to think thats too little! You know women these days, they want everything. They need expensive starbucks lattes, fancy clothes, big gas guzzling SUVs so they can feel safe, etc. We've come to the conclusion that $20 isn't enough and we need to increase it.

So what do you guys think? I'll tell you what i think. I think she should get $40 per week. I think thats a reasonable number given my salary of 75k/year. We need to save all we can for a house, retirement, and college costs for the kids we'll be having.

2007-04-18 16:41:00 · 49 answers · asked by ayehoss123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf of 2yrs, 3 months are in a long distance realationship and are each others first love and are still pretty young.
anyways, he calls me every night at 9. he called tonight and we were talking, and im like, "i'm not controling am i?" (my friend just broke up w/his gf because she was too controling) so i asked if i was, because if i was, i want to change that.
he tells me that yes, i am controling and we started fighting about a bunch of things i do wrong and that i don't give him enough space....which i had no clue he felt this way because hes never told me or brought it up. so hes telling me i don't give him enough space, i do this and that and i ask him, if i do all this, why haven't you told me so i can work on it and i can change it ya know? hes like well, you would have gotten mad. then he tells me part of him wants to experience other things and realtionships and that we may need a break.

2007-04-18 16:40:49 · 10 answers · asked by heartbroken</3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 16:39:52 · 22 answers · asked by silly 1 in Family

2007-04-18 16:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we've been together for 2 1/2 years am 20, he as a friend,(girl i might add) they have know eachother since highschool, The first time i met her, she gave me a weird vibe, but i didn't think of it much until, 1 month ago, My boyfriend and I, when out for dinner, and she left him a message a song. a song about how they have a good frindship, and they will always be together.. blah, blah .. so, he looked confuesed when he pick up. so i asked him who that was, he told me and let me hear the rest of the song, so when it ended i asked her what the*****ck was her problem, she just said that i was over reacting, so i made a *small show , i asked him what was going on, he promised that there is nothing between themt she is just a good friend , I know this girl, and in a way i fellt disrespected, and I asked him not to talk to her anymore because it was going to keep bringing problems to our relationship, so he agreed, and today I found out that their talking again, What is the right thing2do

2007-04-18 16:37:14 · 9 answers · asked by RACHELORE 1 in Singles & Dating

Well this is kind of stupid but i will ask anyway. Well here's the story.. my college math teacher has a husband who teaches racquetball also at the same school and I told her I wanted to try it cuz i thought it might be fun and all. Well she told me to tell her if i signed up for it and i did.. so today when i told her she said ... Well good! I'll tell my husband to pick on you! Well then i told my b/f and he got all jealous and stuff.. like he thinks her husband is going to flirt with me. I really like both of the teachers and am going to try to make friends with them since they are close to my age. I also got my math teacher a baby present cuz she is expecting in july and i am planning to give it to her at the end of the semester. What do you think i should do? How do you think she meant that.. in a friendly way?
Im not planning to flirt with him and me and my friend both got HER a present because we think she is awesome! It would be cool to be friends with her.

2007-04-18 16:28:43 · 2 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She says she is spending it on our child but I dont see it and now she is asking for more money. She got married and then divorced and into alot of debt and I think she is using my support for her own expenses.

2007-04-18 16:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by flyguru1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how to get an uncontested divorce

2007-04-18 16:23:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I heard that its something you remember for the rest of your life, and i really want one not just a stupid bf/gf thing but an actual first love, but when when WHEN will it happen???????

2007-04-18 16:20:44 · 4 answers · asked by twirlgirl17 2 in Singles & Dating

right now i am dating a "bad boy" and its my first time with someone like that. the problem is that his friends are always grabbing me, touching me, lifting up my shirt, etc. i told my bf but he said they were just playing with me. should i forget about it?

2007-04-18 16:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by Layla 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf of 1 1/2 years became friends with ths kid about 3 months ago. I've always been hesitant toawrds this kid, (he rides street bikes w/o helmets, left his gf for another girl but still tries to hookup with his ex saying hell come back if they have sex, doesnt have any family/relationship values etc.) But my bf is obsessed with him. Now he wants to get a street bike, cut his hair like him, dresses like him, talks like him, go out to dinner with him, ditches his family, and changed his attitude and way he treats me when hes with him with the whole "bros before hoes" vibe, but when w/ me or family alone is who ive always known him as. If it were any other relationship, I would have been out in a snap, but in this past september a best friend (best guy/friend/person i ever knew) we both had died in car accident. It was so hard to go thru cuz it was his only real close friend.I would hate to tellhim not to be friends w/ this guy but scared hes turning into someone else. what do i do?

2007-04-18 16:19:26 · 1 answers · asked by bim1960 1 in Singles & Dating

So, when my husband and I met ,the sex was pretty good. I always wanted it more, and would get annoyed if he wasn't in the mood. Tables have turned, I backed off. He's easy to please. Once a week, and he's good. So, I can provide him with that. More then willing to. But, my lover of 4 months and I reach multiple orgasms together. We are sexually built for one another. We spent 3 hot hours in the hot tub, followed by an hour long shower. How he has the energy for his wife, I don't know? The sad thing is, we are going to end up staying with our partners. He has a child with her. I've grown accustomed to a lifestyle I don't want to give up. Do you believe that it is okay to have a little something on the side? My very good friend once said........The main course is nothing without a little something on the side!). Can I make this functional? Can I make it work? What about you all, have you????

2007-04-18 16:18:18 · 22 answers · asked by Confused Chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im wondering???

2007-04-18 16:16:54 · 4 answers · asked by d3n!s3 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

please tell the story

2007-04-18 16:12:08 · 19 answers · asked by magswimmergirl99 2 in Singles & Dating

My boss's wife (let's call her Maura,not her real name) and I have been talking a lot. I think we're hitting it off. In fact, I can't stop thinking about Maura. My boss is a good man, somethings he forgets to take his meds, but he is good, and I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

2007-04-18 16:09:41 · 18 answers · asked by Darth Cheney 7 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend cheated 2 months into our relationship with his ex girlfriend and we have now been dating a year and a half and live together.. He only slept with her once but was emailing her for the first 8 months of our relationship and typing i love you in his emails. WHen confronted he said he was just used to talking ot her like that and liked the ego boost he cut her off 100% and told her he didn't love her and never wanted ot see her again. He said its the biggets regret of his life and he loves me and i am the only person he want sand will never do it again and that he is a changed person... Shoiuld i stay with him? Since then he has been faithful and i love him so much.. very hard situation.....

2007-04-18 16:08:49 · 3 answers · asked by kf2000 1 in Singles & Dating

i still really really like my ex, one day he'll be nice and say he still likes me, then the next he won't even talk to me, then the next day he'll be all talking sexually to me..yesterday i was #4 on his top friends, today i'm almost last..but he sent me this "heart" message this morning. and now hes ignoring me..then i bet tomorrow he'l start talking to me again..why is he doing this, is he just trying to play with my mind?

2007-04-18 16:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-18 16:06:54 · 1 answers · asked by Therev_d 1 in Singles & Dating