right now i am dating a "bad boy" and its my first time with someone like that. the problem is that his friends are always grabbing me, touching me, lifting up my shirt, etc. i told my bf but he said they were just playing with me. should i forget about it?
2007-04-18 16:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by Layla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no u should not 4get about it, because what his friends doing can be classified as sexual harrassment.the other things is that they not respecting ya. letting his friends doing that to ya and not doing anything about it meanings that he doesn't care much about u.. . all he is doing is waiting and pop ur cherry and brag about it with his friends babe.... because i've been there and done thatso i know what its like... so if i were u i definitely end the realtionship.
2007-04-18 17:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by lee l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who IS this person you are dating??!! Yes, he is a bad boy, big woop, he sounds a disrespectful moron to me! I know you think he is cool right now, but wait til you have moved on in your life, you will realize how stupid you were for liking such an inconsiderate piece sh**.
Have some God damn respect for yourself!
I'm only being so direct because I don't want you to get hurt. Think about it, you have obviously repsected yourself until now by not having sex with him, don't stop now, especially for someone like that. You are a beautiful girl, have some dignity. Find someone that deserves you.
email me if you want to talk (email is in my profile).
2007-04-19 09:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, don't 4get about any of that stuff, thats like sexual harrassment, either dump ur bf OR tell him to change OR give them a warining then call the cops if they do somethin like that again cuz if u keep lettin them do that, there gonna think its alrite to do it all the time, and you never know how deep it can get
2007-04-18 23:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see you command a lot of respect in this relationship.
What you put on the plate is what will be served for dinner. If you tolerate it now don't get mad when it gets worse. This nothing short of sexual abuse. If you were to leave him, what would you ever tell the next guy. Oh I don't mind if your friends all fondle me I'm used to it.
2007-04-18 23:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by freshex2001 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Drop the bad boy hon...neither he or his friends have any respect for you. There for show yourself some respect and walk away now before it is more serious.
2007-04-18 23:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whoa. i dont think so. i dont care how "bad boy" he wants to try and act a real bad boy would protect his ladies feelings and uncomfortable situations. no guys friend should be grapping on you.
2007-04-18 23:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by kaybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let any of them take it too far and as long as they respect you and your wishes then just forget about it. they mean no harm
2007-04-18 23:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋