My boyfriend cheated 2 months into our relationship with his ex girlfriend and we have now been dating a year and a half and live together.. He only slept with her once but was emailing her for the first 8 months of our relationship and typing i love you in his emails. WHen confronted he said he was just used to talking ot her like that and liked the ego boost he cut her off 100% and told her he didn't love her and never wanted ot see her again. He said its the biggets regret of his life and he loves me and i am the only person he want sand will never do it again and that he is a changed person... Shoiuld i stay with him? Since then he has been faithful and i love him so much.. very hard situation.....
2007-04-18 16:08:49 · 3 answers · asked by kf2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify he only just told me that he slept with her i knew about the emails before and had forgiven him as he said he never actually cheated...
2007-04-18 16:29:33 · update #1
Are you having second thoughts? How long have you been with him since he cheated?
You are much stronger than I. Once a cheater, always a cheater in my book. I have had many cheat on me and have given them second chances. It never worked out. I couldn't trust them fully either. I didn't respect them anymore and I found myself lacking self confidence.
It is something only you can answer as an individual. My mothers Brothers wife and my mothers sisters husband had an affair. My aunt divorced her husband, but my uncle stayed with his wife. It is up to the individual and needs counseling in order to make it. Your relationship sounded new when he started it.
I am sure you feel a lot of feelings that you don't like. He will have to prove himself to you and he will have to do it over a long period of time. You could have him do counseling with you if you wanted. You will make the right decision for you. God Bless and hugs sent to you.
2007-04-18 16:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like a stupid question. You have already stayed with him while he was cheating emotionally. Why ask questions now. You have already set the terms you are willing to take in your relationship why change it now?
2007-04-18 16:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He slept with her 16 months ago and hasn't e-mailed her in ten months (according to the timeline you gave); and he's been faithful since, so I don't understand what the problem is. More info, please.
2007-04-18 16:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋