Im always confused if I like-like my boyfriend or not. I was thinking in my head I only like him as a friend but then when I layed down on his chest it was so comfortable, like perfect. I kiss him and Im all happy whatever. He pops up into my head at random times you know throughout the day?? [[I think lot more than the usual]]. The thing is, I dont have that "like-like" feeling and I think thats why I get confused. How can I be stressing myself and killing myself over a guy I dont like-like?? I dont normally do that. I know I care about him but why feel so comfortable?? The thing is, sometimes my ex pops up into my head while me and my boyfriend share intimate moments and it bugs. Just because you dont have that "like-like" feeling means I dont like him as a boyfriend huh.... No feelings?? Any insight anybody??
2007-04-18 16:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by moop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few days ago, he left to Madera for 3-4 days. Durign that time, I had a dream that he was thinking about other girls and the next night that he broke up with me. WHY?!
2007-04-18 16:53:24 · update #1
You still have your former boyfriend stuck in your brain.forget about yesterday and think about tomorrow.
2007-04-18 16:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just honest ask yourself how deep your feelings are for this guy. Do you see yourself in the future with him or do you just want him around for a moment?
If you still have feelings for your ex, then you're probably not that into the other guy that you're with.
Just analize your feelings carefully.
Maybe you should take a break from guys to figure all of this out; you'd less likely hurt anyone's feelings that way.
2007-04-18 23:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥☺ bratiskim∞! ☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume this like like feeling is teeniebopper for clingie romantic thing. I personally think you still have a flame for the ex and just a regular crush on the boyfriend.
What you need to do is clear your mind, think of nothing else but your feelings. Listen only to your heart and i think you will find the answer.
PS: yes it sounds gay but it worked for me
2007-04-19 00:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok there are many opptions to go for butmy 2 are; 1. your thinkin of your x... bad sign. You didnt get over ur x properly b4 u went out with ur nu... 2. if yuo dump him youll cry, think of him constently wishing you hadnt etc... So if i was you id stay with him or it will be hard but confess to eaither ur dad or mum, or if you got real guts talk to him bout it! Hav u tryed spicin da relationship up??? it'l be hard but i had the same feelin b4 n we broke up n 2day i still want him 1 yr l8r :( Gud luck gal...
2007-04-19 00:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Shaza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a crush and then little panic attacks. You are young - enjoy it for what it is and don't read anything into it. You feel comfortable because it is human nature. Good luck.
2007-04-18 23:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you got to get real now. Love is part feeling the like-like you talking about. but a lots of to do with decision. I believe you can emotionally in love, but you can always make a decision to love. For example. I love is girl so much, but she on drugs so i make a decision not to go out with her. or i barely like my ex. but her love make me love her more every day. I hope it will help you. Go with you feeling and make the right decision to love. thank you.
2007-04-19 00:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Hai T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"When you look for the bad in man, expecting to find it, you surely will." Abraham Lincoln
2007-04-18 23:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Derek J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he broke up with him because you only like-like him, instead of like-like-like him.
2007-04-18 23:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋