people be honest here, can you really trust your spouse
in alot of marriages and relationships, they both say that they love each other and would never do anything to hurt the other,
most of these end in cheating and divorces, how can a human being trust another human being? you just can't because, "ALL PEOPLE ARE CAPABLE OF UNSPEAKABLE THINGS"
2007-04-18 16:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well man i guess it all depends on how trustful they are and how well you know them. i don't know.
2007-04-18 16:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by emerica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can probably never fully trust anyone, but is it worth the energy to mistrust your spouse? If someone is going to cheat they are going to cheat no matter what you do. Being Jealous and over controlling won't stop them, it will probably push them into it. The best move is to trust them but not be stupid. And treat them well and take care of your business because if you don't there are all kinds of scum that will. If you ask me anyone who will do a married person, specially one with a family is a piece of trash, there are enough single people out there.
2007-04-18 23:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was one of the last people on earth anyone thought would cheat, and yes it is very common. Not all people cheat though. You can't focus on it, you can't always predict it either. But I think if it happens you will know. Deal with it then. Perhaps tell your partner of your concerns or discuss other cheaters and check out the response, If your partner is disgusted by cheaters I'd say you would be pretty safe in the knowledge that it wont happen to you.
2007-04-19 00:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by lifeshouldbesweet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Serial monogamy is a design of a culture or church. It's not normal. I can prove it. When you got married, form that day on you never looked at another person and thought hey i wonder what she/he would be like in bed. Everyone screws around, and as a matter of fact women are more then 70% more likely to be the first ones to cheat. Marriage is a modern idea that the state can tax, and the church can gain greater revenue from. So simply if you think your partner isn't screwing around on you, you're naive.
2007-04-18 23:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I trust my partner 94% which is alot for me.
Its hard for me to trust guys because of so many bad relationships in the past. My guard is always up and I can't put it down. My fiance though has proven to me time and time again why I should trust him, so hopefully he doesn't make me look like an ***.
2007-04-19 07:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Vada83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who trust 100% are the ones who get cheated on! You have to NEVER, EVER trust your partner 100%. Then you will always be paying attention to signs, etc. People who blindly say they trust 100% and the others persons love for them will keep them from straying are setting themselves up for disaster.
2007-04-19 00:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by mimi s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I trust my mate totally because he feels such a deep love and respect for God. It is not just me (who I know he loves deeply) that he knows that he would disappoint, but his almighty father who we pray to together and whose word we study each day... and my husband takes the lead. He starts our day with a prayer and ends it with a prayer. This is important. We also dance, play cards, entertain and have a date night. Keep it real and keep it sweet - there is a book called Marrying a Man, Raising a Husband (Barnes-Noble) that gives great advice to women and men. Its about raising that man to a higher level instead of putting him down!
2007-04-19 00:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by itsagreatidea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trust them and blindly believe them until you know otherwise. that is love. taking a leap of faith and showing complete trust in another person.
And yes, it can be easily broken. Break that trust, and you have broken the love.
So yes, they can be trusted, until they show that they do not deserve that trust.
2007-04-18 23:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can because I will allow myself to trust my partner. If something happens that breaks that trust, I will react accordingly but until then, there is little else but trust.
2007-04-18 23:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by dedication62 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is going to Brasil for two months alone..and guess what...
I can trust her like I can trust the sun will come up every morning and set every evening...
there are NEVER any reasons for me to NOT trust her..
2007-04-18 23:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I trust my husband with all my heart.
If he was stranded on an island with the Brazilian Bikini team all he would do talk about me.
I got a good one!
2007-04-18 23:55:42 · answer #11 · answered by GreekQT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋