i still really really like my ex, one day he'll be nice and say he still likes me, then the next he won't even talk to me, then the next day he'll be all talking sexually to me..yesterday i was #4 on his top friends, today i'm almost last..but he sent me this "heart" message this morning. and now hes ignoring me..then i bet tomorrow he'l start talking to me again..why is he doing this, is he just trying to play with my mind?
2007-04-18 16:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is just playing with your mind. Ignore him for about a week and it'll get his skin crawling. Just act like you don't care, even if you do. Right now he has the upper hand, and as chicks, we CANNOT let that happen...LOL. Hope all goes well sweetie!!! <3
2007-04-18 16:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you and you have to stop letting him. He is going to do this as long as you allow it. If you start ignoring him and move on to someone else then I'll bet that he'll try to sweet talk you back into his twisted little world. Don't let it happen. He's a loser and it sounds like he really enjoys messing with you. If he is your ex then "X" him out of your life for good. Good Luck
2007-04-18 23:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is toying with you and wants to keep you there just in case his others "fall through" You should not even respond to him at all. When they talk sexually like that, then ignore you, it is more of keeping you there hanging on to him in case his "other Friends" are not there for him anymore. Let him go and ignore him. Delete him off of everything.
He is an ex for a reason. Once you totally let go of him, you will have room for a real man who will be more of what you are looking for in a man. One who will respect you and not talk like that to you. You deserve better. Let your heart open for someone else. If you keep holding onto your ex and even have a glimmer of a hope, then you are not really open to anyone new in your life.
2007-04-18 23:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your exes actions are classic immaturity. Guys don't always understand or think on the same level as girls. He probably thinks it is funny and doesn't think anything about it. He needs to know how you feel. If he doesn't respond to that then kick him to the curb and find someone else. Life is too short to deal with crap like that.
2007-04-18 23:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by James P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if it's true love, the guy should leave no room for you to doubt that. If you're not number one to him, in every area, (even something as lame as a myspace web page) lol then I don't think he deserves you.
He may like you and just be playing, or he may JUST be playing. Either way, I think you deserve better.
The best of luck,
Sarah
2007-04-18 23:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by McLovin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know how people say, if a boy insults you and perform these absolutely horrible acts towards you, he likes you.
This is sorta the same situation.
He likes you. He's just doing the whole mix signals thing.
2007-04-18 23:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by wordwaves 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he's either playing hard to get to get back with you, or he's messing with your head. you should be blunt and ask him straight foreward why he taks to you one day and avoids you the next.
i totally agree with maddfinn it could be that too.
2007-04-18 23:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes keep ing his options open
2007-04-18 23:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by phenomona 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋