What do you thnk of this girl problem?

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Same problem as you, buddy. New to relationships. The last guy gave you some good advice, listen! Understand a few things to, love isn't ever enough. Use that brain of yours, think for her point of view, understand were she is coming from. Which means spend as much time as you can relating your story and hers to each other. Talk about past experiences, talk about insecurities, talk honestly. No matter the nature of your relationship with her as your talking these steps remember the biggest killer of relationships, IS NOT GROWING TOGETHER. Which is to say you have to stay dynamic, you have to be willing to keep learning, and you have to be willing to teach a little too. You guys are partners now, so you need to talk to your partner as much as you can. I mean why didn't she come over friday? That aside realize we all have abadonment issues, so there well always be insecurities, which well make people in your life act like they don't feel. She likes/loves you buddy, but she doesn't won't you to hurt her, treat her accordingly.... be carful and swallow that ego(pride) this is all about the heart. Any time you can blame yourself, take the blame man, chances are she won't let you carring it all yourself.