my boyfriend broke up with me because he said im hiding something from him but im not what can i do?

Question

he wont tell me what im hiding from him because he wants me to confess...but there is nothing to confess..he also says he has proof but i am not hiding anything

Answer 1

You're better off without him. He's probably emotionally abusive, and that often leads to physical abuse. A slighlty less harsh judgment is that he's just manufacturing an excuse to break up. If you analyze the relationship with a counselor or a wise friend/confidant, I'll give 10 to 1 odds that you can find a pattern of abusive and/or overcontrolling behavior, where he treated you like a puppet or like dirt.

Answer 2

Maybe he is accusing you of cheating out of a guilty conscience or he is saying that because he's the type that believes others over his lover. Ask him if he cheated look for the red flag if he cheated on you he will get really defensive. In my opinion though i think you should just tell him to believe what he wants to believe and if he is going to treat you this way you want nothing to do with him. What's his proof? Did one of his friends say bs to him? Ha. I had that happen with an ex and i didn't even know this friend that supposedly knew me so how i slept with a guy i don't even know what he looks like is beyond me. Don't let it bother you too much you know what kind of person you are and if he is going to be an *** then cut all ties with him. Men that are like this are not worth your tears.

Answer 3

Tell him he needs to get over his insecurities. He has obviously misread some information that he heard or saw. Tell him once more that you are not hiding anything and will he please show you the proof he supossedly has. Tell him once more that you will not make up a confession. Then, tell him to grow up and learn to trust. Otherwise you can have nothing more to do with him.

Answer 4

Well sounds to me if he knew something on you then he would let you know what is was right?
So it sounds to me like hes the one that is feeling gulity about something and trying to smooth it over by acting like you done something to make him feel better.
Most of the time when someone is cheating on someone not saying he is or you did but, most of the time they will accuse you of it and throw things up cause it's eating at them.
Don't let him bring you down get face to face with him and tell him that if he knows something on you then tell you or your not liveing like this anymore.
Tell him you don't need it and if he needs to tell something about himself then he should be doing so. Talking it out is the only way to know what each other is thinking and doing.
If he can't tell you what it is then you don't need him, cause if someone loves you then being honest is the only way. Hope this helps you out.

Answer 5

You can thank your lucky stars that you got rid of him. Really. He's obvioiusly a jealous control freak and those types don't "change". They only get more and more aggressive until the whole dam n thing comes to an explosive conclusion. Don't take him back under any circumstances. Pay attention to those red flags!!!

Answer 6

maybe you should just break up with this guy. he could be possibly trying to set you up for the break up of the relationship. in fact, he might be the one actually hiding something. if he doesnt believe you no matter how you explain to him that you have nothing to hide from him, you need to forget him and it will be his lost for not trusting you.

Answer 7

Honey, has it occurred to you that maybe he is the one who is hiding something and is feeling guilty about it? Try using reverse psychology on him. Ask him what he is hiding from you. If his face turns red and he gets angry with denial, say something like, "sucks being accused of something you didn't do, huh?"

Answer 8

He is bluffing you to see if you really are hiding something. he hopes you will confess to something. Tell him to pound sand and find yourself a boyfriend that is not immature.

Answer 9

well if you can not be upfront and honest with you, then you guys should not be together... Honesty is a big thing in realationships, so is communicating... go on living your life like normal, and try avoiding him at all costs...and see if after a while he comes around..
or maybe some one said something, and he is shallow and selfconscience, so he believed it

Answer 10

It sounds like a strategy to dump you and make it seem like it's all your fault. Such a devious coward! Don't play games with him. Just be thankful this happened and move on.