2007-04-18 09:30:53 · 22 answers · asked by pebblezz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It depends if she is good person or not either way there are traits that she has you may have picked up, that is if have not already done so.
2007-04-18 09:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by bootyliscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask this question over and over?
Yes, you will "end up" very much like the person who raised you.
Both of you will eventually die.
It is also true that you usually do a lot of the same things, make the same mistakes, as those who raise you.
It is part biology and part training.
You can also rebel and stay there, like becoming a buddhist monk when your mom and dad are Catholics. But even something like that is similar in that BOTH of you are devout in doing something.
Or being gay, even tho your mom and dad aren't. But you may be intolerant and mean, just as they are.
Or you might have a drinking problem if she does.
The deal is YOU are a unique combination of your mother and dad's families. You get to DECIDE what you will do with the gifts and challenges that involves.
If your mother drinks, it is a GRE AT idea for you NEVER to start. If she is mean, you can learn with therapy and support to use your meanness to become "strong" instead.
If she is a screamer, you can make a pledge that you will never do that. And get help tomake it a kept promise.
If she is fat, you can decide that you will exercise and eat well, and never let yourself go. Or you can say, it runs in your family and get big as a cow.
It's yours, to decide.
You might give a little more info for a better answer.
2007-04-18 17:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did your mom end up
2007-04-18 16:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by wallace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like this:
Like half of it genetic and how you get raised.
Not much you can do about that. Reading, therapy, attempting change, understanding the dynamics of the family. That can help some
Then 1/3 of it you are stuck with anyway.
The other part is yours to do whatever you want with.
2007-04-18 16:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We usually end up being either very much like our parents or we rebel so much against being like them that we end up being their opposit.
However, the more aware you are of the person you want to become the more likely you will be your own individual.
2007-04-18 16:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jean E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Your future is totally in your hands. You know what you like and don't like about your mom and you can take action to make yourself different. You are not your mom you are YOU - a completely different person!!
2007-04-18 16:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neccessarily. Though the tendency of one is to become like there parents, but it does not have to be that way. If your mother or father is unwise and ungodly, through the power of the indwelling Christ, you can be changed into His glorious image.
2007-04-18 16:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by michaelsseed14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely. Unless she's someone that you wouldn't want to be like, then start making changes now!
2007-04-18 16:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after posting this question about 5 times in a row, I'd say you would
2007-04-18 18:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless you chose to. its the choices you make not whats in your DNA that counts. good luck and remeber you control you nobody else.
2007-04-18 16:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by ask the aliens! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋