Wrote here last month,myex boyfriend lost his job etc and was going through tough time with ex boss.He said he neeeded time alone ,now thats one month ago now.I have send him on a few emails of helpful sites he may need to do with problem with his ex job.No replies apart from one.Met up with him for luch 3 weeks ago and he was so distant -have heard nothing apart from one text which i replied & he said 'how could he ever find out if what he wanted if i was pushing him.I think to be honest this is just to tell its over.As have heard nothing in week.Men -do you run if women text??Im beginning to think its really overand he just cant face up to it.Its tough!!
2007-04-18 09:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by daisychain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a male I'd say he's probably left the relationship. There's an off-chance he's mostly down about his work situation and he'll come around later, but not real likely.
I can tell you for sure to lay off the "helpful" e-mails. He probably views them as criticisms rather than encouragements, no matter what your true motive is. If he wants anything from you now, he wants support, not advice.
2007-04-18 09:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, I know 2 Libras. I can say that they both respond to breakups very hard. 1 Libra I knew was clingy afterwards, and the other Libra just accepted the break-up and moved on. Some traits fit some signs and others don't.
2016-05-18 02:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by maribel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have learnt about men is that they hate confrontation. Isn't going through a stressful time when you need your gf/bf most? I'm afraid it sounds like its over and anyway why should you keep waiting around for him? What about your feelings? I would call him and say you have decided you need to move on with your life and draw a line under the relationship. He'll either panic and sort things out or you won't hear from him. Good luck with whatever you do x
2007-04-18 10:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you do need to give him some space and time for himself because this guy has probably been stressing out a lot from his job lost. but if he's not willing to tell you his problems he could be hiding something. he should have at least explain you why he needs sometime alone. are you guys on a break or something? if you feel he's not responding to your questions or give you that attention you need, then just leave him. why waste time trying to help him if he refuses for you to help him? i suggest you to maybe find someone else better for yourself. i never understand why men cant just be straight forward with what they want and make women try to guess about everything. but trust your instincts on what you should do.
2007-04-18 09:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is running dear, because it is really off with both of you, and if you keep chasing him away you will lose any smidgen of the friendship that you have left, if any.
I would just let it go and give him space, and it sounds like you are having a hard time getting over him, I suggest you keep yourself busy with activities to get your mind off of him!
The last person you want to come to your door is a policeman giving you a restraining order for stalking, and it can happen!
2007-04-18 09:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is over. Men are BIG cowards, and hate confrontation with women. He is just going to avoid you until you go away, instead of grabbing his b*lls and just being honest with you. For some reason, men just can't seem to do that. Let this one go, move on and if he wants to get ahold of you he will. Just don't let him play games with you. You deserve better than that. Good Luck!!
2007-04-18 12:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over just except this and get out there and enjoy yourself, there is nothing like finding another person to fill a gap and have fun with.
2007-04-18 10:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's over.
However to be honest when men say they don't like to be nagged, pushed, prodded, how do women respond? They respond in kind nagging, pushing, and prodding trying to ask you what's wrong. We don't think like you and trying to force us to communicate like you just doesn't work. Understand the differences between genders and your future relationships will be strengthened. As cliche as it sounds read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus
2007-04-18 09:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by jay k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Make sure the next guy you date can hold a job and has better communication skills. If he can't handle losing his job, how can he handle bigger problems? Sounds like a wuss to me.
2007-04-18 09:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by GirlNcognito 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me. When they say they need space-they are basically saying it's over! Some men are such cowards and cant tell you to your face. Move on girl,time is a healer. x
2007-04-18 09:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋