how does a woman get revenge on her husband for cheating on her?

Question

need revenge advice, please

Answer 1

It you want to make him miserable, stay married to him. Clearly the love is gone. The only way he is going to ever find happiness is to be away from you. If you really hate this man, don't leave him. I pity the man that has you for a partner.

Look at what you did to drive your husband into another woman's arms.

Answer 2

Your anger is misplaced. Your issue is NOT with her. FOLLOW UP: Here is some heartfelt advice. Concentrate on why your husband would do this and what he is doing to assure you that it will not happen agian. Understand that the longer you walk around seeking revenge and making him "PAY" the longer you delay the repair that your marriage requires. If you cannot work on YOUR OWN marriage issues with a goal to the future your marriage is lost. Keep up with the anger, spite and revenge and you will only push his head further out of the house. At some point he will wish to escape permanently or become a submissive wimp of a man. You are on the verge of remaining an angry, bitter woman for a long time to come. If that is how you want to be, we will all understand why he strayed. Before you continue down this road, you really need to think about your destination. In the end, where have you gone, back into a marriage which may be stronger and in time more realistic in expectation or to the life of the lonely bitter woman who cannot enjoy life because of her unrealized revenge? Think about it.

Answer 3

Here's how i got revenge...
after the initial pain and hurt that i went through, i divorced him, then i have gone on to have a great and happier life without him... Ive also met a new and wonderful man, and i smile every day.. the best revenge is to get on with your life and be happy...

Revenge gets you no where, only makes you as low as they are, oh yeah sure i thought about allll the things i could do to him......... but is it reallly worth it, and i have more integrity and morals than him.

Answer 4

You will never get enough revenge to ever even the score......the cheating he did broke your heart.......don't allow this pain to break your spirit. You are worth more than that and right now you are angry and hurt. The revenge affair will not release your rage,and there is no way to satisfy this kind of anger.Doing this will only make you feel dirty,and more angry with the one that betrayed you.Don't get into this kind of war fare and think you can win, or be one up on him at the expense of losing yourself. He is not worth it and you deserve better than that. You will hurt him much more by him knowing you were faithfull and he screwed everything up all by himself. It was his choice and now their has to be a consequence. he gave you two choices 1. leave him and ,find somebody else that will respect you or....2. Go to marriage counseling and learn how to live with it. If you stay set up an appointment and make him get checked by a doctor for every test they have for std's. You have these test done for you to. That in itself will humiliate him! Don'y go out there to get revenge that could put your life in deeper danger.........it is to risky these days. I wish you luck on your decisions.

Answer 5

Personally, I think you should just get rid of the guy.
Divorce him, take everything you can, and half his paycheck for a good long while.
If he's cheating on you, why waste your energy on trying to make him jelous.
Just hit him where he lives.
Most men have 3 basics that will really mess with them if they don't have it.
Their sex, their money and food.
So take the money and run.
The sex isn't worth it, I certainly wouldn't ever cook him a meal again, and so all there is left is his money.
TAKE IT ALL!!
And then when you are done, spit him out like a bad taste and move on.
Don't forget that last part.
Don't hang on to the past.
Let it go. And you will find happiness someplace else in your life.
But, get this one over with and move on.
As long as you dwell, he has won.
Don't let that happen, you deserve better than a life filled with regrets.
MOVE ON!!!!
Good luck!!!!

Answer 6

Revenge wouldn't help you cause right now your hurt cause he hurt you. The best way is getting on with your life and being happy with someone else or your friends.
You know deep inside that if you stay with him it will always be on your mind, and too if you two get into a arguement then you will bring it up and thats something you don't need in your life. If you two are willing to work things out then don't do it alone try counseling. As for myself I would move on with my life cause lifes to short to be with someone who says they love you and then step out on you. If they loved you trully then they wouldn't have ever went to another woman " something to think about huh? " Be happy and the only way to do that is to let go of what ever is holding you down and that means even to the one you thought loved you. Hope this helps you out.

Answer 7

What good will revenge do? It certainly won't make you feel any better because the truth that he cheated will still be there. You sleeping with someone else won't justify it. Either get over it, or get a divorce.

Answer 8

Well, do you want to forgive him and move on, or make matters worse?
Revenge will only make it easy for him to run back into the arms of the other woman.

Answer 9

Don't bother. God/Mother Nature/Fate will take care of it. Whether it was a husband who cheated or someone who stepped on my foot deliberately, I just sit back and wait and God gets revenge for me. God is much better at it than we are.

Answer 10

Why would you want to stoop to his level and get revenge back at him? What good will it do when he already has commited adultery? You'll be acting like him!!