2007-04-18 09:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by pebblezz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I used to worry about this.
Then I realized that I am my own person, and I can make a concious choice to be one way or the other.
I made the choice to NOT be like my mom.
And so far, I have been very successful.
I just make decisions on how I want my life to be.
Even when she tells me, to this day, you are my flesh and blood, you will eventually be just like me.
I just laugh, sometimes it pisses her off, but I do. And then I say, Not if I can help it.
And I make decisions in my life to be me, not her.
So it's all up to you. You decide who you are. If you let other people decide for you, they will be glad to. But, you will have to live with that too.
So, make a concious decision today, to be who you are. And then do it.
And know that sometimes this won't be easy. Because you will constantly be pulled to be what they want. But, be yourself, and fight to be yourself. Or you will be just like your mom. Maybe worse, usually when generations keep repeating the prior generation, they add another downfall to it. So remember that too.
Good luck!!!!!!
2007-04-18 09:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Harley Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every female grows up to be somewhat like their mother. I cant stand the fact, but it's true.
2007-04-18 09:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Confused :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is entirely YOUR choice.
2007-04-18 09:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Smilinez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to... no
i didnt
2007-04-18 09:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋