This is a one sided marriage I have no friends not allowed this man didnt even go to my mothers funeral, I love him now is that wrong I was brought up to make things work my parents were married 43 yrs ,I'm just now relizing I'm intitled to happiness and so are my kids so do I wait untill she turns 18 do I leave now I'm afraid I will have to run to get totally away. I've always been the worker now refuse because its just not fair I feel taken advantage of. Beleive all inputs are being read I have nooooo one to turn to my kids are my all that keep me going!!!
2007-04-18 09:24:29 · 2 answers · asked by cmomma1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't waste anymore time in a marriage that isn't working. Staying for the children is wrong, they know Mom isn't happy and yes, I think most of us was raised to make a marriage work, but darn it, it takes two to make one work. Your running in circles and not getting anywhere, so why not give up and enjoy life for once. Your children are old enough to understand and may even be glad that you did. Now, no one can tell you what is best for you, that is something only you know. Try living instead of beating a dead horse.
2007-04-20 14:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy you dont want to raie your children to think that is normal. You want them to see laughs and smiles and happiness all the way around. If you feel used, its either time to talk or run like the wind. No one needs to be miserable forever and believe me it is hard to take that first step. It is easy to say, but the hardest step you will ever take in your life. I wish you luck.
2007-04-18 09:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋