she likes me thinks i am good looking, thinks i am nice and like nothing wrong with me but says she dosent have these special feelings for me ,yet she hardly has had a chance to relly get to know me ,yah we hang out some times and have short talks on the phone but she is very shy and alofe twords guys in genral and no she is not gay she grew up in a differnt country were their is no datting just you i guss have to have some instant attraction from no were i ask her to give me a chance like to get to know me and try to look at me like this to see if she dose like me but is affraid to commit to that but still looks at me with these in love eyes and keeps hanging out with me is she playing hard to get?? if i liked a gril i would not ackt like that but maby grils are differnt ..how can i win her heart my life would be like heaven with her and with out her ...well missrable can anny boddy give me some tips i dont have good lady skills
2007-04-18 09:38:45 · 5 answers · asked by lololol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she may like you but you have to ignore here then she might start likin you more
2007-04-26 09:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by brooklyn s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The special magic of love, it always make the other person look perfect! The problem thou buddy is that she is dealing with issues inside of herself the disallow her to be able to actual develop an intimate (loving/care/doesn't mean sex) relationship with you. The problem to is that she is most likly dealing with that mind posion that friends can't be lovers. Try and fix her mind of this, also she could just being honest, because she really doesn't know what she whats. If you rush her into a relationship, or she rushes herself, it well end in disaster.... now if you really care, keep on her, keep talking to her, try and keep the relationship growing. If you do this enough and you work hard at it you'll win her over... just keep this in mind, behind every deep and meaningful relationship is a friendship, sex does distory friendships, people not growing together does. Be honest with her and at the very least you'll eventaully develop a strong relationship, and maybe you can get her to see how much of a good idea it would be to accept love for you.... love is something we spend time deny, accepting it is easy.
2007-04-19 13:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy with her then maybe what you need to do is set things straight with her and tell her that you aren't into mind games.
Usually people do this because they are quite insecure about themselves and they need to grow up. Personally I don't put up very well with that kind of behavior and I would rather a person be straight with me.
If they can't then I move on.
2007-04-26 11:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u have to tell her how u feel. It might make her see things differently. Spend more time with her, get to know her, feeling get deeper, stronger over time.She grew up in a different culture where its hard to decipher and express feelings. Give her time and communicate in a better fashion.
2007-04-26 11:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone who will love you. Dont ever compromise yourself for someone who cant make up their mind> In love eyes? you love from the inner being not the eyes . go on. meet new people... her loss is your gain! donalore_43
2007-04-26 15:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by donalore_43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋