i left my man because i wasn't happy with the way that things were going. i met a guy and he showed me everything that i deserve as a woman. i was happy being single for a while but when we see eachother now its like we want to talk to eachother but we dont know how to approach one another . i love him and i know he still loves me but something tells me that i need to move on. when isee him i want to run to him and hug him but i hurt him by leavin him and i dont want to lead him on... he's hurt me as well in worse ways but i dont wanna swoop down to his level. im not that kinda female. i dont know what i want... i wasn't quite as happy as i shouldve been while i was with him... but i miss him and im less happier now!!! please help!
2007-04-18 06:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweeite you have every right to still care for him but the truth is you dont want to be hurt again. if u feel like u want to give it a second try then talk abbout what lead u guys to break up to begin with. if he feels like he is ready to try and change then give him a second chance. everyone deserves one esp if he melts your heart! people can change you just got to give him a chance!
2007-04-18 06:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you feel worst. And you are probably going to continue on feeling this way for a long time. You still love him. From What you wrote, the problem here was not love or that you fell out of love with him. Love was never the problem. The problem was you where not being treated the way you deserve to be. That will make you hurt more because you will always want and wish for it. And the fact that it never happened, that he was not good to you is what is tearing you apart now. I know you feel like what did I do? It is natural. When you are in a relationship where you truly love the one your with, you get in a very comfort zone. Everything become familiar and it is almost a force of habit, but when this comfort zone is disrupted all of a sudden, you have the feeling of lost. You become lost empty and scared that nothing seems familiar to you any longer. I can't promise you or give you a specific time, but I can promise you that it will pass. I wish I could tell you sooner rather than later, but the fact that you loved and that was torn apart makes it hard. I know your heart yearns for it, but if you truly want to get over him try as hard as you can not to have any contact with him. In any way. But if you truly believe that he has changed than just listen to your heart and do what you truly think will make you happy before it kills you...........
Thank You :-)
2007-04-18 14:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandra Solano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just sit down and figure out why you weren't happy in your relationship. Exactly what it was that made you unhappy. if it's a simple problem that can be fixed than maybe you should try to fix it if you both really do love each other but if it's not something that can be easily fixed than it probably won't ever be better. You should always be very happy in a relationship not just kind of happy. Being single may feel worse right now but it's better than being in a relationship that isn't going to give you what you need. Then you'll just be wasting time. Just really evaluate everything before you make any kind of decision.
2007-04-18 13:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope every guy runs from you and quick.
You are immature, indecisive and too demanding. Some very bad qualities in a woman, and ones that guys get tired of quickly.
You really need to learn to be happy with yourself first, a guy can't do that for you. It's not possible and it's not his job to make you happy.
2007-04-18 13:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happier now, that is the way you should keep it.
Dont go back because everything you ever deserve will just go back to bad. I think you should stop talking to your ex because if you keep on talkin to him you will never let go of the feelings. Is time for you to move on and by doing that is by letting go.
2007-04-18 13:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think going back to him is the solution.
You didn't split up for no reason last time.
Before you know it it will be the same old story with him again.
Hang in there, you'll feel better in a while and come out stronger!
Good luck.
2007-04-18 13:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your happiness is up to you, not anyone else. If you want to be happy (or more happy) then make yourself happy...choose to be happy.
Nobody can do it for you.
2007-04-18 13:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no "Mr. Perfect" - take the bad with the good, or check out of his life!
2007-04-18 13:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not married, just walk away into the sunset.
2007-04-18 13:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u should love the way he treats u because i am a hoe i will take him
2007-04-18 13:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by twylesha214 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋