Family & Relationships - 18 April 2007

they called us b i t c h e s
or s l u t if we date white men
but they think is good of them get white girls
is that fair to us

2007-04-18 06:20:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my boyfriend and i are getting engaged. and he knows how he is going to ask me, and we were looking at rings the other day, but today i found one i reallly really like... but i dont know how to talk to him about. i dont wana be like oh i really want this ring. i kinda want to hint around to it. i know he will pick out a good ring for me. cause me knows me so well. but im really inlove with this certain ring.http://shop.gmpollack.com/product_info.php?cPath=25_33_95&products_id=485 this is the ring, if you would like to know what it looks like

2007-04-18 06:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by thasaboudit. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 06:18:41 · 23 answers · asked by tina 2 in Singles & Dating

In high school there were people including girls who teased me because I was nerdy. Now I am the man with the muscles, the boxing ability, and the baddest urban wear. Those same girls who teased me now wants me after I came back home to visit. I rejected them hard and laughed at their face. Is that cool revenge?

2007-04-18 06:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lives in Peoria County

2007-04-18 06:13:06 · 2 answers · asked by LuLu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think the most expensive thing i ever got was a light bright and a trip to manitoba / bc kinda funny my fiance grew up with nintendos and segas and there own tv's and trips to different places going boating and everything and its kinda funny because i have all this stuff now i worked and got myself computer big tv and he wants to replace it with things he thinks are better drives me crazy because it kinda makes me feel like all the ahrd work i did to get what i own wasnt good enough anyone one know hwat i mean or have i gone over the deep end?

2007-04-18 06:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by cuddle_bug 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was reading an online article on playing mind games and I found out that I too am to blame. I really don't want to be the type to play this ridiculous game. I guess it grew from when I would ask my friends for advice and they would tell me to do as follows:
1. Wait a few days before you call so you won't seem desperate.
2. If he makes you mad then give the silent treatment.
3. If he talks to his ex then don't let him know you feel upset.
4. etc. etc.
I feel really bad because I feel I lost somebody who I cared about from this and I don't want to loose somebody else. How do I rid myself from this childish game? Seriously!

2007-04-18 06:06:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 06:06:25 · 21 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just asking. I have to tell you that I have seen a girl who could remarkably spot something in a person that seemed well hidden; however, that same girl could have some guy put on a facade and she totally bought it. Feminine intuition seems to pick up on some random stuff in unique ways, but it doesn't seem to work 100% of the time.

2007-04-18 06:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

who would i talk to about changing my sons last name to mine. i got married and he has my madien name?

2007-04-18 06:01:54 · 11 answers · asked by Kenney_98 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sociology instructor came up with these mandatory requirements before getting married. I wanted to know anyones thoughts about these requirements my instuctor came up with.

-STD testing of both partners
-extensive background check
-credit check
-mental health check
-expiration date on marriage license

2007-04-18 06:01:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Although I have been in love b4, & cared very deeply for my ex's....I can get over them & move on with my personal life as well as my emotions....Why is it that they can not move on to someone else? What is it that lets a person move on?

2007-04-18 06:01:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a childishly jealous boyfriend. He's 36 i am going to be 37..I am getting a tatoo just below my bellybutton. I made the appt. sunday and getting it today..my man has never had a tatoo and he was all for mine to be done..i have 1 already, a Boris Vallejos painting on my leg..well, he just called me and told me that he was mad because someone told him that the tatoo artist has to pull my pants "pretty far down" in order to do it...he WAS gonna pay for it Friday, so i had to borrow the money from my boss for today....now my b/f is basically tellin me that he doesn't know if he's gonna be able to handle having the other guy touch my stomach...I told HIM that it's like one of those female dr's...i'm sure that they're not thinkin of boinkin a girl they're examining!! He tells me that i'm wrong....I'm getting it anyhow...my money.....but i'd like to hear some opinions...colorful or not....lets hear what all you have to say......

2007-04-18 05:59:54 · 23 answers · asked by red_rkt 3 in Singles & Dating

What type of gifts can we have on the tables for our wedding? We have a limited budget, but would like it to be something personal for our friends and family.

2007-04-18 05:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

in the family room when all are dinning .. instead of eating your meal ..giving every second bite to your spouse ?

2007-04-18 05:55:41 · 21 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 05:54:56 · 19 answers · asked by CherryBlossom 3 in Weddings

I feel week
need a drink
Where's my lunch
I'm in a crunch
gotta go
buy some punch

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2007-04-18 05:54:40 · 3 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i get a job till i get pregnant? we really dont need the money my hubby makes very good money but i feel guilty staying home all day. i dont even clean house my husband wont let me he hired a maid for me!!!! what do u think ? serious answers only please

2007-04-18 05:51:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can be very close/good girl-friends [that share secrets] or normal friends...

Would U say yes? Consider? whatever?

2007-04-18 05:51:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's a guy I talk to online for about a year now and I like him a lot and he likes me, too.. but sometimes I feel like I'm headed for being too clingy. It's just natural for me to want to talk to him all the time when he's online, or when he's not online, I'll text him and be like, "where's my entertainment at?" (its a joke with us) I can't help it. I don't want to drive him away - but I know some guys hate when a girl is constantly wanting to talk to them, or text them and what not. Should I lay off on trying to talk to him as much? Or at least not text him until he texts me or something? I knew it got bad when I was at a show on my Sidekick on AIM and I told my friend that he needed to get his *** online. She was like, you're being too obsessive. I can't help it. I feel like a hypocrite cause I say I hate guys who are clingy and posessive. Is it natural to feel like you always want to talk to the person? I just don't want to ultimately drive him away.

2007-04-18 05:47:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok.. We seperated for a while to get our heads together. I thought he would never want me to come home again. But he did. We decided I would come home this Friday but I came home last night. Everything was great over the weekend when I spent the night, great sex all night, and we went to the drive in ( great past time) and talked. Last night when I came home I felt weird, and still do. He doesn't talk, like he is scared to say something wrong, or that he made a wrong choice. We tried to talk but it was weird. I feel unwanted, like a burden. We ate then I went to bed and he said he would be in bed with me shortly, I was glad to have him sleep with me again..But he slept on the couch, and this morning we didn't talk. Does anyone know what is going on? Anyone been thru this? Will it get better? I textedhim this morning asking what I needed to do to make it work because now I'm confused, that was 3 hrs ago, no call or text back. I'm confused.

2007-04-18 05:42:53 · 10 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 05:42:35 · 2 answers · asked by luv babygurl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 05:41:44 · 24 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-18 05:39:44 · 22 answers · asked by question gal 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-18 05:37:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my father stopped earning and had no savings.i am the only earning member.he has finally got a job and he is a senior citizen too.always fights with my mother..at times comes to beat her..all this disturbs me a lot.my mom has hypertension problem because of all this..i really get worried about what will happen..we have tried explaining many times to him tht we do care for him but he feels we want him to go away and leave us.he taunts saying you wanted me to work..now whn i am working ,if i get late,u ask y i am late and if i dont work you will say i dont work..how do i handle this? i love mom..cant see her full of tension always..money is the problem we have.

2007-04-18 05:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by zoo z 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i ve married for 10 months.my husband is very jealous.he doesnt let me go out without him,and he doesnt let me work.he works all the day.and i m sitting all day at home .and doing nothing.it s so boring.
once a week he takes me out.the other days he s working.
even i cant go hairdresser alone.what should i do.
he loves me.he is very good to me.but very jealous.i m 19 and it s not fair to sit at home all the day

2007-04-18 05:36:20 · 40 answers · asked by fidan b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and this is why: To start off with I do not like my hubby drinking because once he starts he has a hard time stopping and we had a bad incident once (won't go there). Well I recently let him buy his beer so he can drink it in the comfort of our home but under the condition that he controls the amount he drinks. As soon as he gets home from work he grabs 'a cold one' and yesterday I gave him 'the look' when he stated that he was going to grab one and he said "ok ok, I was just kidding." Well we sat down to eat lunch and what does this man do?! He trys to sneak a bear in the room..he sat it on the floor on the side of the couch, WE HAVE HARD WOOD FLOORS. I mean come on he was trying to be slick. I didn't say anything, I wanted to see where he was goign with this and if he was indeed trying to hide it. I get up to go take a shower and told him to keep an eye on our daughter...the whole time I am getting ready to get into the shower he is peaking his head over the couch (continued)

2007-04-18 05:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hello all! i have an american friend who has a filipina girlfriend...she just met the woman thru chat and he is planning to visit her this september...he asked me a favor if i could help him find out the real status of the woman....what should i do? i live in mindanao and the woman is in luzon...is it ok to call NSO and inquire there? or i will just give the phone number of NSO to my friend and he will do the rest?

2007-04-18 05:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by smart_butterfly 1 in Friends

It usually takes me months or even years to come to grips that someone I know died. But, my friend that just passed away provided me with tears of grief and sorrow in an instant... I keep thinking what made him so different? Is it because I am older now and understand death a little more or maybe because I am more emotional now than I was back then...

I am also very fascinated with death and I think that is another reason why it usually takes me a while to realize that someone is gone forever...

2007-04-18 05:34:26 · 14 answers · asked by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 in Family