2007-04-18 06:06:25 · 21 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you don't trust the situation.
You worry deep down that something COULD happen because hes an EX and they had a history.
It would bother me too, theres no need for someone in a serious relationship or a MARRIAGE to 'reconnect' with an ex...
Don't get me wrong, Im not saying somethings going to happen, I don't know the kind of person your wife is, so please don't take the opinions on here of people say she'll cheat, NO ONE KNOWS HER PERSONALLY, Im just saying its inappropriate.
2007-04-18 06:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by ArmyWife0412 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reconnect?..he's an ex for a reason, I find that disrespectful.
2007-04-18 06:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anita M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it means she's been thinking and dreaming about some other man, wanting to talk to him and share her life with him him, despite being married to you.
And it means she'll look disloyal, so her ex might be glad he's an ex if she's married and hunting down old lovers.
2007-04-18 06:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a tad bit of insecurity on your part. But you could let her know that it's a bit unsettling to you. If she balks, then perhaps your feeling is legitimate. I guess it would also matter, exactly how/why she plans to 'reconnect'
2007-04-18 06:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me too... to know that my wife is still talking to someone that she had sex with before and was in a relationship with this person... you can't help it but to feel jealous of that... it's normal... out of respect for you and your feelings I don't think she needs to connect with her ex again.
Let the past be the past.
2007-04-18 06:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by David 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt trust her either why is it that she wants to reconnect you may trust her but a part of you is probly asking the same thing. if shes just saying hi on messenger i wouldnt worry but if shes going out for coffee and talking on the phone with him for long periods of time id speak up and find out whats going on if she has nothing to hide she has no reason to get defensive just calmly explain how your feeling and ask her how shed feel in your position
2007-04-18 06:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by cuddle_bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should bother you. She left him for you. What makes you so sure she won't do the same in reverse to you? Go hook up with an old girlfriend and just be close friends. Then, see if she approves.
Your treading on thin ice with cement shoes.
2007-04-18 06:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothers you because maybe you think since she broke up with him then that should be it. He's a EX for a reason and he should be nothing more. You want her to be "as one" with you, not paying attention to another man.
2007-04-18 06:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lady_Sweets82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your marriage you'd respect your husbands feelings on this. He has every right to call your ex and his wife on this. Its also highly possible that your husband had a "conversation" with your ex. Which might explain their sudden unfriending.
2016-03-18 03:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the idea that she'd even desire to see someone other than you (esp someone she was previously involved with) sparks just a bit of jealousy...we all like to think we are all our partner would want and that others hold no appeal at all (on any level).
2007-04-18 06:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋