Make love he sometimes loses his um.. well you know. He says this is normal for men .. Is it or is there something Im not doing . He is only 34
2007-04-18 07:06:09 · 21 answers · asked by pink_velvett_66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he says he is still excited but it just doesnt work but he can um .... finish soft
2007-04-18 07:25:47 · update #1
sometimes guys want to be intimate but are under a lot of stress which causes it to go limp. see whats going on in his life, my bf had the same problem til he vented and now everythign is good again.
2007-04-18 07:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it happens on a continuous basis I don't think you or he should be alarmed. My husband has lost his erection on occasion too because he has had alot on his mind - work, family etc. and one time he had a headache (glad he said it & not me!)
This is all assuming that your husband is in good health - even at age 34 a yearly check up is a good idea. Cholesterol, blood pressure, etc all effect blood flow - and that is the subject you have a question about.
2007-04-18 14:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by molly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal for all men. Does he smoke or drink excessively. Does he use any meds or street drugs? He may have a physical problem like blood vessel blockage. He should see a doctor as a first step.
2007-04-18 14:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by birdie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm, not at 34 it's not normal. Are you two having sex late at night when he's tired maybe? You may want to change positions and see what happens. Good luck. Let us all know!! LOL
2007-04-18 14:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean your husband loses his erection.
This can happen with men sometimes. It can happen in stretches, however, if he is losing it with regularity prior to ejaculation, then it may signify either a physical or physiological problem.
ED drugs (Viagra) may help with this problem. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
2007-04-18 14:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Big Super 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men of all ages can suffer from erectile dysfunction...it is a medical condition that can usually be treated. I know that it is embarrassing for you both, but have go to the doctor and she what can be done!
2007-04-18 14:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by GodsGrl4Real 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say not normal, my husband is going to be 32 soon and doesn't have a problem, don't think its you, he might need to see a doc about the little blue pill.
2007-04-18 14:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both probably - he has to know you're with him 100% and enjoying the experience. Don't talk about anything else while having sex. Medications can effect a man's performance.
2007-04-18 14:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sometimes happen but if it seems to become a regular occurance then he should go and get a check up.
Sometimes medications can cause this.
2007-04-18 14:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a few words. No normal, seek professional help.
It can be treated.
Good luck
2007-04-18 20:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by adsomx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋