my bestfriend cheating on her bf?

Question

well i just found out that my bestfriend is cheating on her boyfriend which is one of my friends too, and she is cheating on him with HIS BEST FRIEND. And we are in 8th grade, and the boyfriend is a freshman and his bestfriend is a SOPHMORE. I dont kno if i should tell him or not, and my best friend said when she dumps him she gunna try to get him to go out with me cause i have liked him for awhile. What to do???

Answer 1

*Okay your friend has issues.*

~I'm leaning towards you should probably not blurt out to your guy friend that she's cheating on him, just because it can make a whole lot of drama between all of you. And yes I do understand it's not fair to him, and no he does not deserve to be treated that way and taken for a fool either. But at the same time if you try and interfere, you will only cause more tension and drama.

~Then again, I also want to say you should tell him because he is your friend and he has a right to know. And I respect you a lot for being a good friend to him, and wanting to tell him what is going on. That says a lot about your character.

*Anyways and your friend wants to hook you up with this guy after she's done with him? WOW...who does that? That is messed up, and she obviously is headed down the road of being labeled as the TOWN BICYCLE.

.Alright so I would suggest you and this guy friend of yours and have him come over for a pow wow and you need to discuss it with him. And I know this might cause some tension between you two, and yes he might get upset with you or think you are lying etc. But at the same time I feel like he would be even more pissed off if he found out that you (his friend) knew what was going on the whole time and didn't tell him about it.

*The truth hurts, but I think it's for his own good. And as a friend you should tell him, I know I would rather know the hurtful truth...then go on everyday basically living a lie w/ my boyfriend who's cheating on me.*

**Good luck and let us know how things turn out.
~You are a great friend to him.......keep it that way. :):)

Answer 2

That's a big ol' mess! Don't go out with her BF. That's a no-no. Don't tell anyone anything, but tell her she has to break it off with her BF or you will tell everyone. That should make her tell. There's not a good way out of this to stay friends with everyone involved, so figure out where your loyalties lie.

I am sorry you have to go through this at your age, but it will prepare you for later problems in life if you face it head on now. Good luck!

Answer 3

all of us make errors before everything! yet what your pal did, it is quite harsh and that i does no longer evaluate her a chum.. yet get the entire tale first. communicate on your pal approximately it. EDIT cheating would not unavoidably mean your egocentric. you're human, and that's human nature, a brilliant form of folk have difficulty staying in monogamous relationships. If it relatively is a one time hiccup like kissing somebody else, it particularly is forgivable one time, now if that's over a quantity of time, of direction it particularly is egocentric, yet attempt to work out the two components.

Answer 4

#1 stay out of there relationship because telling you are going to loose a friend. #2 never date your frineds x bf as you are then getting sloppy seconds.

Answer 5

Just avoid it all, let the sh*t hit the fan without you being involved, and play dumb afterwords like you knew nothing.


Besides, your in 8th grade, f*ck it.

Answer 6

What does cheating mean for 8th graders?

Answer 7

Dangerous position you're in!
Try to make your girlfriend tell him herself.
Tell her how much this is bothering you.