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Now she is 38, childless, single, and in a mental hospital, but std free. What kind of damage being with all those men does to a woman ? How can I counsel her and be a better friend ? I know, its weird but me and her are friends. How can I help her forget her past ?

2007-04-18 06:46:44 · 15 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Assuming that she started when she was 18, that would be a little under 3 partners a month for 20 years.

Basically going to the club on the weekend and hooking up with a new girl or guy.

Her choice of contraception is excellent.

2007-04-18 07:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0 0

I feel sorry for her, will you can't forget the past. But thank god she don't have a STD. Also are you serious she slept with 700 partner. Is that impossilble.

2007-04-18 06:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0 0

Is that all she did for the last 38 years? Being with that many men wouldn't leave much time for anything else.
I don't know if you can help her to forget her past. Just listen to her I guess.

2007-04-18 06:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0 0

-Mental hospital for depression or other reasons? Need to know her disgnosis in order to help her better.
-Damage being with many men? Difficult to comment coz many reasons for the breakups.
-Counsel her? just spend time with her. Be yourself and dont be too preoccupied with her past. Dont stress yourself. DOnt try too hard too coz counselling someone can be draining. Seek professional help if she needs it. They are trained to run therapies.
-Forget her past? No.. I dont think so. She can only accept her past rather than forget.

2007-04-18 07:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wow that is a lot. She has some deep seated issues that you will not be able to help her with, unfortunately.In a situation like that she can not forget her past. She may be able to try to move on, but with that type of damage and self abuse, she wil always have issues.

2007-04-18 06:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly234 4 · 0 0

That is really disturbing. If she slept with 700 men that means she gave part of herself to 700 men. Honestly your a dumb *** fool for being with a women who was so easy....She may cheat on you...You need to find someone better. Sorry.

2007-04-18 06:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Bride2Be 4 · 0 1

Go visit her and when she gets out spend a lot of time with her.She may have been trying to feel loved.Something in her childhood may play a role in her situation.She may need to go to counseling.she may just be a sex addict.

2007-04-18 07:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Dont you think you should ask someone who has been with 700 men? I certainly have so I cant tell you.

2007-04-18 06:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0 0

If she started having sex at age 16, she would have a new guy every eleven and a half days up until now. I don't believe her.

2007-04-18 06:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wow thats alot and she didnt get an std
wow she will live for many years
she will outlive many people maybe until 100

2007-04-18 06:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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