Family & Relationships - 10 April 2007

I am 52 years old, and even though I am in good shape...well, here is my question. My boyfriend asked me to help him move a 35 inch tv outside to his car. I went to lift it. My end was very heavy to me. The tv slipped out of my hands and I dropped it. He had a FIT!!!!! He was yelling and cussing and I said I was sorry. I looked at the tv. A litle piece of plastic was chipped off the front, but the tv was okay. He never even asked if I was okay, or anything. I was crying and he told me to go home!!!! A few days later I told him I was sorry for dropping my end, but it really was too heavy. He didn't apologize until I made a big deal out of it. Do I have a right to still be mad? Some have told me he is verbally abusive. What do you think?

2007-04-10 04:01:18 · 21 answers · asked by susan15022001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

being in love? I mean I've been talking to this guy for a while, and we started talking as friends. It has developed into more. We've been intimate, and he hadn't said I love you before. From the beginning he talked about how he is really into me, and how he wanted me to be his Queen. More and more he says I'm falling in love with you. We've been talking for about 3 mos, and he told my friend today that he loves me (he works with my bestfriend). I don't think I can really trust him because she says he has been with a lot of girls at her job. She says he's a hoe. I told him what I heard, but he says that if he was playing me, I would've noticed by now. I must admit that he has treated me well, and I don't really have a big reason not to trust him, but I don't want to invest too much of my feelings into him if he is just trying to play me. He isn't even my boyfriend, so I'm skeptical about if his feelings are true. What do you guys think?

2007-04-10 03:59:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex called me at midnight and told me he was in the emergency room form 3rd degree burns. His gf burned him with some hot grease from the stove while they were in a fight. I say fight b/c he admit she hit him and he hit her and scratched his eye. He said that she is a consistent liar and I know that. He basically dumped me b/c we were long distance (thank God) .
I've told him before about talking about that stuff to me but he calls and I am curious as to what goes down but won't take him back.
Do you think he wants to get back together is why he calls?
And we also have a kid too.

2007-04-10 03:55:57 · 9 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend Kevin and I have been together for about 3 years since we were both 19.His best friend of 5 years, Jake and my best friend of 7 years, Casey have been dating for about a year now and we would hang out together a lot. One night 6 months ago we arranged for the 4 of us to go to this party and both my boyfriend and best friend couldn't make it so me and Jake went together. We flirted most of the night and ended up sleeping together. We felt like total **** about it the next day because my boyfriend pretty much worshipped the ground I walked on and my best friend adored Jake. We agreed to keep it a secret which turned into a 6 month affair that neither of our partners ever suspected. We probably would've felt guilty as hell if we hadn't had so much fun together and had the motto that you’re only young once. Two weeks ago we got caught and our partners went nuts. I've had my BMW keyed, the word “****” spray painted on my car, Jake’s car got bashed with a baseball bat and his tires slashed which my they’re getting the bill for. They’re being really childish about all of this and making idiots out of themselves. What is wrong with these people?

2007-04-10 03:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am leaving my boyfriend of 18 month in 14 days. Our relationship was very very bad at times, & I have lost all my trust in him & feel he doesnt respect me & so forth, never the less I love him, I know thats probably really dumb...I am going to miss him & his company/presence...I cry like everyday now cause I know I am leaving & no I cant stay chances are just too great that he will disrespect me again & then I will be mad atmyself all over again...so do yawl have any remedis on how this could be 100% easier or how I could look forward to leaving or how I could make peace with the fact that I am loosing him & that I gave up on what I thought was the love of my life? I cry cause when I first met him I fell so hard in love with him i thought that he was it forever that I would never have to worrie about things anymore that I finally found love & now I am not even myself anymore & I cry cause I quit trying to make this work, but sometimes it takes 2 to try...I will love him forever

2007-04-10 03:54:57 · 17 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

And he agreed, saying that there's nothing wrong, they are just friends who call each other and confide in each other regularly?

2007-04-10 03:53:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He talks to her like **** basically and theyre forever arguing, we've met about 4-5 times and all ive got out of him is' alright' and 'see ya' The other night we went out clubbing (me and my sister) and he was on the phone ' you better not b in hotpants' its up 2 her what she wants to wear, i certainly wouldnt let a man tell me what to wear. but she doesnt see things from my point of view, i dont want to see her getting hurt, she was in a relationship b4 with someone just the same and he turned out abusive and i also hated him from the start, so she stopped dating for a few years now shes met her new fella she thinks the sun shines out his **** and wants the full works with him, she wants kids and marriage and stuff, how can i make her see sense??

2007-04-10 03:53:23 · 1 answers · asked by Leesa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 03:49:46 · 7 answers · asked by sea me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay - here's the deal! I have left my husband 3 times for another man. The same man each time. When I am with the other man, I miss my husband, when I am with my husband, I miss the other man!! What should I do?

2007-04-10 03:48:08 · 40 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean what is the point of reciting it, if people doesn't intend to keep it?

Marriage vows is meant of honoring one's love for his/her spouse and his love for her under good or bad times, till death do they part. it has nothing to do with if the spouse revolt his/her isn't it?

its a sacred vow and to me it simply mean I WILL LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. and it revolves around love and forgiveness. simple as that.

Any reasons for filing divorce is just a lame excuse.

2007-04-10 03:42:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 03:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other day, I used my g/f's cell to make a call and saw another mans number in the recently called list, I was not looking for that kind of thing. This guy's number is also stored in her contacts list as it came up with only the first name. When I asked her about it she got mad saying I was invading her privacy. She said it was her friends boyfriends number, what would you think?

2007-04-10 03:38:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a new guy I met in December. First he was completely into me, calling and texting often. We got along well, finally in the beginning of March I agreed to go out with him 'officially'. A week or two later, it was like a lightswitch. Instead of him being extremely engaged and intestered, he became distant. It started a few days before he had to go out of state for 5 days for a funeral, (and this distant thing started a little before he found out a distant uncle had passed). I sent him one message while he was gone and didn't hear back - I chalked it up to being with family. I haven't seen him since he came back, we've texted a few times - and all I've heard for the last two weeks is that he's really stressed and has a lot on his mind. I message him about once every 2-3 days, I'm doing my best not not be 'overbearing' but I also don't want to act completely disinterested. I'm at the breaking point now, I didn't hear back when I asked if he wanted to get together.

2007-04-10 03:37:55 · 12 answers · asked by country_girl_in_a_city 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 03:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that he really does care and love me for sure and we've been together for a year and a month and i am 17 yrs. old and i know that i should know better than to take him back but it hurts me so bad and when i try and leave him alone he'll keep callin and txtin me over and over until i finally answer... I feel like when i break up with him then im punishing him b.c he cant be with me but im really punishing myself b/c it hurts me so much b/c im not with him... and this isnt the first he's cheated on me with and i want to be with him forever but i know that if i kepp taking him back he'll think its okay to do it again...so what do i do??

2007-04-10 03:31:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating this girl before I joined the Air Force for a year. We were mad in love. She was 17 and I was 20. After I left for the Air Force we grew apart and I got married. During my marriage all I could do is think about the girl before the Air Force. It lead to my divorce 3 years later. The girl found me on myspace a few months after my divorce. We both had been thinking of each other the whole time we were apart. I am back home now. We have been seeing each other for about 4 months. Things for the most part are great. I asked her to commit to me, to be my girlfriend, or fianc'e. She says she does want to marry me... eventually, but right now the time isnt right. She says she loves me but needs to work out personal stuff first. I dont know what those issues are and she doesnt explain them to me. What could those possible issues be and why would the time not be right?

2007-04-10 03:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by spire8901 2 in Singles & Dating

16 years ago a wife left her 1 year old daughter with nothing but a diaper on. Before she did that she shot her then husband in the knee and cheated on him and left. Now her ex-husband is stupidly smiling on a picture with her is he crazy or what?? I know you are supposed to forgive but this woman clearly had no concern for her family then and he looks like an idiot!!

2007-04-10 03:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by phillyprincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 03:24:04 · 12 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Weddings

2007-04-10 03:21:46 · 18 answers · asked by exosphere74 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is obbsessed with me. Literally! It's kind of scary. He says that he is just showing how much he loves me, but man, I dont know. He calls me all day every day. He gets upset when I talk to others. He is jealous of my relationship with my mom and sister. He refuses to help around the house. He practically sits on me while on the couch, he wants me in the bathroom with him while he's taking a bath, when he goes to sleep at night if im not tired he insists i lay next to him anyways. I cant leave his side. He hacked into my email and read everything (not like i had anything to hide). Goes through my cell phone. ect........ I do love him and all but im not in love with him. He makes it really hard to want to be with. but when i mention it, Oh Im sorry please forgive me what can i do to change stuff like that is what i hear all the time. help

2007-04-10 03:21:30 · 54 answers · asked by who knows 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A year ago I was a skinny guy (maybe a little two skinny) who would have women tell me "you should start going to the gym." I started working out REALLY hard and now women tell me that I overdo it. How muscular does a guy's body have to be in order to be considered sexy?

2007-04-10 03:18:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some weeks ago, my boyfriend asked me to slap him silly. I first refused, but as he insisted, he got it in the evening as a foreplay of a wonderful night.

Here is the problem: I loved it, but he told me the following day he did not want that anymore.

So here's my question: should I do it anyway and be abusive; stop doing it and be frustrated; or find a man who would ask for more and be a cheater.

2007-04-10 03:16:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You find another womans phone number in your mans recently dialed phone numbers. When you ask about it, he gets mad because he says you are invading his privacy, he also says it is his friends girlfriend. Would you be thinking something is going on, if so what ?

2007-04-10 03:16:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we all know that males sexual drive is far moe than woman
for many factors and reasons such as :
- testosterone levels differences ( the hormone of sex drive) man have 20 times more than woman
- men are very visual and turned on by woman's body unlike woman who is only emotional
-man is extremly attracted to woman on all ways , emotional , physical,visual , audioal..all
-women are tought science thier are child that sex is not allowed and if she express she will be a slut
- women show thier bodies which make men all the time horney by what they see in movies,net,streets,beach..etc but men dont show thier bodies as women&also women are not visual
- women have bisexual arousal patern which mean they can be aroused by both sexes unlike man who is attracted to opposite sex only
-women are very attractive &soft and curvy which increase man's desire unlike man who is raugh and have body hair
- some experts say men are more emotional but they dont express it freely like women we who

2007-04-10 03:14:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 03:14:07 · 9 answers · asked by shukla 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My last questions were in regards to my baby's dad who had a problem, etc, we argued (check out the last questions) I left him - after he busted me across the mouth with a shoe - BUT I did it- I took my son and we are staying at a friends house - I wanted to thank everyone for the advice and WOW for once in my life I actually took it. My baby's dad keeps calling and telling me that he's all f*cked up - I fel bad- but the massive bruise on my face reminds me that love hurts and I have to put my son in a safe place - again thanks for all of the advice.......

2007-04-10 03:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by Sweetness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 19 years old and all i do is go to school i dont have any friends and i can forget about having a boyfriend i need help ????

2007-04-10 03:12:23 · 16 answers · asked by Tasha M 1 in Friends

I started out was just gonna go to church this one night because my daughter asked to got to revival with her well that night I excepted Jesus in to my life now every time I go to church it is an arguement for about two to three days because I am Baptist and he is Cathilic and he says you shouldn't go to church twice on Sunday and then go back on Wedesday well it has been horrible. My husband says that this may be the end of us but I told him not tomake me choose because I love my husband but I told him I would not be eternally damned because he doesn't understand the Baptist way how do I get him to understand that this could make our realation ship better if he would just let it

2007-04-10 03:11:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sheila S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Ya'll,
Last night I was talking to my husband just telling him how thing were different before marriage,that we had so much of romance and used to talk for a long time.But nowadays things have changed and we dont get time for each other.
So jokingly,i asked him about his affair before marriage,so he said he didn't have any!Then i asked him what about crush ,he said it was nothing like that ,that he did not get that kind of feelings for anyone.How is that possible???I mean any human being on this earth has hundreds of crushes.I just dont beleive him.Ours was an arranged marriage.I mean the reason i am asking you people this is because after that incident ,i am not able to trust him.I tried asking him earlier but he just said nothing!I think he did not have a good past affair or may be he just thinks that he should not tell me everything may be just because basically he doesn't trust me.Why is it that he wants to hide?I just wanted to ask out of curiosity but no answer from him?

2007-04-10 03:11:48 · 11 answers · asked by maple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

woman, in your opion , during sex, would you rather be on the top or the bottom?

2007-04-10 02:57:05 · 23 answers · asked by queenchairdy101 1 in Singles & Dating