Family & Relationships - 10 April 2007

Ok. It's not the she doesn't like me, she's just very protective of her son. He's 27 and went through a very nasty divorce and custody battle 2 years ago that was very emotional for his whole family, especially his mom. After that his "rebound" girl I guess you could say, was this stripper that claimed to be pregnant with his kid. After raising the child for 6 months he found out she wasn't his and the girl left the state with her, which also broke his mom's heart because she was really attached to the little girl. I care about him a lot and he doesn't seem to care what his mom thinks but I do! I don't want her to think I'm like the other ones because I'm far from it. She's always nice to me and she hasn't told him that she doesn't like me, she just tells him he needs to be more careful and more picky. The other two lived off of him completely. I'm 24, have a good steady job that pays well, my own place and pay my own bills and provide for my kids. How can I change her mind about me?!

2007-04-10 07:31:05 · 15 answers · asked by CrystalDawn 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 07:27:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Details please!

2007-04-10 07:27:28 · 17 answers · asked by retooser 4 in Singles & Dating

I love this Guy and im just not sure of were going out right now. everyone says we are but im not sure. He said just wait untill I see u 2morro and we did and he then he has been saying stuff a boyfriend would say. Im so confused HELP!!

2007-04-10 07:25:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i have taken that as a compliment

2007-04-10 07:23:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 07:23:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

GOSH PEOPLE...JUST A TYPICAL YOUNG GUY WHO USUALLY LETS THE WIFE MAKE DINNER. BUT I NEED TO TAKE CARE OF HER TONIGHT SO ME MAKING DINNER WOULD BE THE BEST THING BUT WOW WHAT CAN I DO?

2007-04-10 07:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i saw this guy i like about a month ago and i asked him "I thought you quit smoking?" and he was like "I did, but I haven't seen you in awhile so I started again." was this a part of his game or could he have meant it? we had just got done having sex in the backseat of his car behind Home Depot, and after that he took me home. He asked me if i wanted to get a hotel later on and spend the night together, and I told him yes and he said he'd call me an hour later and he never did! i tried to call him and asked him if he still wanted to go, and he said "yeah, but let me call you right back." and he never did! why did he propose a hotel room with me, if he wasn't planning on getting one?

2007-04-10 07:19:26 · 17 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 07:17:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ony Aksin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-10 07:17:37 · 3 answers · asked by Robbie O 1 in Singles & Dating

guys... what do you find intamite sorry about the spelling lol

2007-04-10 07:15:12 · 3 answers · asked by tee 2 in Singles & Dating

lets say i like a guy and i know he thinks im attractive but he's not interested in me (not yet, anyways!)
what is the best way to grab his attention so he will start being interested in me?

2007-04-10 07:14:51 · 3 answers · asked by Violet 2 in Singles & Dating

No wrong answers here.
Is it something about her appearance or something in the bedroom?
I really want to please my man, and need some ideas.
;)

2007-04-10 07:14:12 · 28 answers · asked by The Sweetness ASU 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out that the father of my 11 yo is not her father. How do I tell her? Her real father is in the picture now - we are dating again.

2007-04-10 07:10:56 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine39kkla 1 in Family

Help! A friend is planning her wedding with her son (1yr) and her 2 nephews (ages 1 and 2 1/2) involved. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this? The wedding is May 7th.
Thanks!

2007-04-10 07:09:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i went to my boyfriends house when he was at work and i left him this trail of surprises... but than i found a porn collection in his room. I also found out that he was lying to me about not smoking anymore for months. Now i kept telling myself, "all guys look at porn, its normal." but it still bothers me to think of him doing it. I'm too embarrassed to say anything, but i dont want it to do anything to our relationship. i mean i know he loves me and hes horny at his age..20. But i have been through so much with guys being perverted asses, that its hard to know my boyfriend likes it. i was molested and have had problems with harrassment throughout my life, and im still dealing with it. its hard and I hate thinking that he looks at other girls or something. i know it sounds ridiculous, but i have no idea what to do. i want to just ignore it! I just hope he isn't addicted or something

2007-04-10 07:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the difference between an annulment process and uncontested divorce ?

2007-04-10 07:06:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Y do women call up men that they really like & are interested in pursuing something more serious with & offer them sex. Don't they know that sex isn't going to make him be in a relationship with them & them they ge mad when the guy doesn't call respond to them like they want him to.

Y do women offer sex when what they really want is love? Is it because they think men only want sex & that's the only way to get attention & why do men take advantage of women that they claim they really have no genuine interest in but they sleep with them anyway? Y do women call me for sex & then get mad when they don't want a relationsp? Y do men cheat on the women they claim they luv 2 go have sex with some skank @ 3 in the morning? Y is sex so important that guys can't say no?

2007-04-10 07:04:15 · 1 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

its not the best way to go.....but if your spouse cheats, and you do too in retaliation....arent you then on a level playing field where things can be worked out?

2007-04-10 06:59:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter's 1st birthday party will be taking place in about 3 months from now. Sadly I recently lost my cousin and his father (my uncle) within the past 4 months (these are close relatives on my dad's side of the family). My original plan was to invite my relatives from both my mom and dad's side of the family to my child's 1st birthday party in July. I am planning to invite my other aunts and cousins from my dad's side. Is it better to send my greiving relatives an invitation too, or should I not send one to them at all. I don't want them to feel hurt (if I do not send them an invite) and I don't want to be rude (if they have no desire to attend). Please help me in this delima.

2007-04-10 06:58:53 · 16 answers · asked by Tacymevol 5 in Family

2007-04-10 06:57:31 · 22 answers · asked by surjames 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband wants to continue our relationship, but he keeps showing he doesn't value our marriage. Then he is unhappy I have no enthusiasm for our marriage when he does these things. I gently declined celebrating our aniversary. If I find another man, what "Pete" says or does can't affect me as before. Yes, I've talked to him, but he just gets mad at me for not being happy.

2007-04-10 06:48:17 · 17 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am wondering if my daughters biological father gives up all his rights so he doesn't have to pay child support will his mother still be able to file for grandparents rights?

2007-04-10 06:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by cat 1 in Family

2007-04-10 06:41:30 · 19 answers · asked by lucky s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How hard is it for people to take care fo their elderly parents what do they have to do to take care of them.

2007-04-10 06:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica G 1 in Friends

Oook so, I've been dating a guy for one year and two months *long distance*, at first it was wonderful, talked on the phone daily for hours and hours.. then a few things changed. I started getting hurt easy, I was expecting way too much, so I cheated on him. By cheating I mean kissed someone else. I regreted it, but I blamed it on him.. It wasnt HIS FAULT. Anyway, after that it just went down hill, he told me to give him time, after a few months he turned into the old him, but I've changed... I just feel like I dont love him... But I dont know how I can live my life without him, he's everything I know. I admit I want someone here, who can handle me 24/7.. but it hurts me so bad if I see him hurt.. I just cant handle it.. I really dont know what I want... him.. or something else.. not necesarely another guy. This last week I've been hanging out alot with friends, and he bitches at me saying I ignore him. I was happy with my friends... I USED to be happy with him.. I dont know anymore.

2007-04-10 06:40:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with this man, he's in love with me... But we don't seem to talk much lately... Time difference.. But it's getting into me. I miss him.. What if he doesn't love me anymore and he's only going on with this wedding thing to keep his word? What if he leaves me later :(

2007-04-10 06:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by Shereen 1 in Weddings

My 22 year old cousin move in with us and while he lived there i partied and drank. He never did anything wrong though. But when he left they raid my room and found alcohol. So now that they found out i still talk to him they want to call my probation officer and have me removed from my house.idk what to do!

2007-04-10 06:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by Danyell M 1 in Family

Every time someone asks a question or wants advice, I keep seeing people telling them to seek counseling. Are those people getting kick backs from the "counseling center"? It truly disgusts me that people think that if they have a minor problem, they need to go to a counselor for help. Other terms for counselor include Phsycologist, Therapist, Marriage Specialist, and Quack. You know, I once met a woman who claimed the title of "Marriage Specialist" and had never been married. Anyway, I think therapy is a waste of time in most cases and there are less expensive and more effective ways to make youself feel good about your life. I am just wondering if I am the only one who feels this way.
I know that there will be a bunch of answers that will tell me how right I am (hoping for that "best answer") and about as many that will tell me to seek counseling. I just want to know if there is anyone who will actually put true thought into giving me an answer.

2007-04-10 06:33:26 · 33 answers · asked by dadof7n2001 4 in Marriage & Divorce

would you leave him on a gut feeling even though he protested his inocence ?

2007-04-10 06:33:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce