would you leave him on a gut feeling even though he protested his inocence ?
2007-04-10 06:33:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd get the facts first, then act according to what I'd found out.
2007-04-10 06:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice to see that immature people still thrive here. Someone you're supposed to love and trust...that you spend almost every day with...and you will trash a relationship based on a "gut" feeling. Nothing more. No proof. No evidence, nothing regarding anything you may have said to this partner that would lead you to belive this other than a "gut' feeling.
Whoever this partner is they'll be better off if you quietly slip out of their life. You are not ready for a relationship just yet.
2007-04-10 13:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! Gut feelings aren`t always reliable. Get some sort of proof that he`s having an affair.
2007-04-10 13:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't do anything on gut feelings at all. GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT FIRST then do what you have to do. Imagine if you're wrong and you only find this out after you've done gone and packed everything up and moved out with the children. How are you going to redeem yourself from that. Think before you act.
2007-04-10 14:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need concrete proof of an affair, rather than act with gut feeling.....but if i found that proof--its zero tolerance all the way and no turning back.
2007-04-13 09:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i wouldnt do anything unless i had proof. but i mean you know your partner better than anyone so you shouldnt ignore that gut feeling, but i would dig deeper to see what i could find.and guys will never admit they are cheating untill they are actually caught in the act. they cant really lie after that, so if i were you i would be on it. just dont let him know you are suspicious becuz then he will be more careful of what he is doing and that is just going to make it harder on you to find out the truth!! Best of luck to you!!
2007-04-10 13:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by *Gelli* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Usually gut feelings are right on. But are you willing to put your relationship on the line for your feeling. Be sure before you take any action.
2007-04-10 13:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sierra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your suspicions are very strong and hes maintained all along that nothing has gone on, it wqould be a question of trust and how much you rely on what he says to be true.
Look at the reasons for suspecting fowl play and ask yourself were your reasons were founded. If not then you need to ask yourself if its paranoia or just a case of mistrust.
The rest will be down to you as to wether you let him go after convincing yourself that hes guilty
2007-04-10 13:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust the gut that something is wrong, but use your eyes and ears to determine if its true. The heart will get in the way.
2007-04-10 13:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always get your evidence first before accusing someone. your gut feeling may feel strongly right to you but it could turn out to be wrong! If you're fed up with the relationship then reconsider staying with your partner and drop him and move on! always get your facts before you speak! hope it all works out for you !
2007-04-10 13:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by baby phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though gut feelings are usually right... I would have to have proof
2007-04-10 15:09:27 · answer #11 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋