I'm in love with this man, he's in love with me... But we don't seem to talk much lately... Time difference.. But it's getting into me. I miss him.. What if he doesn't love me anymore and he's only going on with this wedding thing to keep his word? What if he leaves me later :(
2007-04-10 06:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by Shereen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Oh, hunny, he's not going to go through this wedding because of "his word" because honestly, there's no man in America who will marry because of that. No. Honestly. If he wants to marry you, then he loves you. If you want to be a wife, then you have to realize that his life doesn't begin and end with you. He has a job, no? He has a family, no? He has hobbies, no? Maybe you should realize you can have a life outside of him as well. That doesn't mean that you don't love him, and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you...just means you love life.
2007-04-10 06:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is always an issue in a long-distance relationship; especially when a wedding is approaching.
On the one hand, I would say that if you are not SURE he's truly in love with you, then you should not yet be married. But, I also know there is a period of time leading up to the wedding when each of the couple gets nervous. Which is it for you?
2007-04-10 06:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by wizbangs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shereen, dear, don't borrow trouble.
Naturally, you miss this man, and it's often difficult to communicate when you're on opposite sides of the world (it can even be hard when you're on opposite sides of the same room!).
Is he still communicating with you with a fair degree of regularity? Has he said or done anything to make you think that he's simply going forward with the wedding plans merely because he feels he's gone too far with them to back out honorably?
I suspect that what's bothering you is a combination of separation from the man you love and pre-wedding jitters, but if you can think of anything concrete that would indicate that this man no longer loves you and is just going on with the marriage because he feels it to be a duty or something, then maybe you should release him from his promise.
I wish you the best, whatever you decide.
2007-04-10 07:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Chrispy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fiancee visa is the place you reside in u . s . a . and practice for him to return to u . s . a .. Processing takes approximately 9 months and while he arrives, you have 3 months to get married. as quickly as you're married then you definitely practice to alter his status so as that he can get a non everlasting eco-friendly card. there is likewise one requirement of a fiancee visa - which you the two ought to have met in individual a minimum of as quickly as until eventually now you practice. in case you pass to jordan and marry him there, this is going to take you plenty lot longer to get him to u . s . a . once you're married extremely than until eventually now. presently taking approximately 2 years and he has to stay in Jordan that finished time. no longer a physically powerful thank you to start a marriage. my advice is so you might pass to jordan and meet him, (take numerous photos at the same time) merely be beneficial you greater healthful after which you come back to u . s . a . - depart him in jordan - and practice for the fiance visa. some thing tells me that he might unlike that because of the fact meaning he relies upon on an american woman to get him his eco-friendly card. Please be unquestionably beneficial that he's not making use of you just to get the eco-friendly card. do no longer enable him stress you right into a determination you will sense sorry approximately later.
2016-10-02 11:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 if you are worrying like this then the two of you are NOT ready to get married. Don't rush it that will only end BADLY! Talk and communicate if you cannot communicate before the wedding believe me it won't get any better after. And if he leaves you move on, it happens everyday and it'll be tough but it has been done before!
2007-04-10 06:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are getting cold feet. Just try to talk more often and work through this issue.
2007-04-10 06:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by suz' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves you stay
2007-04-10 06:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
welcome to america pal. it happens all the time here.
2007-04-10 06:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tony M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋