I love this Guy and im just not sure of were going out right now. everyone says we are but im not sure. He said just wait untill I see u 2morro and we did and he then he has been saying stuff a boyfriend would say. Im so confused HELP!!
2007-04-10 07:25:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant be serious
2007-04-10 07:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, so a relationship is built on two people, im sure you know that already.
When you break up for the first time, there was problems and usually, when one relationship fails, and you get back together, the past catches up with the present and you two break up again (break up number 2). If you really want this to work, you have to work out all your problems.
You have to ask yourself and him why you two broke up not only, once but three times. Obviously there is a huge problem to break up that much.
If you two are not willing to face the problems or admit that there are problems or not try to change, but there is no point in getting back together and you two are not together.
Just because he's acting like a boyfriend after losing his chance to act like a proper one (three times!) doesn't mean he is your boyfriend.
My opinion is to just treat him as a friend,
three strikes is just too much.
2007-04-10 07:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not "going out" until both agree that is what is happening. Until then you are just dating and can do that with whoever you want too. The fact that you have gone out with a guy a few times is meaningless in and of itself.
No offense but it's way too soon to think you love a guy after just a few dates. That just screams out immaturity and foolishness. Men will use that against you as they know they now have you hook line and sinker.
2007-04-10 07:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 08:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really if he already wants to be with you after 3 dates watch out he could end up being really needed. I had a guy like that and it turns out all bad take your time make sure you know who your dating
2007-04-10 07:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by undecided nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you love this guy and you have only gone out with him a couple of times? Something wrong with this whole picture.
2007-04-10 07:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, you love him but find yourself confused cos he talks like a boyfriend? Sounds like you don't much go for the boyfriend-girlfriend thing. Tell him this, but tell him you like doing this and this and this and this with him cos it makes you feel good. Being his girlfriend makes you feel like some dog he's taking for walks... His reaction to this should tell you how much he likes *you*!! ;-)
2007-04-10 07:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ony Aksin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go along with it. If you like him and you wanna date him then there's no problem. Don't be so frightened of trying new things, ur lucky it's the beginning of a relationship when everything is new and exciting! x
2007-04-10 07:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Andyluvsya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you confused? It sounds like you are both on the same page. Just take it as it comes---it's early in the relationship.
2007-04-10 07:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to him about it....if you don't....he could play you and then drop you the second better something comes around, and use the excuse that "you weren't together" Be careful
2007-04-10 07:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you TWO know if you guys are going out. Just ask yourself if thats what you want then, ask him if thats what he wants. You don't have to ask us, just ask each other. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-10 07:29:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anji25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋