Family & Relationships - 10 April 2007

Some of you are going to roll your eyes at this because I've been with this guy for so long but I'm honestly seeking an answer. If your going to be heartless or rude don't read any further.

I've been dating this guy for 2 years (3 years come november) and we're living together have been for about a year. I'm 20 and he's 22. We met when we I was 12 & he was 14 (shared a journalism class) My boyfriend shows no affection at all, if he goes to give me a kiss goodbye its a kiss on the cheek, he doesn't say he loves me to my face, he's only said it when he thinks i'm sleeping, i've never once gotten anything sentimental from him and when i did a radio dedication to him that got played by Kasey Casem and he heard it and looked at me and said "YOUR SUCH A GIRL"

Why does he do this, he doesn't show any affection and I don't know why he doesnt. I'm not afraid to tell him I love him, ive done it many times before so why can't he do the same or something to show his feelings?

2007-04-10 09:00:59 · 20 answers · asked by *Heather* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 08:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

The DNA results were just revealed and he is the daddy. What do you think will happen now?

2007-04-10 08:45:43 · 13 answers · asked by bluemist 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are far as male/female relationships go has society brainwashed you, or are you your own person? Explain or give examples.

2007-04-10 08:45:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

family around would you move to where you do have family,but the pay and jobs are low,especcially during a hard time during your life, my spouse does one minute and not the next,it's his family's hometown area we are in our very early 30's with 2 biological children 7 yr old and 2 month old and adopting my niece (8) and nephew (2).

2007-04-10 08:44:50 · 1 answers · asked by pharmacy mama 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-10 08:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by adrian_007_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

A trust fund was set up for my cousin in the 1980s. He was married about 12 years ago and his wife claims he is now broke. How can this be verified? His father said he had put away enough for him to live comfortably after he had passed.

2007-04-10 08:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by shirline g 2 in Family

2007-04-10 08:44:00 · 5 answers · asked by Showstopper 3 in Singles & Dating

well we have been together for 8 month now supose to get married in july and move together, but he's listening to lies other people are telling him when hes asking me to trust him. he even call up my ex boyfriend to ask sh i tt about me so my ex lie to him now he saying that he tought i was good im a liar and a whore. hes been go on for 8 month hes a soldier, i have never not even once cheated or even think bout doing that, he cant trust me and that hurt so badly that he would believe other's even my ex before me i dont wanna marry a men that do not love me i dont know what t do i love him so much and i cant stop crying, and i think that he dont trust me nomore then before.
thanks god bless

2007-04-10 08:32:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked this girl for her number at school
she seem flatter... she was smiling... she said she doesnt know her cell phone number... than i said i cant call you sometime? she said theres problems and its complicated to explain... and i left it at that. couple days later i gave a note to her friend to give to her. inside the note was my number and at the bottom i put your friend.... was that bad? anyways i havent seen her at school shes been sick and hasnt called me. im wondering if her friend gave her the note to her... her friend is a guy who is gay... she lives with her grandparents... so her problem is with her parents... today i think she was trying to get my attention... she was always going towards my way to get something in class... she could of went a different way to get something... how do i approach her??? i dont want to be a stalker or a creep to her... i think she likes me a lilttle bit, but shes playing hard to get. need advice... were in highschool

2007-04-10 08:31:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's the difference between one a spouse that has cheated and one spouse telling lies.He also think the lies are not lies and are not a big deal.....Which is worse?

2007-04-10 08:28:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how did you get through it? And if you are the man, when/how did you "come out" of it??

2007-04-10 08:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well, me and my husband separated and i have no job no money cant work, i have a illness (bipolar disorder). my husband cheated on me and he said he didnt but i no he did bc of all of the evidence so we dont live together i just need help and answers i cant pay for a lawyer im s.o.l but the thing is im not sure how long u have to be wtih ur husband bf anything happends ive been with him for 6 years and been married for only 11/2 year so im not sure if that matters or not someone please help me!!

2007-04-10 08:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 08:21:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in September of 2006 and since then we have not been in contact since. I have not heard a single word from her. We were in a relationship for 2 years and 15 days and when we broke up I lost contact with her and her family.

But this past Wednesday, I received a call from her father. He left me a voicemail, saying he "was just wondering how I was doing, if I was still going to school in the city, talk to you later."

I called him back a couple hours later and he didn't answer so I left him a message saying hi and told him what was new in my life and school, and I told him that I was leaving to go back home in one month.

Why would he be calling me now? I mean, I haven't heard from him or his daughter who broke my heart in over 6 months.

Before the breakup there was mention of me transferring to another school, and in one month I have to go back to Arkansas for the summer. Could my ex have told him to call? Should I see her before I leave to go back home?

2007-04-10 08:18:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 39, never married & no children. He's 38, never married & no children. He's always very sweet, generous and respectful to me. We get along well, but I am confused about whether he is dating me for the right reasons.

My concern is because when I asked him about his past relationships & why they ended, he told me that his last 2 girlfriends were not what he was looking for. He said he knew from the start that the relationship would not go anywhere, but he thought "what the heck & decided to date them anyway".

He also told me when the last girlfriend he dated told him those 3 little words he knew he had to break-up with her. So I am scared to tell him how I feel, plus when I tell him how great I think he is, he replies with "you're sweet".

We have met some of each others family. The past 2 girls did'nt meet his family, even one that he dated for 8 months. We have dated around three months.

Do you think he genuinely likes me or is he dating me for the heck of it?

2007-04-10 08:16:38 · 19 answers · asked by Ray-Ray 2 in Singles & Dating

Upon meeting a girl, how long should you wait to ask her out before you fall into the friend zone?

2007-04-10 08:15:09 · 13 answers · asked by Chuck 2 in Singles & Dating

12 year old boy very difficult. Will not listen. Very manipulative. Has his father wrapped around his finger. Help

2007-04-10 08:09:59 · 26 answers · asked by cummingsjennifer29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it was about an exgirlfriend who by the way lives with his sister down the street, ive always been fearful they would get back together and the other day we were going to split up for awhile and i asked him to promise me he woudnt go with her and he answered i cant, now i feel like he would if given the chance!

2007-04-10 08:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 08:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by Yunng Brad at tha Illiad 1 in Singles & Dating

i have had some bumps in my life and my friends influences and i blew that last few times. Any suggestions for them to trust me again

2007-04-10 07:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by blackshadowbabe33 1 in Family

This has become a very big problem in the country..
Many men and women are cheating each other!!
HIV affected people marry a normal person and after a year or 2 only the normal person cometo know about this!Then they will be having 1 or 2 kids also!!
Even many people committed suicide on knowing this!
Even this has been discussed in many television channel programmes!

Just feel free to tell your opinion regarding this!!!

2007-04-10 07:54:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I live with this guy, he is European (Polish). We live together because techincally we have to (long story) we are really close friends and about 3 weeks ago I started to have feelings for him. He was invited to a wedding which is this Saturday. He hasnt said anything about it (he told me when he went to the bachelor party) and if he is going to go I would love to go with him. I feel kinda awkward about asking him because I have been on an emotional rollercoaster the past few weeks. Should he invited me? Should I ask about it? I would have to get off of work so I would need to know now..and if he doesnt ask me, does that me he doesn't want to be seen with me, even though all his friends know about me? I am lost her...help!

2007-04-10 07:54:09 · 4 answers · asked by Lady Elena 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 07:48:47 · 4 answers · asked by Robbie O 1 in Singles & Dating

so whats more important? i love my husband and when we are apart i worry about him, but sometimes it feels like we do not connect...... BUT there is this man who i have been freinds with for over 15 yrs ... we new each other growing up ... i told him once he needed to grow up and some day we would meet again .. he did and we did.... dated for 8 weeks.best 8 weeks i had in a while ....I MISS HIM i came back to hubby , i love him but i cant get this other guy out of my mind!!! help!!!

2007-04-10 07:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 07:46:31 · 2 answers · asked by Paper Lilies 1 in Singles & Dating

U are dating a very handsome man & he seems to really be into u? I am very confident & I know that I am beautiful. I am dating this man who likes me for the person I am & most of all my personality. All the reasons that he has told me he likes me are the same reasons I like him. It’s just he is so handsome to a point where he is a “head turner” to women as we walk down the street & I am use to those type of guys being arrogant or coincident & he is not. It almost seems like he is unaware of how good he looks.

I have a friend who said she was dating a guy who said he was so tired of women treating him like he was a piece of meat, and it made him only want to date women who were attractive and confident enough in themselves so that how he looked would never be an issue. He told her he felt like women who were all over him were insecure & wanted somebody good looking on there arm to boost their on confidence. I was wondering do u think that this guy may have that same take on it?

2007-04-10 07:44:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

beautiful

2007-04-10 07:44:28 · 7 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

So now almost single status myself and my divorce almost final. ( have been seperated for a year) I am dating a man who as well has been seperated for a long time too ( about a year as well). He and his ex have talked about getting the ball rolling for offical divorce yet are not very active in doing so due to finaces. My question is even though it is over with in you heart and eyes and only a paper issue would it bother you as a woman to be single dating a man who says he will eventually get around to it when the funds are availbe? And for you men is it ok with you if you were in this possition knowing your girlfriend was bothered by it and he knows you are? They will not ever get back together neither will my ex and I but we both have good relationships due to children involved. Am I wrong to think of this as odd? I dont want to get married again for a while and my BF and I have discussed the issue yet I would like to know we are by law "single" if that makes sense. Your advice ty.

2007-04-10 07:35:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 12 yr old son lives with father by his choice when I took him home after spending spring break with me his dads grndmthr had died and wanted my daughter (14) to stay for funeral. We were 6 hours from home and she had no clothes with her but he said he would take care of it. He borrowed her clothes for the funeral but she was there for 5 days and he didnt get her any panties toothbrush or anything like that. I am mad and feel like I should say something but she asked me not to and just says she is not going back. What would u do

2007-04-10 07:32:29 · 8 answers · asked by pickletbug 2 in Marriage & Divorce