OK, I live with this guy, he is European (Polish). We live together because techincally we have to (long story) we are really close friends and about 3 weeks ago I started to have feelings for him. He was invited to a wedding which is this Saturday. He hasnt said anything about it (he told me when he went to the bachelor party) and if he is going to go I would love to go with him. I feel kinda awkward about asking him because I have been on an emotional rollercoaster the past few weeks. Should he invited me? Should I ask about it? I would have to get off of work so I would need to know now..and if he doesnt ask me, does that me he doesn't want to be seen with me, even though all his friends know about me? I am lost her...help!
2007-04-10 07:54:09 · 4 answers · asked by Lady Elena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe his invitation does not include a guest. And maybe, even if it did, he had to respond to the invitation by telling the couple whether he was coming alone or bringing someone, because they need a head count for the caterer. If the wedding is Saturday, it may be too late for him to include you, even if he wanted to. But the bottom line is, if you want to know something about his feelings, the only sure way to find out is to ask him. He may have no idea you "started to have feelings for him", so why would he ask you out? But you DON'T invite yourself along to a wedding.
2007-04-10 07:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again and again women want more, the same old story. Do not be jealous of his life and his social engagements. Never ask him to invite you along. You do not understand nor appreciate what freedom means. Be mature, be independent.
Find you own things to do. If you expect him to drag you along to this wedding, then that is emotional hyjacking. -You really want to be there knowing you basically invited yourself? He is a single, free agent. Be his friend, men hate to be manipulated, many in the beginning are quiet about it, but later they come to their senses. If you lure him w/ sex, you know it won't last.
2007-04-10 08:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not close friends with the people who are having the wedding, they really are under no obligation to invite you to thier wedding. So if your guy friend doesn not invite you or talk about the wedding in your prescence, do not take it personally, he probably knows you weren't invited, and doesn't want to embarras you! As for him not wanting to be seen with you, banish the thought!
Even if he doesn't invite you to this wedding, it doesn't mean he is no longer your friend, or may not have feelings for you, so chin up!
2007-04-10 08:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey y r u going through all these twists n turns? just face it n ask him that wud he mind if u go wid him.....i mean if he turns u down at least u wud come to know he is a bit resistant abt u n him seen together......i know this can be very disheartening but it wud be over wid once n for all.....so just go for it....
2007-04-10 08:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by anjali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋