well we have been together for 8 month now supose to get married in july and move together, but he's listening to lies other people are telling him when hes asking me to trust him. he even call up my ex boyfriend to ask sh i tt about me so my ex lie to him now he saying that he tought i was good im a liar and a whore. hes been go on for 8 month hes a soldier, i have never not even once cheated or even think bout doing that, he cant trust me and that hurt so badly that he would believe other's even my ex before me i dont wanna marry a men that do not love me i dont know what t do i love him so much and i cant stop crying, and i think that he dont trust me nomore then before.
thanks god bless
2007-04-10 08:32:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for starters you need to realize that it has zero to do with you and everything to do with his own insecurities. In other words you love'd the wrong guy. I'm sure he is quite a fella, shoot giving his life for his country, but the fact remains that he doesn't think much of his self. Because of that you dealing with the slack, your there to get the brunt of his self-hate, and personal neglect. You could try explaining to him why, how, and for what reason you love him so much, but then you need to worry about him getting suspicious about why you would do that.... but its your fight to fight, if honest doesn't work thou, you need to start loving yourself... get what you deserve, maybe a soilder who knows he is a soilder and that his women at home loves him....
2007-04-11 03:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋