so whats more important? i love my husband and when we are apart i worry about him, but sometimes it feels like we do not connect...... BUT there is this man who i have been freinds with for over 15 yrs ... we new each other growing up ... i told him once he needed to grow up and some day we would meet again .. he did and we did.... dated for 8 weeks.best 8 weeks i had in a while ....I MISS HIM i came back to hubby , i love him but i cant get this other guy out of my mind!!! help!!!
2007-04-10 07:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
follow your heart, never settle
2007-04-10 09:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by D lux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't love your husband at all. If you did you would not have the need to be dating anyone. Anyway, maybe you are just comfortable with what your husband provides for you (financially) and that's why you are still around. Sounds like you need to sit down and think about what you really want in life and out of your marriage. Maybe it's time you move on and let your husband be happy with someone who really loves him and has no need to cheat.
2007-04-10 15:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sort your head out.....big time.
Your husband is more important,and if you have any doubts about him not being more important then u need 2 get a divorce before you do anything with this other man.
Beware of the decision u make otherwise u could end up with noone.
2007-04-10 14:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's most important? Your marriage. If you love your husband in any way at all, you need to try and work on your marriage. It could be better than it ever was to begin with, and if you leave your husband for this other guy, you could end up miserable.
2007-04-10 14:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have ANY respect for your husband??? Cause if your married, it means your OFF limits, also no dating. I don't care if you had sex with this other guy or not, you cheated on your husband.
What's MOST important is being honest with your husband and not lying to him by having a boyfriend on the side.
2007-04-10 14:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing the right thing.
However, only you can say what the right thing is.
You can end your marriage and find out that the other guy only had 8 good weeks in him.
You can stay in your marriage and constantly wish you weren't their.
You can decide to be sad.
You can decide to be happy.
2007-04-10 15:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the other man out of your head. This will happen if you stop communicating with him. Concentrate on your husband and on ways to make him happy. Now get in that kitchen, woman and scarf up some vittles.
2007-04-10 14:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You dated him while married? No, You miss the tingle down the neck......of sneaking around and havind Sex.....Husband is more important than your little need of adultry.
2007-04-10 15:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tsk tsk tsk...
marriage counseling and for God's sake, quit dating while you are STILL married...even if you get a divorce, take some time to find out who the real YOU is so you don't keep making the same mistake...
2007-04-10 14:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by just browsin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you should get the other guy out of your head ,or be honest with your husband.Marriage is sacred!Either you love your husband, or this other guy?Which is it ?Only you can answer that.good luck
2007-04-10 14:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider getting a divorce, you don't seem to be happy in your current situation.
2007-04-10 14:53:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋