Family & Relationships - 10 April 2007

I have been married for 15 years and have 4 children. My husband has a tendancy to be very flirtacious when he is drinking but I feel he really crossed the line when he touched someone elses breast and kissed another girl in front of me. Is this considered cheating to anyone else and how should I handle this?

2007-04-10 05:31:02 · 29 answers · asked by perfectxxromance 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a non-muslim and now that I am married I have to change my religion to Islam. Should I seek divorce or should I stick with my marriage bec my family is not happy at all. They are genuinely worried for me as I will have to sacrifice a lot such as name change as well. Please advice. Thanks

2007-04-10 05:28:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. We are very in love, but decided it was best to break up last friday. It was devastating to me, but he wasn't ready for marriage and I was. One of the most important things in my life is the chance to be married and raise a family. He's still finishing college, and doing film school, and I'm done with school and working fulltime. Is it possible to love someone with all yourheart, but still remain broken up? Its the hardest thing to know that he's the one I want to be with for the rest of my life, and for him to kow the same, but for us to simply part ways and move out of our house that we made together. Am I making the right decision? Or should I stay with him for however long it takes for him to decide he is ready to marry me?

2007-04-10 05:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by hawaiianrain69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the meaning or reason as to why coins are used in a wedding? What are they for? How would the ceremony go?

2007-04-10 05:27:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-10 05:27:28 · 1 answers · asked by sexual investigation 1 in Singles & Dating

This past 3 months, my husband has being fantasying about my close friend and wants us to have a threesome. Is that acceptable? Are any of your husbands asking you to do some weird things like this or is it just my husband?

2007-04-10 05:27:15 · 45 answers · asked by bella v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl is my sister in law and for 7 years she has tried to turn our family against me and my husband against me too. she wont stop. she harasses on myspace and all my emails and has even talked to my friends about me saying lies. i am 6 months pregnant and the stress is kicking in alot. what is it i can do legally?

2007-04-10 05:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy T 1 in Family

2007-04-10 05:20:39 · 24 answers · asked by sexual investigation 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 05:18:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey every1, here's my story. I have been talking to this chick for about a month now. She has a bf but she tells me she doesn't see them going anywhere. This girl is very sexually open, always talking about her sex life etc. So I told her I like her, and she told me she doesn't cheat bla bla and I was like that's cool. Well, time has gone by, and we're still talking, and she's told me that she's now into me too. Bf is still in the picture. She tells me she sees us going somewhere and we even talk about having an affair together, should I go for it? Is she just using me to get at her bf or do you think she really is considering me? Cuz she's still with him, it's only been about 3 weeks though since we've been seriously flirting.

2007-04-10 05:17:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him when I was 23 and he was 30 and just going through a very bad divorce. We have been living together for 5 of the 6 years and at first I got along well with his 2 children. Now his daughter and I do not get along at all, whatsoever, and I cannot see this changing anytime soon. This has been my only relationship. Before this I had never had a boyfriend and have always thought low of myself. I have been just co-existing in this house but my boyfriend and I have drifted apart and I can honestly say I'm content with the situation but not happy. I recently met a guy at work who I really enjoy spending time with, who is single and closer to my age, and who has shown some interest in me and who I really enjoy talking to and being with. This has opened my eyes to how I really feel being in my current relationship. I'm not sure if I should try to stick it out and make it better or if I should just leave and try to move on.

2007-04-10 05:16:03 · 9 answers · asked by seeingred 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm assuming its far different than what makes a man cheat on his girlfriend. I'm familiar with all those reasons, but now I'm curious about the opposite sex's reasons for infidelity.

2007-04-10 05:15:56 · 48 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom took her and i to a physcologist. she wanted to use him as a mediator for us. she believes i am off track and spend to much time with my boyfriend. she tells the mediator how she does not want me to end up married with children at such a young age. i am only 17 and i don't plan on doing that what so ever and i told this to the mediator and how i want to get a good job, go to college and be the best and that nobody will stop me not even my boyfriend.
the mediator was more with me that my mom should just let me do what i wanna do since it seems like i know what is right to do and all the wrong things.
my mom is pissed now. (proly cause the doctor wasn't telling me that i was wrong)
i don't know what to do, sure its only been one day of her attitude towards me, but i want to help right away.

im only seventeen out of high school and just got kicked out of bootcamp. plan A didn't work out i want to go to college, but i like to have fun while im working towards my future :)

2007-04-10 05:14:05 · 1 answers · asked by Thereza 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Y do women call up ment that they really like & are interested in pursuing something more serious with & offer them sex. Don't they know that sex isn't going to make him be in a relationship with you & then they get mad ewhen the guy doesn't call or respond to them like they want him to.

Y do women offer sex when what they really want is love? Is it because they think men only want sex & that's the only way to get his attention & why do men take advantage of women that they claim they really have no genuine interest in but they sleeep with them anyway? Y do women call me 4 sex & then get mad when they don't want a relationshp? Y do men cheat on the women they claim they love to have sex with some skank they barely know? Y is sex so important that guys will risk loosing the woman they love 4 it?

2007-04-10 05:10:41 · 1 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

im a good girl (not perfect by far in that sence just im not one to sleeparound easy) who wants a bad boy, do bad boys want good girls?

2007-04-10 05:09:15 · 5 answers · asked by Shyporsha 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont want a date or anything like that. I nearly lost my wife and my two young children. I was thinking of just the word "CHOOSE" in bold lettering to help remind me of what I almost lost. I am open to any suggestions, or opinions.

2007-04-10 05:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by dave 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 05:08:20 · 1 answers · asked by PRiNC3SS_TiNk 1 in Singles & Dating

I just went abroad for 3 weeks regarding business, I came back last night and I just can't wait to meet my fiance! It feels like i've been gone for a year! However he's a little upset with me as i didn't call him while i was away. I can understand that he's missed me, i've missed him too but i feel like ive really let him down. We only get to meet in the weekends as he lives 3 hours away from me. I'm meetin him this friday at a really busy train station and I'm looking for a grand gesture to show him how much i've missed him and that I absolutely adore and love him loads! I thought about giving flowers... but i know i'll end up holding them! please help!

2007-04-10 05:08:18 · 3 answers · asked by resh187 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need unbiased advice. My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years was offered full tuition+ to a 6yr MA/Ph.D. program 2 states away. It's a 1-time opportunity for him. Although I'm happy for him, I can't commit to moving at this point. I am looking into jobs but don't want to move unless I have one, and even them, am a bit insecure about moving for a boyfriend, not fiancee. Plus, I am reluctant to leave my community & circle of friends -- already I live 1500 miles away from my core family. My boyfriend's best friend lives in the same city as the school, and now he is talking about buying a house with him if I don't make a decision soon (they both have money saved, I don't). He says he wants to be stable before school starts, they'd use VA loans to purchase. But not being legally a part of a mortgage & living w/ best friend makes me wary. He says he is committed and wants to marry eventually but not now just b/c of circumstances. I am 29 yrs old and don't want to mess around. Opinions?

2007-04-10 05:07:58 · 19 answers · asked by celi77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do??? if this was one time and one time only and you could only do one thing to this person... also for a bonus what would you do to the person the cheated with...

2007-04-10 05:01:37 · 22 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my b'friend to bits and I know he loves me but the problem is neither of us are sold on the marriage front mainly because of the expense, but I want the commitment that marriage gives.
So has anyone got any ideas on what we can do to 'get married' without actually getting married, if that makes sense!
We don't want anything big or even official by law, just something that shows to family, friends and each other how we feel.

2007-04-10 04:57:07 · 34 answers · asked by lee 2 in Weddings

Last year, the wife and I took 2 months off work to travel abroad & break ground on the house we hope to be moving into sooner rather than later. We've been back for 4 months.

To help us save, we moved in with her parents for very cheap rent and since then, she's made it clear that all the work she needs to do is enough to cover our rent and going out with all my wages going into savings.

This equates to 2 hours a day after which time, she comes home & gets into bed where 99 times out of 100, she still is when I get in, 7 hours later.

Both her parents and myself have full time jobs but we're the ones who do all the housework.

If I bring it up, I get nothing but tears (of course) and sorries and how she'll change but nothing ever does.

I know her parents aren't happy with it either but they're just happy to have her home and won't / don't say anything.

Also, she (naturally) gets bored so "we" have to get out of the house and spend the money we're supposed to be saving

2007-04-10 04:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by DMsView 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 04:47:05 · 12 answers · asked by dlfmvl_franklin 1 in Weddings

I'm going trough a divorce and I would like to talk to people in similar situations.....Can anybody help ?

2007-04-10 04:44:03 · 2 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend just got together and i wanted to play her some love songs. I just need some suggestions because im getting a blank.

2007-04-10 04:37:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jake C 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm wearing green for my wedding and I WANTED my bridesmaids to wear white. I can't seem to find any white bridesmaids dresses, so I began searching for prom dresses. Now, I found TONS of those in white but they all look a little... eh, "hooker"-ish? I just want my ladies to be cute and comfortable, not to look like street walkers! Where can I find plain white dresses that are semi-fancy and don't have huge holes cut out on the stomach and giant push up pads in the chest?!?

2007-04-10 04:34:57 · 23 answers · asked by sadlymistaken 2 in Weddings

My ex and I have been apart for a month, we dated for a year. he's 30 and I'm 25... We both mutually decided that we still want to have each other in our lives, I still love him and he says he thinks he still loves me , but just doesn't want a girlfreind righ tnow b/c he would just end up sabotaging it (lots of issues in his life right now). He said he wants to be friends and be able to do things friends would do and talk live civilized adults. This is great, but I stilll have feelings for him and he knows that. Is it possible to become friends (which I know takes time) with an ex with the hope that somewhere down the line in the future it could be more? I feel like he's "sewing his wild oates" before he "settles down". We had a wonderful relationship, I just don't think he's ready to commit (he's afraid of it b/c of his ex breaking his heart)... Is it possible to be friends and turn it into more, and if so, how? We are great as a couple, he's just not ready...

2007-04-10 04:34:57 · 20 answers · asked by Heather L 2 in Singles & Dating

LOL;)

(And if so,to # 1,2,or 3?!)

2007-04-10 04:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Singles & Dating

still faithful but extremley wanting to be with someone sexually dont know how much longer i should remain faithful or if i should persue my desire to have sex

2007-04-10 04:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by pillowtalk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i have to do to be able to get married in a catholic church (i'm not baptized or anything like that).

2007-04-10 04:32:43 · 15 answers · asked by delia a 1 in Weddings