still faithful but extremley wanting to be with someone sexually dont know how much longer i should remain faithful or if i should persue my desire to have sex
2007-04-10 04:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by pillowtalk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a lady who is very committed to relationships and integrity. My answer may not count but, I wouldn't cheat on my husband even if we were seperated for the mere reason that it was a vow I made to him and God. I would pursue the divorce.....and then go on with my life. That way, when I looked back, I could still respect myself and the decisions that I made. That's just me though.
2007-04-10 12:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been separated for two years, and you've lived apart for that long?
Chances are that one or both of you have already decided to go your separate ways and you're only married on paper anyway. Start getting the paperwork in order to terminate the legal marital relationship with your husband. At this point, being married on paper is it's just hindering you from proceeding with a potential relationship in the future.
If you really feel strongly about pursuing sex before the divorce is actually final....while It's still technically considered cheating...it's been two years apart, and it sounds like the relationship is pretty much over anyway. Go for it.
2007-04-10 04:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See you ahve not mentioned the reason for staying away. If you two are just separate because of some financial or career reason then tes it is cheating.
Even otherwise, it is , if you consider that you two are still married but think of it what your husband would be doing. If you have spent time with him, then you know him. Don't just wait if will not. If it is still giving you trouble then why don't you get separated legally. Otherwise, it will be adutery and even he may claim that you were that way and this may hamper your chances at alimony, when you finally do decide to get divorced.
Otherwise, you can take the plunge, if you indeed like somebody.
2007-04-10 05:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are separated two years and two states apart! Do you think he is being faithful to you? I doubt it highly, and after two years do you see the two of you getting back together? If not you need to file for divorce and get it over with.
I was only separated 1 year before I started dating and having sex again. But we knew we were not getting back together.
2007-04-10 04:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are married it is cheating.Once you get a divorce then you can play the field all you want.Your wedding vows were to be faithful so if you want to have sex with someone else I suggest that you get divorced..You are separated but you are still married..I personally would consider it cheating,until you are divorced..
2007-04-10 04:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may as well be single.this is whats called a moral dilemma i guess,you are separated so i supposed cheating wouldnt be the word to use but morally,,you are still married so the only thing to do is decide whether or not your religious beliefs stop you from dating within your 'marriage'. is your husband still faithful or has he moved on!
2007-04-10 04:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youa re legally seperated so you are allowed to do what you want. Just let the person you have sex with know your situation, 2 years is a long time not tobe divorced already
2007-04-10 05:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't state why you are separated, if it is due to a military deployment then no you don't cheat, if it is because you are considering divorce then file already, two years in tewo separate states ...don't you think he is fooling around?
2007-04-10 04:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are separated then it's not cheating. Chances are, your soon-to-be-ex husband is fooling around with other women, too.
2007-04-10 05:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating . But because you are not yet divorce it would be considered adultery.
Complete your divorce so that you won't feel guilty about finding a partner
2007-04-10 04:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋