Family & Relationships - 10 April 2007

how do i let go of the anger.i have tried counting to 100..that didnt work..i have tried talking to the person..but they wnt reply..i have tried the whole ear thing woosa...u know..what the F*CK SOULD I FREAKIN DO!!!!!!!!!! GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEBODY ELSE FEEL LIKE SCREAMING???? GO AHEAD AND SHOUT!!SCREAM LIKE HELL!! LET IT ALL OUT!!!!!!

2007-04-10 02:56:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking to one of my friends and we can't figure out how much it would cost to addopt a chinese baby girl. we have looked up on it but aint really found anything.

2007-04-10 02:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 02:53:13 · 27 answers · asked by atl_red_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been a dancer for 16 years, I went to college at 34 years old, to change my life dramatically, I always dreamed of being in the Law Enforcement field. I had a problem towards the A.T.S. Certicate you need to become a court officer, or any field of Police force. I'm still working hard towards that goal. However, I was seeking employment in the Security feild and I was offered employment in An Armed Security ( I have my gun Licence), but the pay was too little for me to live on, and survive. My boy friend I have been with for seven long years, can not support me at all, one with finacial, or mentally. Mistake I made in life being young and wanting to make lots of money, has only dramatically made me depressed, as the years of being trapped in that industry. I feel I have lost all my dreams, and respect for myself. I don't have a career in front of me, nor a man I feel that I waisted time with too. Sometimes I feel like running and running, but I have no place to go! :(

2007-04-10 02:49:13 · 20 answers · asked by too_b_ur_self 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Over the weekend, I got up at 4 am to go to my job. Since it was pretty cold outside, I decided to let my vehicle idle to allow it warm up. I let it idle, locked for about 10 minutes. When I went outside and approached my vehicle there was a police officer inspecting it with his spotlight. I told him it was my vehicle and I wanted it to warm up before leaving. He told me it was against the law to leave a idling vehicle unattended. I was unaware. When did this law begin enforcement?

2007-04-10 02:46:32 · 26 answers · asked by Teddy Bear 5 in Singles & Dating

I am waiting for my ex to come home to see if I could have a relationshhip with him. He joined the military and the long distance was too hard on both of us so he broke it off. I was with him for 6 years and knew him very well. Previously I thought that he was seeing someone else cause he was traveling to where she lived, I confronted him and he told me that no he wasn't he went there with a friend so he could see his fiancee and he also told me that he doesn't go there all the time. I got this letter in the mail from a traffic thing on a highway, it is the highway he has to travel all the time to go to this place, and this is how they bill you for traveling the toll. It stated that he has been going down there every weekend. So now I know something is going on but because there was a fight last time I confronted him I do not want it to happen again. He told me he loves me and sees himself with me. How do I confront him without it turnbing into a huge fight?

2007-04-10 02:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im about to 15 and my bf is going to be 18 in a couple months... one... when do you think is the rite age for dating and 2 is that 2 far apart of an age difference...

2007-04-10 02:40:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and i haven't seen my dad since i was 4 years old. I have brothers and sisters i have never met and would like to find out about them. My dad's name is/was Toby Mitchell. Or atleast that's what i know him as! Does anyone know how i could find out who they are? Please help me if you can!

2007-04-10 02:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by sahara 1 in Family

ok I play football and there is this guy he likes me and we went out alittle before football started but now he said he wants me to quit football because he wants to date me again but doesent want to be in volved with someone on the team.
I like football but I also like the guy. I been in football for 3 years now sense my sophmore year of high school

please help thank you

2007-04-10 02:37:13 · 14 answers · asked by bearcatz_07 4 in Singles & Dating

I am married for almost a year now, I am a house maker and do not go for work, the problem is I feel bad to ask money from my husband for my personal shopping. Of course he provides me with "essential" items, at times I come across nice dresses but I feel he may think I am spending too much. I dont shop very often, should I tell him to give me a pocket money to do my personal shopping....please help

2007-04-10 02:36:13 · 23 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My siginificant other works all day, then goes to school every night, while I work and take care of his child. I am a great mom, to his kid and mine, I also work too. I am just so mad that I do all household stuff, he has no responsibility except to himself, and the only thing he says when he comes home last night is to complain about how my son wasted half a can of diet soda by not drinking it all. No kind words, nothing nice, just come home complaining after I took wonderful care of 3 boys all day. All I wanted was to be held or kissed or to talk about our days, but I got nothing. I pay my fair share of expenses too, and do everything at the house.

2007-04-10 02:32:14 · 16 answers · asked by T C 2 in Family

I have never hit on any of his previous girlfriends nor would I ever. I 've done nothing but extend a friendship to his fiancee and be a part of the group/family. She is also my friend too. We talk, hang out, and have a good time as friends. When we all hang together, fun time. When she and I hang out by ourselves or with other friends and he is not there, he tends to give me "the business" like "YOU are with her?" I've done nothing to deserve this. What should I do?

2007-04-10 02:29:03 · 6 answers · asked by bearito99 1 in Friends

I liked one boy,and we have been in relatinship before 3 monts. Now,we are in relationship ( I think soo). I asked him last night are we togeder or not...? He answerd to me- Not...
What should i do?

2007-04-10 02:27:50 · 12 answers · asked by Tamara K 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you "make" your ex want you back? If he calls 2 days after he dumped you just to "see how you are" and you acted really happy and said you've been soo busy and out meeting new people, hangin out with friends etc, and that you were just about to go for a drive with a guy friend n he's like "oh ur goin out with a guy r u?" does it mean he might be regretting his decision? Or is he just making sure you don't hate him because he doesnt like ppl hating him?

I know you cant MAKE someone want you back, but if you dumped your ex becos u thought u were too different, would all the stuff I was saying mayb make you want her back? What about if next time you call and she says "Im just about to go out for drinks with a guy i met on the weekend"? What are other ways to make your ex rethink his decision?

Dont answer if you're just gonna say somethin like "forget him" or "why bother" If you answer, then answer the question please.

2007-04-10 02:27:34 · 9 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-10 02:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a recently divorced single mom of 2 small children (4 and 19 months). I have been dating a single guy for a couple months and we really hit it off. We are crazy about each other because we connect in so many ways and have so much in common. He tells me he loves me often. Just last week, though, he lost his job due to a company merger falling through and he is now expressing fears of being a good "father" to my kids because of both his abusive childhood and because their father is still very much a part of their lives. He said that this is the only issue he sees breaking us up. I think he would make a great dad someday. My kids adore him. Should I leave him because he is expressing doubts or should I just enjoy being with him until the day he decides that he definitely can't be a "parent" to my kids? He says it would be easier for him if either I didn't have kids or if I was a widow because then he would know what his role was.

2007-04-10 02:23:11 · 13 answers · asked by cschulenberg01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Married 13 years +,both of us young - 2 kids, 3 & 8. My Am./Irish inlaws live 25 min. away - husband's mom, older single sister, and a sister my age with a husband and 3 kids. Father passed 8 yrs. ago.
I'm from Europe. Mother in law has always called me picky (I'm a designer), she's NEVER said anything nice about anything I do.
For the last year, her relationship w/ us have worsened (since the birth of her daughter's twin girls). Never calls, never comes over, or has any interactions with the kids (the 3yr. old she barely knows) - although when she does see them it's; "Grammy's boys" - hypocrite! Other than her and the aunts, my boys don't have any other family on this continent, which makes me sad - I'm family oriented - grew up surrounded w/ people who loved and cared.
She babysits maybe 2/3 times a yr. Hard on our marriage - no support system! I've tried including her, now I'm just mad.They offend me in my own home - no hello, change subject... Communion is coming, what do I do?

2007-04-10 02:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that emotions can make you ill. usuallly ex's, like after you have seen them again or found out they with someone or something like that do you feel sick and ocasionally are.its a very sudden and strong feeling. why does it affect you physically? has anyone else had this horrible experience or does anyone know why it happens?

2007-04-10 02:19:39 · 23 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married Nov 3, 2007... I know I need to send them 8 weeks prior. When should I ask my friend to have the invites done for me so I can start writing them out. I just don't want to leave it open and then be killing myself writing them all out a few days before. She is very good at these things but has been extremely busy with other orders. She wants to do my invites for me but I just want to keep an eye out so I don't get over loaded. When should I have all the invitations back from the printer?

2007-04-10 02:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my nephew refuses to ride the city bus to work he would rather walk or call in!! my sister has to leave her job just to come home and take him to work..the bus stop is right in front of their house! he says "nobody rides the bus anymore!" what do you think?

2007-04-10 02:17:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to marry my girlfriend, but she is a Jehovah's witness and I am not. I also have believe in celebrating some the things that she does not such as birthdays, Christmas, and Thanksgiving, and I DON'T want to deprive our 8 month old son of anything like that. What can be done? Do I have to convert, or is there a way around it? She says, that I have to convert, yet I think there is a loop hole in the system that would allow for me to marry her regardless of me being a Witness or not. Anyone that wants to answer this, PLEASE email me or IM me on messenger. Thank you.

2007-04-10 02:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by Adam L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Asked this earlier-what more opinions (guys especially)!!

Does he want commitment?
my bf and i have been together for 2.5 years now. it was rocky in the beginning b/c of a condition i was just diagnosed with that cause me to be severely moody and irritable during my period (we broke up a few times over it). we've been together w/no break ups for a solid year now. i always spend time at his house every other weekend and sometimes on the nites we work (we both work nites and have the same schedule). he has spent the nite at my house a few times but says it doesn't feel right b/c my kids (3 girls i have part-time) are there. we usually do things w/the kids outside of the home or he'll come watch a movie w/us at my house. he told me he loved me at the 3 month mark and always tells my kids he loves them. we met each other's families and i'm really close to his. we've talked about moving in and getting married (he bought me a 1500.00 necklace in Feb for my b-day).

does he really want commitment? we are both 28-he's never lived w/anyone or been married. i have.

2007-04-10 02:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by prncessang228 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-10 02:11:45 · 16 answers · asked by smi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

let me start by discribing myself.i'm light skin.golden brown kinda hair.really pretty.nice untop.mall in the middle and really nice below.perfect shape.but i need some more people to talk to.so u wanna give me yuor email address?guys please

2007-04-10 02:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by sexyreds 1 in Friends

my wife says i have no reason to be jealous, instead of talking, she says i'm tired and going to bed, but yet she sits on her computer mailing men she works with until all hours of the night. we do not have a good sex life she says it hurts to have sex but wont go to the doctor.and then she tries to tell me i'm being jealous....can it be saved

2007-04-10 01:57:50 · 24 answers · asked by george d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are marriages made in heaven...

2007-04-10 01:54:01 · 28 answers · asked by Amar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the persons social security number, date of birth and that they may be living in bronx ny

2007-04-10 01:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by Leasing O 1 in Family

All right everyone I need your help. The wedding coordinator just asked me the matron of honor to present the bride something new. By the way the wedding is next week. Any suggestion!

2007-04-10 01:46:06 · 20 answers · asked by Que 2 in Weddings

My parents have three 8" x 10" pictures of myself and my ex-husband prominently displayed in their living room. I have asked a couple of times if they wouldn't mind moving them as I find it upsetting to see them every time I visit but they refuse on the grounds that it reminds them of "a lovely day".

I have now met someone else who I'd like to introduce to my parents but these pictures are putting me off taking him there. Should I broach the subject again or am I being too sensitive?

2007-04-10 01:43:50 · 22 answers · asked by Acey_Face_67 1 in Family

2007-04-10 01:22:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings