Marriages are made in heaven?

Question

Are marriages made in heaven...

Answer 1

yes it is made in heaven
but
you have to live thru hell
.......haha :-)

Answer 2

Marriages are made in heaven by faith but the married couple has to live on the earth. Clearly, it is the responsibility of the couple to bring the joys of heaven in their real married life by their tactful deeds by best utilizing their talents together. So, both of the two should always be positive, co-operative, polite, tolerant, sweet , soft & sincere in words & actions to keep the life partner always so much happy that the house in which they live becomes a real small heaven on the earth not only for them rather a nice example for others to follow . That must be the real purpose of the marriage. Other matters like running the family for whole life is managed successfully by almost all families as usual. So, it all depends on the joint attitude of the couple how to achieve such real heavenlike atmosphere of joy in the house which is possible too easily, undoubtedly. After marriage in the first meeting itself both should first make a strong commitment that they will never adopt any negative thing with each other in all aspects of future life. That creates a sweet beginning i.e., half haven achieved then itself( well begun, half done). If both are honest, just, peace loving & are free from so called many unnecessary personal egoes in husband-wife matters, it is very easy, never impossible at all. I've come across persons whose married life broke due to very-very trivial matters based on false or real egoes & lack of small adjustments which one has to make at every stage of life. Only basic principles of human dignity & honour are not to be compromised. Rest depends on how much both love each other & what they do to sustain the same. That is the real successful achievement.

Answer 3

Heaven has nothing to do with it. At all. A marriage that lasts is due to the two persons being able to communicate and compromise with one another. Knowing when to take a stand and when to pull your horns in and think that this battle you're about to enter into isn't really all that important to you after all. Swallowing some pride. Being humble and not too proud or afraid to admit that you were wrong. Not being afraid to change if it pleases your spouse and not having to change because your spouse is content or can adjust to your idiosyncrasies.
Marriage made in heaven? No such thing.

Answer 4

Not Really if made in heaven why many marriages are broke?

Answer 5

Not at all and there is no such thing as heaven or hell to the best of our knowledge accumulated over centuries and millenniums of human existence in this planet.
If two minds at home can form a team ,then they make heaven out of their living ,otherwise you know what happens.

We talk about management ,leadership, understanding,co-operation,delegation,decision making ,time management ,team building etc and also achieve results in an office environment ,but people fail miserably in their personal lives.Why?
Because they (the couple in the home environment)are not motivated with increments,promotions,foreign tours,stock options, reimbursement of medical,leave travel etc etc but they keep their EGO bloated and that creates negative results and failure inn the home front of even very successful executives in their office environment.
nothing more to add as anything good or bad is with in the domain of the partners and no external factors can damage it ,if they work together as a team..............TEAM. AND NOT AS PROFESSIONAL OR POLITICAL OPPONENTS.

Answer 6

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

you have to make your heaven by your self dear

sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

don't think that god had already made some one for you start searching now


other wise no heaven, no hell

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

just joking

best of luck for your life ahead

Answer 7

we'll everybody has there ups and downs. marriage should be made in heaven. but you have alot of them turned bad.

Answer 8

i absolutely disagree...
many christian believers believe such thing...but i don't think so cause my opinion we have free will to do anything but despite of that God demands our responsibility to our actions.
if marriage is heaven made then why there are any poligamic actions happened example salomons have 300 wives is it means that God is unfair??No!!
God permit us to seek our mate (its from the bibble but i forgot the section, some where in old covenant) that means "He give us free will" , i think God have arranged us to meet our mate but we have any free choice to accept or refuse our future mate but we must ready with our choices we have made.


that's all my opinion

thanx

Answer 9

No. They are decided in heaven and performed on earth.

Answer 10

lets come to earth....marriages are made and fixed by two induviduals who make it heaven

Answer 11

I think mine is lost in space, but at least I think that makes it closer to heaven than hell...!