will he marry me?

Question

Asked this earlier-what more opinions (guys especially)!!

Does he want commitment?
my bf and i have been together for 2.5 years now. it was rocky in the beginning b/c of a condition i was just diagnosed with that cause me to be severely moody and irritable during my period (we broke up a few times over it). we've been together w/no break ups for a solid year now. i always spend time at his house every other weekend and sometimes on the nites we work (we both work nites and have the same schedule). he has spent the nite at my house a few times but says it doesn't feel right b/c my kids (3 girls i have part-time) are there. we usually do things w/the kids outside of the home or he'll come watch a movie w/us at my house. he told me he loved me at the 3 month mark and always tells my kids he loves them. we met each other's families and i'm really close to his. we've talked about moving in and getting married (he bought me a 1500.00 necklace in Feb for my b-day).

does he really want commitment? we are both 28-he's never lived w/anyone or been married. i have.

his sister is getting married in June and when we got into a fight (my bf and I ) the last time-she never sent me a "save the date" card for the wedding. i was worried i wasn't invited and he said "well then i have 3 months to propose." i'm not sure how to take that comment. i never brought it up again after he said it. we have looked at rings online (once with his mom sitting right there) and he asked me about 6 months ago where i good place to buy a ring would be....

oh-and he just gave me the key to his house last week. i'm the first girl (outside of his old roomates) that has had a key to his house.

Answer 1

Yes, I hear wedding bells in your future! Go ahead, and pick out the wedding dress. It's only a matter of time! With all the "smoke" going on, there's bound to be some fire! Good Luck!!

Answer 2

You shouldn't have to ask anyone but him if he wants a commitment. If you have been together for 2 1/2 years you should have whatever information you need to know if you should marry this guy. You have a decision here as well. And by the way, he is right to not feel right staying with you because of your girls.

Answer 3

Sounds like he loves you, and would want a comitment, but stop pushing him, how unromatic is that. He's never been married or live with a girl, he's going to take baby steps. bare with it.
As far as the sisters wedding...Your taking it wayyyyyy to personal. Your her brother's girlfriend of course your comming, you dont need a special invite, that's just selfish. I think in this siutation you were wrong. If my bf's brother was getting married i wouldnt expect a special invite, you go with the his brother...it's her day, quit trying to make yourself the special one.

your boyfriend will no doubt commit, stop rushing, or you'll ruin YOUR SPECIAL moment.

Answer 4

DANGER DANGER little girl. Going way to fast. It sounds like there are many issues you two need to over come before making that jump. Between now and then, don't get pregnant and keep supporting yourself. I hope that necklace doesn't cloud your judgment. There are so many things which that $1500 could have done instead of around your neck. Think about it.

Answer 5

Yes...it sounds like marriage can be in your future. It's hard when we're put in this position. I was 25 and READY for a proposal...and finally got it. But when my fiance would mention things about rings and stuff I wouldn't know how to question him on it. I didn't want to keep bringing it up, but I didn't just want to let it go either. But it sounds to me like he's already committed, and he's thinking about the next step. I hope everything works out for you!

Answer 6

I think "if he's smart" he'll notice how desperate and clingy you are and consider this before he commits his entire life to you. Most guys DON'T want to be married and will do it if there pressure. We see too many unhappy males drained by overbearing women in marriage and it's not something that we look forward to, like women (and little girls) do. I've been married since 1975 and happily separated (living 400 miles away) since 1996. Marriage sucks.

Answer 7

The fact that the word "propose" actually slipped through his lips, means that he's actually considered the idea, and it sounds like if things keep going well, you have a pretty good shot at getting that ring.

Answer 8

i know how you feel ,you haven't a proper yes from him.you feel like hanging in between.i feel he has long term plan with you ,so don't rush.i think it will happen soon.best wishes.