I have never hit on any of his previous girlfriends nor would I ever. I 've done nothing but extend a friendship to his fiancee and be a part of the group/family. She is also my friend too. We talk, hang out, and have a good time as friends. When we all hang together, fun time. When she and I hang out by ourselves or with other friends and he is not there, he tends to give me "the business" like "YOU are with her?" I've done nothing to deserve this. What should I do?
2007-04-10 02:29:03 · 6 answers · asked by bearito99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I agree that you have done nothing wrong, however you have to understand that this is his girl we are talking about. Would you want your best pal to hang out with your main lady. Surely you see that there could be areas of misunderstanding and disagreement. When you start swapping stories you might say something that he will regret. Or she might say something that he feels you do not deserve to know.
this is his gal, I suggest you leave them to it.
2007-04-10 02:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by gutsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a talk with him over a beer or something and tell him that your relationship with his fiancee is strictly friendship and nothing more. Ask him why he is so concerned about him hanging out with her. Maybe he is not concerned abut you, but his fiancee. But tell him you are all friends and there is nothing wrong with seeing each other.
2007-04-10 09:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kaydens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I feel is that you should try to keep distance from your oldest and best friends fiancee as he is giving you signs of alarm.Iam sure once you do this he will feel the silly insecurity subsiding .Try to give him the space and security as only you can understand your best friend best.
2007-04-10 09:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by emdee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're being a tiny bit naive. Put yourself in his position....how would you feel if he was hanging round with your fiancee?
2007-04-10 09:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if one friendship is more important than the other or just let it go till the anger passes.
2007-04-10 09:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a dick. Hook up with her and telll her to dump the looser.
2007-04-10 09:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋