How can you "make" your ex want you back? If he calls 2 days after he dumped you just to "see how you are" and you acted really happy and said you've been soo busy and out meeting new people, hangin out with friends etc, and that you were just about to go for a drive with a guy friend n he's like "oh ur goin out with a guy r u?" does it mean he might be regretting his decision? Or is he just making sure you don't hate him because he doesnt like ppl hating him?
I know you cant MAKE someone want you back, but if you dumped your ex becos u thought u were too different, would all the stuff I was saying mayb make you want her back? What about if next time you call and she says "Im just about to go out for drinks with a guy i met on the weekend"? What are other ways to make your ex rethink his decision?
Dont answer if you're just gonna say somethin like "forget him" or "why bother" If you answer, then answer the question please.
2007-04-10 02:27:34 · 9 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you know what it means? I tell you precisely what it means. It means you two are playing head games with one another. He dumps you, then calls and seems alittle taken aback you're seeing someone, he isn't regretting his decision, he's working at making you tell him you want him back. You...are doing the very same thing, except you're using jealousy as a tool. Which is actually a loaded gun that has a tendency to misfire and blow up in your face.
You two have a masochistic and sadist streak inside of you. You enjoy trying to make one another jealous at the expense of the other persons emotions.
If you really cared about one another you'd cease this foolishness and employ the art of communication and comprimise instead of childish and very dangerous head games.
There. No "forget him" or "why bother?". That's the base pure situation. Plus...you know I'm right when I say it. You both are quite transparent in that respect.
2007-04-10 02:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy, but the best way to do that is to act like you're better than ever without him. Put effort in how you look, be really social, happy, outgoing and flirtatious towards others in front of his eyes, without putting any notice to him. Then he'll see you're strong, independent and don't need him, making you sexier than ever. When he sees you with other guys, he'll remember why he started liking you in the first place and regret dumping you. If not, then just continue what you're already doing and find a new guy worth your while! But at the end of the day, don't waste your time trying to get back on a guy like him. Honestly if he dumped you over a text so that he could go for other girls, he's clearly a complete low life. You deserve better, don't go down to his level by plotting a strategy to make him regret dumping you. Just move on!
2016-04-01 06:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh toughie... Honestly I think we ALL want to make our ex jealous. It's better to just move on, but I see you won't do that so:
Try to make him jealous by actually seeing you with someone else. Men love what they cannot have. Date another man for awhile (careful because you can end up hurting the other guy) and look GREAT when your ex sees you. Act like you don't want him back and that you have completely moved on...
When he seems to be missing you or regretting things, in private (completely dressed beautifully!) hint to him that you still have feelings for him... then get up and go back to the guy you were dating....
Keep him on his toes! Make him jealous.
Wear the perfumes that he liked or clothes he loved.. put your hair up or down like he liked....
Best of luck.
2007-04-10 02:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Geez will you grow up?!
You are a drama queen and you want to play games with your ex-boyfriend...why??
I hope you end up with your feelings hurt and feeling stupid...because all you're showing me is that you're immature and selfish....
How old are you?
If you're 13 or 14 then I can understand.....but if you're like over 21 and acting this way...then stop.
Get a life.
2007-04-10 02:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you dont get mad get even.... Make out as though you are having a great time.... And seeing lots of people.... dont go on dates straight away....but mention that you have had interest... but that you think it is too early and that you need some time ( like a couple of weeks before starting dating again ).....that will make .....his blood boil.....
My Ex absolutely ruined me.... but I have found a lovely girl... who is better looking.... so that must rub a bit of salt into the cut.....
Ha hahaha
Good luck......
Oh if you really dislike him sleep with is friends or brother..... that will mentally destroy him.... =]
2007-04-10 02:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can make someone want you back just by moving on and basically showing him that life goes on without him and soon he'll realize that he wants to be with you and that no one compares to you. And that you were the best thing that ever happened to him and he'll try to get back with you once he sees what he's missing out on, especially if he's the jealous type.
2007-04-10 02:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lady T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls for a few days and when he does call and say oh, i called you but you were not home say yeah I am enjoying my freedom going out having a blast would love to chat but my friend "john" Mike or whate ver guy name you choose to use is waiting gotta run bye. Keep him guessing and have fun rave about a guy who you met that is totally hot but a gentleman and how much you two have to chat about
2007-04-10 02:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it really depends on the specific situation, but I would find a way to show him how incredibly hot you are while seeming mostly unavailable, busy, and happy.
2007-04-10 02:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by amazelle8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just try to treat him as friend first, then treat him good. so good that he finds that actually you are the best to him so he wants you back. or regret?
2007-04-10 02:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by sweaty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋